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grrrr...wasted my time at the grocery store.

18 years ago

Well, I actually took the time to prepare before heading out this morning. I had a couple of recipes that I wanted to make - among them - AnnT's pork chile verde, and a Food network recipe for spanikopita chicken meatballs.

So as I walk up to the cheese specialty case - it's empty. The entire thing! Seems they cleared it to "reset" it...????? So No Feta.

Then as I head down aisle after aisle looking for bottled or canned tomatillos - there are none to be found anywhere. So I say - oh well, I'll get some fresh! I found the bins where they WERE - and there was one left. sheesh - like that'll help...

Then I got two containers of yogurt - one vanilla - as I add this to Sammy's dog food - and one plain - to drain to use in the sauce for the meatballs...(It calls for greek yogurt - but I have never in my life found it anywhere - not even Wegman's...) And I get home and I have TWO Vanillas. Had to run out to the little store at the corner to get plain.

But the other day when we were in Buffalo, I found SOOOO many things that I have been wanting - like chili oil to make those rum glazed key lime shrimps! (boy were they good!)

Sorry, I'm rambling. I just hate not finding what I need...and I am soooo not the type to want to make repeated stops to get what I need.

Do you stop at different stores to get what's on sale? Or are you a one stop shopper?

Comments (27)

  • 18 years ago

    I'm a one stop shopper. I'm not wild about grocery shopping and I only stop at multiple stores when I'm buying something that is only available in one specific store.

    Also, I prefer to shop in smaller stores. We have a pretty small HEB near my house and it's sooo much easier to go there than to try to navigate the monstrously large "full selection" stores. I don't like to shop at Sam's for that same reason, the place is just too darn big! They're building a Costco directly across the street from my office and I will definitely check it out but it's going to have to be fantastic to make me really want to shop there regularly!

  • 18 years ago

    I generally do most of my shopping at Giant. It's farther away than the Safeway, but Safeway quite often makes me want to take an ax to the entire place it's so frustrating.

    It's not uncommon to go into the Safeway and see 20 people in each of two lines, with no other checkstands open.

    The Safeway remodeled a couple of years ago. They put in a row of about 12 checkstands.

    The 3 to 4 checkstands all the way to the left? They're never used. They're piled under seasonal items, returns, stuff waiting to be staged, whatever.

    A few months ago Safeway put in 4 U-Scan registers. It's very rare, though, that all four are working. Normally two are out of service.

    But, I go to Safeway to get Mason his dog bones and they also have killer sales on soda and occasionally meat.

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  • 18 years ago

    My choice in stores is very limited. The closest is two miles and is smaller that the same store that is ten miles away. Another store that is eleven miles has to use the same grocery distributor but is not owned by that distributor like the other two, so they do have some different items. I end up going to the closest store most often unless I really need something that I know they won't have, then it's off to the bigger store.

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  • 18 years ago

    I prefer going grocery shopping any day over clothes shopping. I'm a "foodie" and I find it comforting to go around the store and find all different kind of products. Cooking is a stress relief for me and I enjoy making and eating good food.

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  • 18 years ago

    Another who goes to several different stores. I always shop the flyers and that usually means at least three different large grocery stores. Today I actually went to two different locations of the same store trying to pick up lobster tails that were on sale. Ended up with 3 tails, yes 3, I was more than a bit annoyed. Irks me when they can't keep enough stock of the specials to satisfy demand.

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    Also picked up beef tenderloin at $9.99 a pound. However the price of gas will soon negate the savings for running the flyer route!

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  • 18 years ago

    Like Dixie, I'd much rather shop for food than for clothes, I hate and detest shopping for clothes.

    Like Nancy, however, my choices are limited. Fortunately I grow much of my own food, so my shopping is limited. I have one small, local, independent grocery store, the next closest is 15 miles away. With the price of gas, if I go anywhere I make sure I pick up specialty items if I can.

    when I go to Elery's I have a field day at Whole Foods and Trader Joe's, and this weekend we have a family function/wedding dinner in Ohio (yes, for us, LOL). We're hoping to make a side trip to Jungle Jim's International Market. Now THAT'S fun, just don't make me shop for jeans!

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  • 18 years ago

    Stacy -- what frustration! That has happened to me. I have my shopping list for a certain dish and when I get there the store is out of whatever I need.

    We used to have a wonderful small Super Fresh right down the street. It was great. You could get in and out quickly (minus the time you spent talking to friends you meet)and generally could find what you need. Then they decided to renovate and make it all fancy-shmancy. No more ordinary up and down aisles. Now you have to wind through displays of ten kinds of olives and shrimp all cooked for you (boy does that stink). The aisles are narrow and they even got carts that are narrow and deep to fit through. It kills your back to retrieve heavy things from the bottom.

    So now I shop at TJ's and the farmer's market. I just got back from Food Source where I picked up some take-out and a couple things. I tend to shop that way -- just picking up this and that as I go. Once every six weeks a do a real shopping where I stock up on TP and detergent etc.

    I really don't like grocery shopping and I really hate putting it away when I get home.

  • 18 years ago

    I kind of enjoy it - if there aren't any unforeseen frustrations - lol - but it just seems that my entire day can so often be eaten away by running around...

    I love visiting new and exciting food places/markets - like Jungle Jim's or the International Market that we visited in Toronto when we saw Sharon and Clive...but when I've got my list and can't find something - watch out!

    LOL!

    Stacy

  • 18 years ago

    I am with the "love-to" crowd. I actually browse in supermarkets. I love food, love to cook, eat, shop and talk about food. It is much better than shopping for clothes,household goods or anything I can think of. And I am with the "shop-several-times-a-week" crowd. There are several supermarkets within walking distance of my house and I have most orders delivered. I also really like taking my little red shopping cart up to the Avenue for in-between shopping. I don't spend much money on apparel and other more typical splurges, so I feel entitled to the occasional "extra" for a special ingredient.

  • 18 years ago

    Stacy,
    I feel your pain! I love grocery shopping, I guess because one of my first jobs was in one, but I hate when they are out of stuff. As I only have Kroger and Walmart to shop at, it is more common that they simply don't carry an item. When I moved here, I couldn't buy things like cannellini beans or arborio rice. It's only been in the last year or so that the stores here have started stocking more "exotic" ingredients.

    BTW, isn't Jungle Jim's the most amazing place? My SIL lives right down the road from there, so we make it over there every once in a while.

    Here is a link that might be useful: Jungle Jim's

  • 18 years ago

    Living in the sticks makes grocery shopping a challenge. I have one small market in town that mostly caters to the tourists. The meat is very good but expensive. They do have the best tee shirts though. ThatÂs how much I hate clothes shopping. There is a Vons on the other end of the lake but with gas at $4.59 here today I try to limit my trips, 35 miles round trip, over there to when I go visit my dad. I used to go at least twice a week but now maybe just once.

    I do most grocery shopping, well any kind of shopping, in Bakersfield, 120 mile round trip, and used to go just about any time the mood struck. Now I am limiting myself to only about twice a month. DH calls it a spending marathon. I have a plug in ice chest that live in the back of my car and my objective is to fill the car up so tight that nothing rolls in the tight part of the canyon. You may laugh but I one had a Costco chicken go flying and my car smelled like chicken until I got new floor mats. We wonÂt even talk about the 2 bottles of brandy that smashed and broke all over the back seat. Thank goodness I wasnÂt stopped the car reeked. That one cost a bundle to have the car detailed.

    DH works in Bakersfield so I can have him stop at Costco but it usually doesnÂt save any money because he will see something he canÂt live without. One of the perks he has is gas so at least we donÂt have that expense.

    My most recent complaint about shopping is the new thing about being asked at just about everywhere I shop to donate to the charity of the week. I sent an email to Vons asking them to reconsider their policy. The checkers have to ask but I feel itÂs an invasion of my personal business. I know I can just say no but I really take offence at being asked in the first place.

    I guess I donÂt hate grocery shopping but itÂs certainly not fun. I usually get the car unloaded before DH gets home but the next morning I have to put everything away. One good thing is the rule that if I go to Bakersfield I donÂt have to cook dinner when I get home.

    Claudia

  • 18 years ago

    One store usually except for the monthly trip to Costco. Sometimes the store doesn't have everything I need and I end up in three stores. Even though we recently got a Publix about a mile or less from me, they still don't carry everything I want and I asked them to carry a few items and they tell me they can't. These arent exotic items mind you. Yet they carry some more exotic items that no one wants. So I don't shop there as much as I used to. DH will sometimes go to Wal-Mart for paper products. I try to never go there.

    I would give anything for a Pea Pod service here.

  • 18 years ago

    Like a few here, I'd much rather grocery shop than shop for clothes!!! I'm not a one-stop shopper though.

    My main shopping is done at the Commissary at MCAS Miramar, once a month. That's what we call "Stock up".

    Then we shop Wal-Mart's food section (limited; we don't have a Super Wal-Mart yet, and though they're planning one, the town criers are lobbying against it). I shop sales and fresh stuff at Stater Bros and Henry's (like a Wild Oats), but will only go into Vons if they have a really good sale on something I need/want (like the red seedless grapes they have today). Wal-Mart, Stater Bros, Henry's and Vons are all within a half mile of my house so gas is not at issue. If Albertsons has something good, there's one on my way home from work, but normally that's not a stop.

    To Claudia near Bakersfield: I hear ya. My DH and I used to live in a small town in Arizona with one grocery store. Decent grocery prices were 70 miles away, down in Tucson or in Phoenix. We used to make a once-a-week run to Tucson for a class I had to take, so we'd take a cooler along and stop at the grocery store before class. Also, my daughter broke a bottle of Worcestershire in one of our cars about 6 years ago. Whew! It smelled until the day she wrecked that car!

    DonnaR/CA

  • 18 years ago

    well, I haven't actually been to a Jungle Jim's - I was just taking Annie's cue - but tracey, it looks great!cannellini beans - exotic? LOL but I understand.

    I guess, there's a give and take to everything. I love raising my son in a small town and the fact that small independent store owners actually have a chance of making it - but oh how I'd like a Target haha - or another large grocery store chain to come in and challenge the one we have. Some of the checkout people are so rude...Oh, well - we are actually getting a superWalMart - but I hate that store. They are the only place I've found fingerling potatoes on a regular basis though. sigh.

    I'm enjoying hearing all the input - it's very interesting.

    Stacy

  • 18 years ago

    Stacy, you've found fingerling potatoes at a WALMART? Wow, that sure doesn't happen here. All the local WalMart produce is not fresh, having been trucked from South Somewhere to Michigan and they only have the "usual" stuff. None of them in my area even have fresh herbs, I looked there for cilantro one time and was met with that blank stare I often get from the "Walmartians", those people who work there that seem to be from another planet.

    Annie

  • 18 years ago

    Thank-you for rambling on! Popped Led Zepplin in my head... at least until work intrudes again.

    Peace sister!

    : )
    lyra

  • 18 years ago

    I enjoy "doing the marketing". I'm a homebody, so going to the grocery store is an excuse to get out of the house. I actually look forward to it! Something about the housewife in me I guess.

    I usually go to the same place. I only go elsewhere if I can't find something (like copper Choreboys, getting very rare, and they aren't even food!). Quite often, I've had to buy dried spices instead of fresh because they were out of fresh (usually, it's only the one I need that they don't have). I guess that's a good thing, because the fresh spices wouldn't have lasted very long and I probably wouldn't have used them all up. I'm sure foodies would agree that the flavor was compromised, however.

  • 18 years ago

    I've been to Jungle Jims. Talk about a HUGE store! I purposely stopped there on our way back home from Illinois to check it out. When friends heard that we were going to make a stop there on the way home, I was given a list to buy specific products that they can't get in our part of the country.

    Our Super Walmart and Super Target have very good produce and products.

  • 18 years ago

    Here in Lakeland I have Publix, Winn Dixie , Sweetbay and Wal- Mart Super centers to shop at. The only problem is the gas to drive to the stores. If I need something quick I can run to Publix which is only 1 mile from my house. Everything else requires driving more than 7 miles to get to it. Publix does not always have a good selection of ethnic foods to choose from but they have gotten better than they used to be.

  • 18 years ago

    Daylilydayzed,

    Publix is actually based in Lakeland! I have three of those stores within a mile of me (Sweetbay is not one of them)... I just wish there was a health food store close by!

  • 18 years ago

    I agree about Publix and ethnic foods.... though my problem wasn't with variety, but quality. I got some tahini there once, and it had gone rancid on their shelf. I should have brought it back, but I lost the reciept (who keeps grocery reciepts?). I imagine stuff like that doesn't have a very good turnover rate so it sits a while.