I would apply the last fertilizer of the season when the top growth has stopped, but the grass is still green. I'm not sure when that is where you are, but I would guess it would be late November. I would also probably apply something other than the name brand winterizer. For one thing, the store brand or generic with the same NPK numbers is just as good as far as the grass is concerned. And the second thing is that although conventional wisdom is that a high Phosphorous (the middle number) percentage is needed for good root growth in a winterizer, recent research has shown that Nitrogen is actually the most important component in a late fall fertilization. Since top growth has stopped, but the grass is still green, it is still photosynthesizing, and all the energy is being stored in the roots. So my advice is to apply a pound of N per 1000 sq ft after the top growth has stopped. If you can get urea (something like 46-0-0) or ammonium sulfate (21-0-0), those are fine. The best thing you can give your grass for the final feeding is the nitrogen.

Basically that's what I did - first set up the account with Briarwoods Farm name as I said above, using farm email. Then changed the name to my maiden name but kept the farm email, didn't give my personal email. I found that even when it said I was posting, commenting and liking as Briarwoods Farm page rather than as Sheila, I really wasn't. In order for my "likes" to be shown on the farm page, I had to go to pulldown menu all the way to the top right of page and set it to "Use Facebook as" Briarwoods Farm. Spent the morning trying to figure out how to set up a site on Weebly. That's even harder. Plus the name was taken so I had to add "CT" to the end - but the www.briarwoodsfarm.weebly.com site is a placeholder, no content (not even contact) so I don't know if that was something I had experimented with a year or so ago (not realizing it was Published). Don't know email address (probably farm) or password I would have used though. Guess I can contact weebly to find out what the email address was to see if it's mine or someone else's. I think I'm going to ask my teenager to set up website for me - he's acted as webmaster for Scouts so hopefully he can figure out weebly and get a good page design. I just want a home page and a blog for now. But he doesn't do Facebook (I think he opened an account just to see track/cross-country schedule) so can't help with that.

I have another take on the wedding picture.. possible she wants "fans" to think she's currently married? Same with the tat.. if "fans" see it, they know it's a guys name? On the photos on Facebook; are you sure they are on her page and not the guys? I am able to see pics by a friend of one of my friends on FB; in my friends photos page but they are not that friends pics if you look at the location on the bottom right of the picture. The tat.. I have an ex husbands name on my back shoulder; it's 3 letters and kind of merged with a larger tat. It is covered by a tank top strap; so not everyone sees it. I would love to have it made into a butterfly but have not; 1 due to the pain, I'm not sure I could handle tat pain any more and because the person I use lives too far. I do not trust just anyone to do ink on me. My hubby knows the name means nothing to me; but I also don't talk about my ex's unless it's to say something negative about them being fathers to my kids. My hubby has an ex as well As far as Facebook; my opinion is it's a relationship killer; especially in situations like yours. It is one thing if everything is private; you only have relatives & close friends; but adding people of the opposite sex or ex's can be asking for trouble. Call me old fashioned; I don't get sites like that and what the appeal is to have as many people as you can listed in your friend list; especially if your real name is used. Being separated from someone for 5 years without divorcing; I'm 1/2 & 1/2 on that one. I can understand because divorce can be expensive but the fact that she & her husband have moved on; well the adultery charge is BS. Would he really charge her with adultery at this point? Here in the states, a reason doesn't really matter. Did I read that you 2 are engaged? If the 2 of you are, I don't feel she's serious if she's still married. If you are not engaged, is it possible that this is what she's wanting from you? Without knowing either of you, you sound like 2 different people; she probably is not going to change and no matter how much you love her, it won't be enough to be able to live like this. One day you may find yourself married to her, she's pregnant & you're not sure whether you are the father. Then there is the fact that she goes out and sings; where will you be?

I rather like it too although I only changed a week or so ago. Like anything else, change brings a learning curve.... I think your solution is the best thing...just deactivate your account....that will show them how pissed you really are. Haha ChloeCat....you nailed it.....I'm surprised you were not accused of getting up on the wrong side of the bed....