Totally OT: a rant about neighbors
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Grrrr, I just need to rant - neighbor mowing my yard
Comments (20)You should be able to get a plat map of your property from your county's appraisal district. It is really frustrating when someone damages your property and thinks they're doing you a favor for some strange reason. Try talking to her again and explain - again - why she shouldn't mow your yard. You might also want to contact your city's code compliance department to find out if there is some code that says something about planting a shrub that large right on the property line. Maybe she shouldn't have done that (all right, we all KNOW she shouldn't have done that) according to some city code and maybe they could be removed? Also let them know about how she is damaging your property and see if they can suggest anything that can be done. You have every right to prune those photinias all the way up if you want to since they are hanging over your property. I can't stand those shrubs, especially when they are planted in the wrong space. Obviously right on the property line is the absolute wrong space....See MoreMy condo neighbors from hell - A rant
Comments (29)I started to browse through this website forum since I needed to gather data on the issue of noise on condo complexes and hear what the current and/or past tenants of condos) have to say about their actual experience when living in a condo. Although I found many comments to be appropriate and suitable for the subject matter that written/posted by Vendora, I found quite a few commenters� posts simply to be offensive and inappropriate such as the one posted by Mike_Pam, chinacat_sunflower, GammyT, and so on! Just simply look and listen carefully to their tones and motives that they have written behind their comments. So, is it really true that their intent is good, pure, and positive or rather is the opposite�meaning trying to take control and show pride of themselves or their egos to others whether they realized it or not? For example, how is it that Vendora was making a poor choice in moving into the condo complex when she obviously did not foresee nor knew in advance that there would be such horrific noise issue inside her condo unit right after she moved into her condo unit as what chinacat_sunflower clearly and inaccurately stated? How is it that Mike_Pam trying to help the nature of the issue when he obviously distorted his true intention in the forum as if he was giving the right and appropriate advice to Vendora when what he said and posted on his comment clearly is an insult and mental assault not only to Vendora, but to the nature of the subject matter and to the forum as a whole? Then, the next commenter (GammyT) after Mike_Pam posted his comment even aggravated the assault to Vendora and reminding that she ought not complain about the people above her and that is nothing she could do, etc.! As you all can see and understand, these commenters obviously get the kick out in deliberately saying untrue and destructive things to people, especially to the subjects (i.e. Vendora and other similar condo tenants) who are undergoing the torments of noise issue from neighbors�to even make the nightmares to be much worse and more intense than ever before! It is one thing to give advice�meaning the right and appropriate advice; but it is another to insult, assault, and annoy others (i.e. Vendora) simply because that commenter wants to show off his or her ego and would say and do anything to put others down and make others look bad when these showoff people are the ones who needed help and needed to take a good look at themselves and to cleanse their unhealthy self-esteem and self-image once and for all! In addition, simply because a person raised an issue on certain subject matters; it never meant that this person is asking nor looking for advice nor meant that anyone could say anything and do anything to inflict unnecessary and additional pain to this person as the way some commenters had done to Vendora! This is called maturity, human respect for your fellow human beings and for yourself! Sincerely, Newlifestar...See MoreOT a little bit - is it just me or is this not kosher? Etsy rant
Comments (23)Storklady, It is okay to raise the price of something once it's listed. A Seller can change the price as often as they want, with no time restrictions. Etsy does not control or dictate to us what something is priced at - we do. There is no bidding on Etsy, except in Alchemy, which is a site on Etsy where customers can list something they want, a purple tutu, for example, and ask other Etsians to bid on what they would charge to make the purple tutu. Then Sellers are bidding against each other for that particular sale. Etsy is a "buy it now at this price" business. But I still think it's poor ethics not to honor the original price of an item that a potential buyer has just inquired about. Especially one who was asked to wait to review more listings of similar items because she'd shown interest in those other items before making her final purchase. If it had been me, I'd have sold you that map, and all the other newly listed maps that you were waiting for, at the original price. But that's just me. I am not an aggressive saleswoman, just a conscientious one. I like repeat business, and that's no way to encourage repeat business, IMHO....See MoreStill ranting about health insurance
Comments (45)dedtired -- There are 'advantage' plans that are PPO's. DH's former employer offered us one from Aetna for 2012 and I seriously considered it because our expensive meds were much, much less for us under that plan. However...it left us open to 20% copays. (This one was basically Medicare benefits plus a drug plan.) Our MD and hospitals did accept this 'advantage' PPO. It paid the same for in- and out-of-network doctors. Look at what you will get just from Medicare. It covers a lot of 'normal' stuff, like an annual 'wellness visit' (mini-physical), mammograms, colonoscopy, flu shots, other 'preventive' services. You may not need enough more to warrant buying a supplementary policy, depending on your health. At 70 and 73, we decided to continue with the Aetna 'medigap' supplement we had for 2011. It's $744/year for both of us and pays the 20% Medicare doesn't pay. Example: The doctor bills $300 for a service, but he accepts Medicare assignment. The Medicare-approved cost of his service is $100. Medicare pays $80. Our Medigap policy pays $20. He can't bill for his 'missing' $200 because he's agreed to take Medicare assignment. Our medigap policy will also pay a bit more for the MD who 'balance bills'. This MD can bill 15% more than the Medicare-approved fee, and our supplementary policy will pay it. In 2011 we had zero doctor, lab or diagnostic bills. Medicare and our supplement paid everything. I think our 20% copays on our bills might not have totaled as much as we paid for the policy in 2011, but I don't want to gamble about 2012. (And, the premium actually DEcreased.) If you don't anticipate needing expensive prescriptions, take the cheapest-premium Part D plan. It you DO have expensive prescriptions, tally the premium and what your drugs will cost under a plan. As long as the insurance and pharmacutical companies own Congress, this is the way we have to live....See Morejoanie_b
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