I hate these soffits, what are my options?
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9' ceilings, but I don't want soffits or gaps! Options?
Comments (13)Base cabinets use 36" of room. You have 18" between the base and the start of the uppers. That leaves you 54" to play with. When you start having the upper cabinets be much taller than the base cabinets, the room becomes lopsided and heavy looking. That's why glass in the stacked uppers is so popular. If you did 30" upper cabinets, then stacked 18" glass cabinets on top, and then did 6" of molding, the glass uppers would keep it from looking so out of proportion. It will also more than double the cost of your cabinets. Having cabinets go all the way to the ceiling is VERY expensive. Glass cabinets are VERY VERY expensive. Only you can decide whether that is money well spent for you, or you'd rather get up there a couple of times a year with a ladder and a duster and just go with 42" high cabinets....See MoreI hate her...I hate her......I hate her
Comments (6)I feel the same way about my husband's exwife. I am custodial stepmom of 3 chlldren. My husband has always had custody because the exwife decided one day she no longer wanted to be married or a full-time mother. Before I came along she constantly dumped 99% of her time on my husband, he of course never said no, she had full control of her old household only she lived in a differnt place and had her own life. It was a very unhealthy situation. My husband just never stood up to her, he struggled to keep a full-time job and take care of 3 children. I give him tremendous credit because many men in his situation would not be able to take on that responsibilty. Well, then I come along, we get married and all of a sudden she begins to take a deeper interest. Mainly because I would not allow her to control my household and my husband began saying "no", She always used us as her babysitter, whether it was a work meeting, an exerecise class or a European vacation. She has been nothing but a major PIA, she wouldn't pay child support when my husband enforced the order she opened a full blown custody case, suing us for full custody because she did not want to financially support her children. We also have a screwed up schedule. During the school the chldren visit their mother Mon&Tues 4-8pm with alternating weekends. During the summer they visit her Mon-Wed 4-8pm with alternating weekends. The exwife wanted some crazy, they live with her 3days one week, then us 4days, and the next week it was the reverse. Mind you, she only had a 2bedroom condo. All three children sleep in the same bedroom. 2 girls 13&10 and a 8yr old boy. The master had enough sense to reconize that the living arrangemnents were not appropriate and would not grant anymore overnight visits except for the already standing 2 weekends a month. The schedule is crazy. The exwife is crazy. She teaches the children it is ok to lie to us. She is NOT supportative of myself or my husband. She has harrassed us to the point that she is not allowed on our property, she can not contact us by phone, she may only communicate via email, unless it is an emergency related to that day's schedule, then she may leave a message on our cell phone. She would call my husband at work and pull him out of meetings with the CEO of the company for some nonsense question. HE would get numerous calls on a daily basis. I never saw 2 divorced people talk on a daily basis. We have insulated ourselves as much as possible but everyday there is some new issue. She never returns clothes that the kids wear over there, one day she sent my ss home with no shoes on. She won't take the kids to baseball games and then tells them we did not give her the information. I could go on and on. But your words say it best I HATE HER!!!!! If I had hindsight my posting would be alot differnt. I would be like that one woman who used to be involved with a man with children. Trying being involved with a man who has custody of his children. The rewards have been few and far between. I have lived this from the first day I moved to where my husband lives (I moved from a different state). So the entire two years of my marriage have been filled with this crap. My husband's relationship with his children has also suffered terribly. I was divorced for 11yrs before I remarried and never experienced one ounce of the trouble I have in this life, and it isn't even my divorce. The best advice I can give you is stand your ground. Say NO, she is responsible for her custodial time. It took my husband a long time to be able to say no, it is very easy for me. I know that he is still uncomfortable with saying no but I help him, Remember you can't let her control your life. Good luck, God Bless. I understand, it's one hell of a way to live....See MoreShow me your soffit. Need ideas. I can't get rid of my soffit
Comments (6)Hey Jache. We had the exact same problem. Because our project is an addition we were faced with having the beam run RIGHT through the middle of the room. We have remedied the problem with columns, half walls etc. We aren't finished so I have no pictures BUT I can tell you the amount of time that I spend researching this was enormous. It sounds like your soffits are going to be above your cabinets. If so, you have some options. Have you thought about taking your cabinets to the ceiling and having the beam run through the top shelf of the cabinets? You won't need the space anyway. I have a lot of pictures that I saved when I was doing my "research" if you want me to email them to you I can. Some of the other things I thought about doing were creating a reversed tray ceiling effect. Lots of pictures of this as well. You could also, depending on the height of your ceiling open up the soffit, expose the beam and then do matching faux beams all the way across your kitchen. That is what I wanted to do but I have 8.5 foot ceilings and my beam is 14 inches deep:( Good luck!!...See MoreHigher end range + downdraft options? I really hate island hoods...
Comments (21)Thanks, all, for the passionate comments. As I mentioned in the original post, I think we are already too far down the road of "range goes in island" as the room is still down to studs, but electrical and plumbing are in and we're poised to begin drywalling in the next 2 weeks. However, our plan is below in case anyone has ideas... this is becoming my biggest regret already! Note that we are planning a range (not a cooktop) in the island and an oven + micro in the wall (not double ovens). We arrived at this because we dislike under-the-counter micros and don't have a ton of upper space in this kitchen. There is no view, but the island overlooks a big open floorplan sitting area and dining room, which opens to backyard with french doors. The window over the sink overlooks a sunny front yard. It is not a "show kitchen" as we are regular and adventurous cooks. But... I would caveat to say that we intend to sell the place within 3-5 years so want to make sure we don't make poor choices for resale. It is not intended to be a "forever home". Plan (That's a desk in the lower-right corner) Note massive pantry bank in lower right of this view is now a short run of uppers and lowers....See Moregaonmymind
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