More random ranting: LOL Robo about the WASP weddings. There's a bit of WASP vs ethnic and also introvert vs extrovert going in my relationship with SO. I am however, half WASP, really waspy WASP, (as in Anglo Saxon protestant, not Teutonic protestant) so I am used to some of the restraint, to say the least . . . :) I also found out that the color for the wedding is not "red" per se, rather it is crimson, so the shirt/tie combo I liked will have to go back regardless. On the plus side, with a light grey shirt, the suit and shirt will also pass for our wedding, so that will save us some money from having to buy two shirts. I only suggested the red shirt combo because it was on super sale. Here's a photo so you can see what I was envisioning with SO's dark coloring. Surprisingly, SO liked the flouncy floral dresses, particularly the one with the grey background. He thought they would be flattering for my figure. He opined, not without merit, that an a-line dress might be too form-fitting and emphasize my less-than-perfectly-proportional hips. Possibly not, but only trying on will tell. I think I will order all three dresses.

Mtn, look at this fab jumpsuit. I wov this. Not sure where I’d wear it but I could wear my new Stella & Dot necklace that’s on its way, with. What type of gig would you wear this to? Neimans has some great ones. This Aidan by Aidan would be great for holiday parties. Husband likes it so I just bought the one below. Here we go again with these clothing threads...However, hopefully this will take the excruciating pain out of dress shopping. Question: I really like the black & sparkle white above. I’m worried I’d feel a bit naked. I found this necklace I like on S & D. Do you all think it’s too much to add to that sort of simplicity?

I was visualizing a style very similar to what terezosa posted. It's current, popular and also versatile. I have a pair that's somewhat similar, but I think it's been discontinued. I would stay away from pointy toed shoes as those can be painful for someone with corns or bunions, as well as less likely to fit properly. (FWIW, my family was in shoe manufacturing, and I learned a lot about shoes.) IMO, it would be nice to get something that can be worn with dresses or skirts as well as pants & shorts. https://www.skechers.com/en-us/style/16513/skechers-on-the-go-bliss-empress/bbk https://www.skechers.com/en-us/style/100026/be-lux-daylights/bbk I do like Clarks - they have some great comfort styles of good quality.

SeattleMCM, i also love EF clothes-- well, i love the pieces I love. Not all styles work well for me. I know the prices can be high but I have had good luck with sales. No restore here-- and honestly the prices on her recycled merino and cashmere sweaters are out of bounds for me-- but I love the concept. My shoes are about 5-7 yr old and are still in great shape-- and i am hard on shoes! I definitely think if you can find a pair you like at a decent price, it's worth it. Too many shoes look ratty after a season or two. What I love about my shoes is that they look elegant but are as comfortable as a slipper. I can't wear heels so these have been my go-to for dressier fall/winter events-- and they also worked for more casual events and the office (when i went to the office!) Check out ebay and poshmark-- both have numerous styles, many NIB. Here's the pair i have on Poshmark for $25 (I paid $198 for mine). They are used but look pristine-- not pushing my style on you-- i know it's not the maryjane style you are looking for-- but using it as an example of the kind of deals/prices you could find in a style you like. ETA: EF shoes have a reputation for running narrow. I have a slightly wide foot and had no issues with fit in this shoe or her boots.