If you found this spider in the daylight it most likely is not a Brown Recluse, but is one of the many other spiders that look kind of almost like the BR. Here is a link that might be useful: All about the Brown Recluse

This is most absolutely NOT a Brown Recluse! It doesn't resemble one in the slightest, as Loxosceles reclusa never has striped legs at all, nor a pattern on the abdomen. This is a harmless and beneficial Wolf Spider species that will actually eat Recluse spiders, if you even have them where you live. The "grabbers" you mentioned are the spider's pedipalps, which are male reproductive organs, indicating that this poor unfortunate animal was a mature male out looking for a mate. I've included a link to a good clear photo of a real Brown Recluse for comparison-note the absence of leg stripes and striping on the abdomen, as well as a distinct "fiddle"-shaped design on the carapace. Here is a link that might be useful:

Well of course, getting drunk is the best solution, certain to keep any self respecting Brown Recluse from biting. I have a sworn ritual that I use to (hopefully) keep from getting bitten. I have glue traps in the basement and attic. I replace them about once a year, only because I think the glue might become less sticky. Any spiders, or insects you trap on the glue board, should be left there to serve as "bait" for other spiders. In the house, I put glue board traps inside a small box (shoe box or smaller) that has several entry holes cut in the sides along the bottom of box. These holes allow hunting spiders to enter and becom trapped, but will keep other objects from coming into accidental contact with the glue. I NEVER slip a bare foot into any shoe without first taking the shoes in my hands and slapping the shoes together a few times with the open part of shoe facing the floor. I have never shaken a spider out, but I have some friends who have. I do the same thing with gloves, shake them out before putting your hand in. Maintain good weather stripping on all doors that lead to outdoors or an attached garage. Clothes taken from a closet or storage cabinet should be turned inside out and shaken before being put on. If you store seasonal items in the attic, basement, outdoor shed, or other place where spiders have freedom to wander at will, seal the items in boxes with a large plastic trash bag pulled over the box and tied off. Inspect the bags before bringing them inside, spiders will construct a lair of webbing between folds of these bags (on outside of bag) and may simply "freeze" inside the loose webbing and be transported right into the house to depart their digs later. If you have such a morbid fear of being bitten that you become frantic and can't adopt some sensible practices to keep from getting bitten......Alaska is still largely "less populous". Of course there are some critters up there that will not only bite you, they'll drag you away to the forest as well.

I think that you know what you've got. :-( I strongly suggest that you contact a professional exterminator to help eliminate the spiders. They will be able to get rid of them with products that are probably safer than what you can find. In the meantime, use sticky traps downstairs, too. Shake out your clothes and shoes before putting them on, turn down the bed linens, turn on the lights when walking around at night (they're nocturnal), check the shower before stepping in, Place traps under the bed, behind furniture, on the closet floor, etc. The one that got me was in a stack of clean, folded towels in my linen closet. I also found one on a blouse hanging in the closet and saw one marching across my bed in the night. That was nearly fifteen years, two homes, and another whole state ago....yet I still do all of those things I mentioned. Lol, no BR spiders in this house....just the garage.