sudden death of our baby bluebirds
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Sudden Hops Death?! :(
Comments (15)Hops vines are very vigorous, but so far, mine has not outgrown the area I planted it in. I, too, have the Golden Hops, which is very attractive in spring, but the leaves turn a rather dull green when the heat sets in. I have yet to find anything on mine, except for the generalist moths MissSherry mentions. In fact, if it does die back, I won't be that disappointed. Hops do grow from rhizomes, and can easily, like most tubers, rhizomes and bulbs, easily be overwatered. But, on the other hand, they're pretty tough characters, too. I may put my Turk's Cap close by and let it take over now that you mention it, MissSherry. I thought that Japanese Hops was an annual, unlike regular hops. But maybe it reseeds? Catherinet, my suggestion to anyone who is growing, either by accident or intention, Stinging Hops, get rid of it and instead grow False Nettle, which does not have those awful stinging heirs. I saw my first Question Mark today. She was virtually "living" on the banana feeder! I hope she lays eggs. I've also collected a couple more cats from the False Nettle, and have 5 babies now. Saw the Red Admiral female flying around yesterday, so she may have layed more eggs. Released my first Hackberry Emperor today. The caterpillars and chrysalis stage are a lot lengthier when the temps are cool like they have been. Susan...See MoreSecond Bluebird House being claimed by Wrens - HELP!
Comments (5)My husband thinks if we plug up the hole, the wrens will go to the other bluebird box so we'll just keep taking out the twigs. She builds a perfect circle of twigs morning and night. As I walk back from destroying her work if just look over and say, "Sorry little bird." I know it's for the best. I've figured out a way to stop feeling guilty about it; I just have my husband do it! Plus I keep picturing the destroyed bluebird eggs I've seen from what the Wren's can do. Thank you all for your advice. Now we just need our Blue's to start building!...See MoreTRES nestlings death: weather or flies?
Comments (1)Im so sorry to hear this....it has been a TERRIBLE year for the TRES. If you look through the last few pages here you will see that many were lost. I lost 3 babies, the I am SO sad thread. Just one of many posts reporting lost TRES. The National Wildlife magazine april/may edition has an article titled Empty Skies Insect-eating birds that feed on the wing are vanishing from parts of North America and scientists dont know why. In my case I know it had to do with losing 1 of the parents leaving just one to feed 6 babies in horrid weather. I think most of the sad reports on here are weather related. I have not seen any attempt at a second nesting here but it has only been six days and 3 babies did fledge. There is one report of a second nesting on the forum so far this year. Good luck with yours!...See Moresudden death of husband at 46 years of age
Comments (34)I'm so sorry. You'll never be the way you were, nor would you want to be; as you said, he was your true love, & he wouldn't want you to grieve & be miserable & not enjoy, relish, & revel in the life you still have on this earth with your/his children. You are a vibrant young mother with 2 dear children tethering you to this earth; your mission here is important & it won't be complete for many many years. Your precious sons are the next links in your beloved husband's chain of life, & you're the one who can nurture their connections to their roots, for their sakes & for the sakes of their children., Please take care of yourself, in every way. Eat right, don't drink, make sure you see people every day (isolation is an enemy). Grief is deep & dark, but depression is a physical malfunction that can be beaten. Get outside that house & get your heart pumping; oxygenated blood is the best medicine for...well, many things. I know you don't feel like jogging or playing tennis or swimming, because not wanting to do anything is a symptom of depression. Make yourself do it anyway. If you can't summon the strength, have someone call you every morning & tell you to get up & get dressed & get outside. I always managed to get up if I knew someone was on the way over to take me to jazzercise, etc, somebody who wouldn't be embarrassed to bang on the door & holler at me to get my @ss out there. & go to your doctor: this is the year 2014, & there are sophisticated medicines out there these days to help you. Enlist some help; go to your family, friends, neighbors, church family, people at work, people you meet in the grocery store (seriously, I've found that saying "what a beautiful hairdo!" or "is that the best peanut butter?" provides a tiny little spark of human contact that really helps you to keep putting one foot in front of the other). & this may sound off the wall, but do something for someone else: it lifts the spirits & affirms...something, I don't know what. I do know that researchers have discovered that giving makes people happier than getting, or as our grandmothers said, it really is 'more blessed to give than to receive'. I wish you the very best, including a long & satisfying life, filled with the memories whose pain will fade in time, leaving only a sweet joy....See More- 17 years ago
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