Surprisingly, the link you provided for the site already has the name of this complex hybrid. Kind of like asking "What is the color of NapoleonÂs white horse?" I had to sneaker. Sorry This is a complex hybrid developed by Booman Floral nursery and is the first patented protected cultivar. The parentage is unknown. This plant was developed for the sole purpose to be grown almost like a houseplant. This cultivar is resistant to salt build up and fertilizer and can be grown almost like a regular houseplant. Plus, contrary to all other Sarracenias and their hybrids, this particular cultivar doesnÂt require dormancy and will grow year round. Visited California this summer and bought this plant at Home Depot. CouldnÂt help buying my ÂCobra Nest and I was just passing by. Stop to take a rest and out of curiosity went inside the store and there they were. Some of you may be familiar with Booman Floral nursery. They typically package their plants in a plastic sock or back with names like "Octopuses Plant", "Ninja Star Plant", and so on. They are some of the best providing a wide selection of CP.

Yes, because my daughter is 28 and has multiple developmental birth defects, I recently went back to college to get a degree in Human Services so I can level the playing field. After 28 years of doing what I do, I consider myself an expert on programs and entitlements at least in a couple states where we've lived. I have been through it all including widowhood and 2 marriages while raising my daughter. My goal is to keep her OUT of institutional living. I have fought all the way to the governor and won. There is no fortitude like a mothers! My daughter has her own home ( I designed it wheelchair accessible) and she qualified for every program under the sun. She has limited income, in-home caregivers and lots of technology to make this work. If there is any one out there who would like some advise I may be able to help. The whole thing is "equal not more" I have been working in this field for 28 years and I give away my input support and encouragement because I can. There are many of us out there raising adult disabled children.

Funny thing is (well, not "ha ha" funny), Sherri hurts herself at least once a week. She is always in such a big hurry that she trips, she falls, she runs into things. When she moved in with my folks, it was so SHE could take care of them! My folks always joke that they're glad they lived long enough to take care of HER! :-) I told her 4-5 days ago when she fell in the yard that if one more thing happened, she would be fired as a caregiver. LOL! She reminded me of that when she called on the way home from the ER. We joke with each other a LOT, so I said, "What kind of a sick-o is so starved for attention that they'd whack off their own finger?" LOL! Guess I better get dressed and get on over there to help my mom make lunch!

Ellen, Colleen and Sylvia...thank you for your responses. I think I need to maintain my focus on self-care. The fact of the matter is, the only thing I have in common with any of DH's adult children is him. If we met on the street, I would not think to myself, "Boy, I would like to get to know them better." They would probably say the same thing about me. I do love step-grandaughter and it is important to me to maintain a relationship with her. Truth be told, as important to me as she is, I simply do not want to subject myself to her uncle in order to please her. If I ever do go to see step-granddaughter in the town where she lives, I will wait to do so during a period when DH's son is out of town on vacation or something. Otherwise, we can meet in other places or she can fly back here on vacation...that will have to do. Thanks again to those of you who responded!