Do the neighbors look down on you?
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14 years ago
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Neighbor needs to down-size her Dracaena 'Janet Craig'
Comments (3)greattigerdane, from your description I visualise an older plant with a single cane reaching up some 8' or more with leaves attached on the upper half only. The plant is probably in a 14" container and likely to be pot-bound and its 'metabollic rate' is comparatively slow. I must say that I have never seen a single stalk that tall. Have a close look and if there are "sideshoots", you should be able to cut back them with no serious setback. I often see new and vibrant growth on older canes which have been cut back near the top. Two shoots, on opposite sides of the stalk been selected to continue its growth and fullness at the top. If not, my experience has been that it is not good for a plant to have its roots and top(s) pruned at the same time. I would try to stimulate growth by cautiously root pruning and/or manipulating the growing conditions like temperature, light or even fertilizer. I would then air-layer the plant in the area where the leafy top begins. This will favor (I wanted to say ensure) the 'continuity' of the mother plant and a side-benefit might be the development of dormant buds below the air layer. It will be a slow process. I have tried the above and after some four months there are roots in the air-layer and there is a 'swelling' of one or two buds near the soil line in one pot, on the canes which I had cut back to about 6". I expect things will speed up from here on. I set sections of the cut off canes but they rotted, mainly because I did not use a conducive medium. I expect that your neighbor wants to keep the original plant alive and rejuvenated. Many people do because they like the tree-trunk appearance near the base. I have to confess a measure of indifference to that but this may be due to a deficiency in my artistic appreciation....See MoreHuh? Run that by me again? II
Comments (6)Oh no- I can just picture someone buying a ton of limes and squeezing the juice all over, all the while asking themselves 'does this really work'? Too,too funny....See MoreI nicely turned down neighbor's offer of miracle grow and still..
Comments (25)"I politely told him no thank you, then his wife chimed in "she's an organic gardener," which btw, SHE is the one who told him to ask me in the first place!!!! My neighbor sat there on his lawn mower for a sec, got this funny look on his face and then said to me, "I would say something but I won't!" " You know, it's interesting - I initially thought the comment was directed at you, but one poster suggested that it might have been in regards to the wife. That is a really interesting possibility and totally changes the dynamic. I'm fortunate to have at least a few neighbors who have surprised me when I mentioned being a composter. They are not environmentalists, but they didn't have any problem at all that I am. I've also somehow gotten a reputation at the school \- they are always asking me to work on the children's gardens. Anyway, I hope the neighbor thing works out....See MoreWhat am I doing wrong? Sythentic Neighbor looks better!
Comments (21)Dantis, I saw your post and wanted to add an observation I've had. I don't know how old your lawn is, or your neighbor's lawn, but my KBG lawn is in it's 3rd summer right now. The first summer I used lots of Synthetics - Looked fabulous. Second summer, used lots of Synthetics - looked good. When it started looking less than great, I'd to buy a bag of Scott's weed & feed and throw that down. It would perk up, but only temporarily. This spring, it looked like hell. It was one of the last ones to green up and the thatch was unbelievably thick!!! The same thing happened to me in my first house - I was only there 3 years, but it was the same thing. Year 1 - Excellent lawn, Year 2 - Good Lawn, Year 3 - lots of fighting to keep it green. It seems that with a Synthetic lawn, unless you aerate and/or dethatch it AT LEAST once per year, the thatch builds up (at least in KBG), and really creates a problem. I just wasn't excited about spending $100 to have my lawn aerated once or twice a year. I found this forum because I was being a cheapskate and figured there had to be some sort of 'natural dethatching' method :) Don't get me wrong, I don't mind spending $100 on my lawn to make it look great - I'm just not excited about spending $100 for a temporary solution that my fertilizing practices would ruin. Reading up on the ecosystem of the lawn and how it works really made a lot of sense to me, so I figured I'd give it a try. I have a long way to go to improve my soil (clay), but my lawn has made great strides. The thatch is under control, and, even though I'm watering more than I'd like, I'm still watering a LOT less than the neighbors, and my lawn looks MUCH better! I'd rather spend $100 on soybean meal, corn gluten meal, etc., than an aeration any day. So, I guess my point is, your neighbor's synthetics will catch up with him/her eventually...Again, just my observations and opinions......See Moreyfchoice
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