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Comments (51)My other is a hoarder, my grandmother and aunt are worse. I'm okay, but only because my boyfriend helps alot. Because of growing up in that environment, I can't see messes, dirt or piles. I can really only notice differences. In order to maintain my own house, I try and keep it as sterile as possible. When I have been good for a while, I'll put a few things on the counter that looks nice. Looking nice is my entire motivation for keeping it clean. But if I have a towel on the floor, I can't tell the difference between one towel and six of them until I notice I ran out of towels or its brought to my attention. I notice one dish in the sink, but not all of the dishes in the sink. And I cant see dust until I put something down and it leaves a mark, because it accumulates so slowly. For me, it isn't about wanting to keep things, and I think that most of these people are similar. There are plenty of excuses to avoid drastic change, and some of them include sentimentality. If they give you a reason why they want it, and they give themselves a reason to keep it, than they feel less pressured and more justified in their pattern. Change is terrifying. It is unexpected and unsettling and very hard to emotionally handle, especially when your possessions give you a feeling of security. In order to maintain my home I have to avoid sentimentality as much as possible. So I believe that they leave the place looking sterile in order for the hoarder in question to notice when there is one thing out of place, because once that one thing becomes two things, they can't see anything out of place. It is an incredibly hard concept to follow, but it is a real thing none the less....See MoreTime to put away all those decorations
Comments (20)I am proud to report that, for the first time in more than a decade, my Christmas decorations all went up on one weekend, and all came down on January 6. Ordinarily, my decorations start going up a bit at a time at the beginning of December. I work full time and don't get to spend much time enjoying my decorated house, hence starting early. Over many years, I'd started to decorate AROUND some of the clutter because I couldn't quite get my act together enough to actually clean and then decorate. And then it would take me MONTHS to get it all down again. (I go all out - every room is decorated to some degree.) Well, because of a construction project that has been taking forever this year, our entire house was even more of a disaster area than it had ever been before (contents of the rooms related to the construction had been disbursed throughout the house for many months) and we'd found out that DH's family would finally come to visit us for Christmas this year. Finally, after a crazy month of working tons of hours, a week before Christmas, I pulled out all the stops - DH and I spent some time in each and every room, every day that week, making in each room a pile of "stuff" to throw/give away. And then I called the 1-800-GOT-JUNK guys and spent the most worthwhile $670 I ever spent in 2 hours. They FILLED their truck, carrying stuff from the basement, garage, and every room upstairs. (This includes dismantling some huge, heavy, crummy old desks to make them fit). After they drove off with it all (on Dec 23), I walked around my house breathing sighs of relief. Then I cleaned, moved things to the rooms they belonged in, and pulled out my decorations and put it all up all over the house at once. It felt so good, and we had a great holiday with family visiting for their first Christmas at our house. In past years, I'd get most of the decorations down, and run out of steam (some of them are a pain to put up and a pain to take down, but I really love them. Things like Pine garland and lights on my birch log pot rack in the kitchen, little ribbon things with apples and pears that hang on each cabinet door, pine and berries and glass ornaments entwined in my dining room chandelier, garland over every door, etc. My entire house gets a touch of Christmas in every room. I was on such a roll, that I've not lost any of the ground I gained, yet. And the first thing I did was take down everything on the same day, and organize it for easier installation next year. Now, I walk around my house every night and pick up anything that is out of place before bed, so I can enjoy orderliness in the morning....See Morehow much real estate do your kids own in your home?
Comments (24)Fun, did you have more than one living space growing up? We had a formal living room and a family room so the family room is where our toys were kept. However, we didn't have nearly the same amount of toys as kids do nowadays! The way our family room was laid out, there was a corner where all the toys were kept. I shared an average size room with my sister, so we didn't have much room for playing in there. I'm sure we did a bit but for the most part, we were in the family room when we were young or outside. I also can't imagine having kids' toys in every room. That would drive me nuts! Most of the houses around here have basements or more than one living area so the basements store the bulk of the toys and then the family room, which is typically open to or next to the kitchen is where the main floor toys are stashed. Having four kids has relaxed my anal tendencies but I still go a little nuts with crap laying around. The peninsula in my kitchen becomes the drop zone but I can't stand having that clutter. And dh is the worst b/c he will leave his stuff there and never come back for it but then get annoyed if I move it or ask him to. He's used to clutter from his childhood. I used to have complete order in the house b/f I went to bed, but now I'm so exhausted by then that I have slacked off a bit and then get all stressed when I come downstairs the next morning to clutter and have to clean up b/f I can function. I'm like that with cooking too - I can't start cooking unless the counters are clear, no dirty dishes out, etc. DH looks at me like I have two heads. Am I the only weird one like that? Oops, sorry, I have a habit off going off on a tangent!...See MoreFrustrated w/Real Estate Agent
Comments (32)Thanks all - we are excited! We are buying a DW in a 55+ park just 4 miles from here and close to all shopping :-) It has a sunny eat-in kitchen, large living room, dining room, 2 bedrooms, 2 baths - one is a reasonable size and the master bath is huge. Master bedroom is roomy and the second bedroom is so large we will probably divide it so we can each have our own space - he dabbles in painting and I have an obscene amount of yarn (I packed a lot of it yesterday) for crochet, laundry room and a shed with electricity. The kitchen has black appliances w/a bottom freezer refrigerator. I have almond appliances now and will be glad to have black again, and an installed dishwasher after 7 years using a portable. We have the name of a MH inspector and someone who does MH repairs, not that that is anticipated right away, but you never know. Just a comfort to have that info at hand from the getgo. I'm so relieved to not have to do the routine to show, never knowing when, what, etc. Huge relief. (I'm using "huge" a lot here LOL) A fantasy I have had for many, many years is to have a bathroom large enough that I can keep the scale in it! Sure doesn't take much to make me happy...... Guess I'll have to open a photo hosting account so I can post some pics. TTYL, everyone - time for coffee....See Morewritersblock (9b/10a)
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