Eventual divorce - what to do in the interim?
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Comments (5)Over the years I have helped many customers regain control of large, overgrown land parcels. Do not till the land! Big mistake. The bottom line is that until the trees grow and cast deep shade it is necessary to brush cut the land three times during the growing season. More often, if you wish. A brush cutter will turn that land into a a park with minimal effort. Google "walk behind brush cutters" for an idea of what is available and easiest to use for your situation. The brush cutter will chew up into fine mulch everything it passes over. It's good for the land. Also, when removing vines on trees, cut the vine 12" above the ground and then paint the freshly cut stump with full strength brush killer. If it starts to sprout again, make a new cut in the trunk and repaint with brush killer....See MoreLooking for an interim solution?
Comments (9)Hi Susan! I was really talking about using real mulch or pine straw close to the desireable plants. I've tried the newspaper and it does help some. As to the paths...we do have paths started. It initially began when I'd make my husband and son tromp through there with me several times a week. Amazingly enough, that helped tremendously. I hadn't thought of grass clippings. We don't have much lawn to mow so it didn't occur to me. But that's a great idea. And no, I haven't tested my soil. Our county extension office offers such a service. I reckon I ought to take them up on it. As I understood it, I should leave the mulch from the brush cutter where is lies. I hoped that the herbicide on whatever wounds I create by cutting, will kill the honeysuckle, dewberry or whatever. The area really is sooooo much better than it was when I started. But I feel so much older than I was then too! AND I work longer hours now. And the trees are still so small! In fact, I've still got a few mimosa's and crap oaks I won't get rid of until the other gain more height. I don't think there are any natives left besides the ones I'm tending. What I have right now, this minute gaining size, are bamboo, trumpet vine, honeysuckle, morning glory and dewberry. AND Florida betony. As to the natives in my future... I've got friends who propagate and hybridize natives for my region. I built their website for barter. Their specialty, and my husband's passion, is the native azaleas. They only sell wholesale but their site is a great resourse for SE native identification... www.doddnatives.com. I also "rescue" natives (especially ferns) from lots that are on the verge of being razed. The lot was at one time my husband's grandfather's vegetable garden and camellia propagation experiment. At that time our road was a dirt road that went nowhere and the florist lady across the street had a cow she grew kudzu for! That was in the 20s. We're now in the middle of suburbia. And it seems all the older ladies on this block (God bless their souls), planted the vines and let them run wild. I don't think there are any natives left that I haven't reclaimed and tended. I'll get my soil tested and try to get your advice on the cover crop by early next week. Meanwhile, I'm SURE there are grass clippings out their waiting for me! Clare...See MoreYay! We're finished with the Imperfect Interim Teeney Powder Room
Comments (7)Kendrahrose, Thank you for the kind words! (And everyone else too!) I chose the Antique Heart Pine and we installed it (insane to do in such a tiny space! You can't use a floor nailer!) My thought process is, this bathroom will eventually be adjacent to a kitchen with exactly the same flooring - so it will look like it just ran in there too. I really debated doing 1 inch hex, but it's such a small space, and it's really hard to work in, so tile would have been challenging since it would have been our first tile project. Our house is built in 1884, so simple and classic were top priorities. There are before/progress photos on my other thread that started out as the thread for my basement bathroom project then got hijacked by the powder room as it was supposed to be a quicker finish! (We had some major distractions, so it took about 5 months vs the expected 6-8 weeks). So back to the flooring - it's River Recovered Select Antique Heart Pine, and it's finished with about 6 coats of Waterlox Original Finish with no stain. And eventually, my basement stair landings, and kitchen will have the same wood. This tiny project was the "let's see how much we really like it!" and I love it. I did learn I'll spend the extra $ when we do the kitchen for Clear Select, as the knots bugged me, but we had plenty of wood to cut around the ones that irritated me. I wish I could get a better photo of the room, it really did turn out great. And the running joke around here is I did probably spend a third of the budget on the art work and frames. But honestly, that's what makes the room. You all will just have to come and stand in it (one at a time of course!) to admire it properly! ;-) Always ;-) Hunzi Photo - behold - Mr G's 1950's bathroom from hell - but without the bathtub and the KNEE WALL conveniently located so close to the door/toilet/sink (see the flooring for it's location) What fun it was! The new powder room is in the closet you see in the back right. Here is a link that might be useful: Scroll Down for Before/Progress photos...See MoreInterim lamp problem, mixed metals
Comments (14)I have a mish mash of styles of furniture - shaker, mid century modern, industrial Home Depot, second hand cottage, elderly IKEA, early hippie. That generally doesn't bother me. However I have been looking for a small dining table for years - so far when I find a reasonably priced one in ok shape I generally veto it because of the turned legs. I have nothing against turned legs but it is my sticking point. One style too many. Meanwhile I eat on the couch. I can completely understand being uncomfortable with visual chaos and the difficulty of integrating one's vision with someone else's. Especially if their vision is summarily plopped on me. If it is temporary I would try to set up the most comfortable space possible and use whichever lamp works best for functionality....See MoreUser
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