Secrets of the Bees (National Geographic)
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Comments (102)Hear ya on avoiding the unpleasant "family scenes", Deanne. My late FIL was "old school" and never had any daughters so the "chauvinist" thing was right up front. He'd been through a divorce before remarrying happily, had watched one of his sons go through one, too. Mix in a dollop of two very selfish step daughters in law who loathe each other to this day and well... it becomes clear that I was viewed with great suspicion. I hated those family dinners/get togethers. I lucked out, though, I earned his respect and affection by just being myself and making a decision to focus on what we had in common, love for his son (it took close to 4 yrs.!). I never had to withstand the withering criticism of "my person", though. Sometimes the family dynamic can be excruciating and very unfair. TWMPT seems to gain more facial maturity with every picture. Ditto Mr. Baby. I recall being amazed at the change in both Bella and Kenzie, too. It's amazing how quickly they grow up; do you think it's more evident when you aren't around them every day? The playhouse and the gate are just great. I smiled at the image of her opening and closing the gate every time she passes though. Fun to note the importance of the routine involving something as cool as a butterfly gate takes on in her imagination. I don't think the donkey is going cut it, though, Michelle. I think it's going to have be a pony, maybe a Pony of America (Appaloosa), or maybe a nice Welsh pony, or maybe a Connemara? ;) No fireworks for us, to tell you the truth I'm not even sure what night they were/are scheduled. We went to the theatre and saw, "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do", a musical based on the music of Neil Sedaka (let's add him to the guilty pleasures list, too). It was a fun evening out. I always liked the slower more contemplative version of "Breaking Up Is Hard To Do" and "I hear Laughter In The Rain". I've always been a bit of sucker for songs that convey sentiment and images convincingly. I love Cole Porter for that very reason. Our holiday fare was nowhere near as luxe as the offerings at 'bug's B&B or Deanne's (grilled chicken, potato salad, green salad, and cocoanut cream pie). But it filled the void satisfactorily after a full day of pulling weeds and (drum roll, please) planting the windowboxes!!! The helpmeet came home from a half day of watering and finished putting them up for me. We put in new potting soil (Coast of Maine, has some compost in it) and put in the plans and the flags. Historically, I've always used soluble fertilizer and fed them with every watering (about 4-5 days), but we may opt for a slow release, pelletized product this year. I'll what comes home with him this evening. Feeling a little bit better about the general state of things, the windowboxes are very dear to my heart as the originals were the first "beautification" project here on the Compound and my very first gardening success was with windowboxes (way back in 1986). The contents are nothing all that special (sorry Deanne), just old-fashioned geraniums (salmon), browallia, and trailing vinca. Bullet-proof is good. What is it with dogs getting into things they shouldn't? Chloe and gum, Wrecks and the anti-inflammatory pills, Phoebe and automotive parts? Had the helpmeet and I deigned to have kids we'd probably still be on probation for failure to take adequate care of them; leaving too many hazardous things out where they could be used/consumed inappropriately. I ended up using an ear syringe to fire the hydrogen peroxide down the canine's throat, worked slick, too! I imagine the smaller they are the greater the danger and sense of immediacy. The hot water heater experienced a failure yesterday involving a serious spew from the overflow valve that flooded the boiler room, and soaked the pad and carpet in Mum's room, as well as the one in the Rat's Nest. I am NOT pleased. The warm, humid weather and a lot of furniture is going to make removing them difficult and the helpmeet will fight me tooth and nail about doing it (I'll probably capitulate). Both carpets are bound on the sides and therefore removeable. I should thank my lucky stars for that, I suppose. :) (or I could vent any frustration by administering a beating to the dog!). Denise mentioned a Turkish carpet in an earlier post, I'd like to hear more about that. I don't think I'd say that sailing offers a great deal of "zooming" potential, Martie. It is impossible to sail into the wind, but you can sail "close hauled" (about 45 degrees to the wind). Sailing close hauled can be scary if you don't understand the physics involved, the back pressure on the sails and the function of the boat's keel and rudder. That's the point of sail that will make the boat heel over and put the gunwales at water level. It's important to master it, too, because without knowing how you can't tack and you can't really get anywhere. It is my least favorite point of sail, frankly, and was the source of several extremely unpleasant sailing experiences with the helpmeet. I took a sailing course and understanding the necessity of sailing "close hauled" removed a lot of the fear. Helpmeets can do many things but teaching spouses to sail is not one of them. I still don't really like the feeling of a strongly heeled boat; helpmeet and BIL love it. Time to tend to the morning chores and think about happy cyber friends enjoying weekends with loved ones and friends. I'm hoping the early morning overcast will burn off the way it did yesterday....See MoreNational gardening styles
Comments (8)I enjoyed the article, Ann. The British are quite cute, and I laughed several times. I think many Americans think gardening is the same as landscaping, and landscaping is the typical mustache shrubbery around the 4 walls of their house. Or maybe I've been in Florida too long where gardening is difficult, and we tend to plop a favorite plant here and one over there, and that's it. So, perhaps, if the author was truly looking for a style that was uniquely American, she hit it right. I didn't know the genesis of grasses and such in our planting choices, but it sounds reasonable. And since Prairie is truly American in architecture, I can see how she'd latch onto it. (And since I don't subscribe to a gardening magazine, I may have just missed it when this style was announced.) I think I like her description of British gardening style, "eclectic & eccentric." Never having had a "garden", known anyone who had one, or visited a public garden, I couldn't tell you what is American, British or what. I'm learning what I like, what will grow here and what I can afford. I like this statement: "It is partly our love affair with plants  a more-the-merrier approach  but it is also to do with having a dread of appearing to take it too seriously." But I can't go along with this: "We donÂt particularly care if our garden is tasteful". Being new at this, embarrassing myself is not high on my list of things to do. So I guess maybe I'm taking it more seriously than I think. lol Thanks for posting it, Ann. I get more and more educated every day. Plus it was fun. Sherry...See MoreHUGE bee.
Comments (5)If you can provide a little more description of this 'bee', folks might be better able to make suggestions. Note that the largest bee in the world is supposedly found in Queensland, Australia. The female Megachile pluto, an Indonesian bee once thought to be extinct, can have a body length of 1 1/2" and a wingspan of 2 1/2". And there is a hornet in Japan that is said (by National Geographic) to have a stinger 1/4" long. Fortunately neither of those types presently range in the US. If what you saw is that large, chances are it was something other than a bee. The largest 'bee' I'm aware of in this part of the country is actually a hornet, called the Giant Hornet, also called the European Hornet, Vespa crabo germana, which can reach a length of 1 1/8". Other wasps and hornets can range up to 3/4" to 1", but rarely get much larger. Can you recall the color? Estimate of size? Smooth body or fuzzy?...See Morenew: secret santa: wish lists only
Comments (65)My list: 1. Asperula Blue 2. Balsam white 3. Brachyscome 'Little Missy' 4. Browallia 5. Campanula longistyla Isabella Blue 6. Cerinthe - any blue 7. Ceratotheca triloba alba 8. Dicentra exima (white) 9. Elschscholzia california 'Wrinkled Rose' Globularia any low blue Linaria triornithophora âÂÂRoseaâ Lobelia any cascading blue annual or perennial blue like L x gerardia (spelling?) Nasturtiums - any by color (no mixes) prefer trailing/climbing, pale/white Nierembergia blue Pelargonium (Scented Geranium) - any Pennisetum glaucum 'Purple majesty' (Ornamental millet) Penstemon speciosus Plectranthus - any, especially aromatic (already have argentatus & barbatus) Plectranthus amboinicus (Cuban Oregan) Plumbago white Salvia canescens var. daghestanica Salvia chamaedryoides - would love silver leaved form Salvia coccinea white Salvia cyanescens - white, as well as blue Salvia patens 'Patio White'; as well as 'Patio Blue' Salvia rubescens - has silvery leaves/ red-orange flowers Stachys albotomentosa Stachys citrina Thyme - any Torenia Deep Blue This post was edited by primrose1x3 on Sat, Nov 30, 13 at 18:16...See More- 5 months agolast modified: 5 months ago
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