Hi susanwv, Not that I can make any claim to expertise in reading cats' minds ... ... but I think that I hear this one mentally shouting, "Where's that dang box that you were looking for/talking about ?" (on this post-Christmas day). o j

Had to add this even though it doesnt fit the theme. its just too true.

"Who", as subject, is the one doing the action "whom", as the object, is the one being acted upon. But many say, "Me and tommy went to town ...", and I've heard "myself" used in strange places: a sentence containing "myself" can have only one subject - "I", as the only one that can do anything to "myself" is the one doing the talking. ole joyful ... and remember to hit "space" after that " joyful" or it'll disappear,

Annie ~ that made me laugh, wryly. PSA: folk also ought to know (for the actual country of Mexico) to not eat the lettuces in a salad there -- they are grown with the local water, of course. Ask me how I know... (honeymoon memory of dubious fondness from 1968).