Any Caregiving Agency Recommendations in Philadelphia area?
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Comments (11)Suzieque, don't forget the financial arrangements. Most banks are not happy with POAs, unless you use their own forms. Make sure that you are on all her bank accounts. Remember that a POA expires with the death of the person. Does she have her will in order? Are her assets in a trust? Now's the time to make sure. In Mother's last two years, she started obsessing about various things. Drove me crazy. She would balance her bank statement several times a day. She thought that if the SS auto-deposit was made on the first of the month, and also later on the 31st (for the next month), "they" were going to take it away from her. She became less and less able to understand things like that. I finally had the bank change the address to my home, plus her social security address, because she'd also stress about any piece of mail that she would get. I had trouble lying to her, but I learned how. I had a long talk with a neighbor of hers who was a retired nun and school teacher/principal about lying. Talk about taking me back to my childhood! But Sister Noreen was a wonderful help to me. See if you can find someone like that to unload on. Someone discrete who won't blab, but will let you talk. And let it all out. I had to jiggle her savings. She had two CDs that paid a good rate, about 6% (those were the days!), and she had about $30 per month too much income to qualify for a rent reduction. So I took out enough from one CD and opened another at a lower rate, reduced her income and saved her more than $300 in rent for the $30 lowering of her income. There is NO way she'd ever have been able to follow that maneuver, and she'd have fainted to have learned that she was losing income, but it was the right thing to do. But I had to lie to her, naturally. I was completely stressed at that time. I learned to set boundaries with Mother. She might call and say that she needed something from the store (her meals were provided), and I learned to NOT drop everything to go shop for her. I learned to not be available every single day, even if I actually was free. Of course, I was available for an emergency, but I learned to put her off a little. At least it gave me a sense on control in my own life, if you know what I mean. Figure out something to do just for yourself on a regular basis. Take a long walk, an exercise class, a massage, go to a movie, whatever you can do just for yourself. Turn off the cell phone for an hour or two. I'll think of more hints that you might be able to use, but I do recommend finding someone to talk to. And keep posting here, of course....See MoreCaregiver forum?
Comments (22)Glad to be here, just want you to know you're not alone. leahcate, that's very sweet of you to say. ;) The bed size pads are good size (covers from shoulders to waist easily). If he only gets out of the bed on one side, it could still work. Or maybe put the bed against the wall so he has to get out of bed on one side? (The alarm does trip if there's no pressure, then pressure, then none again.) Although on second thought, in that large a bed, if he rolled on & off the pad he'd be tripping it a lot. I'll keep thinking, maybe someone at one of the forums has resolved that issue. (My F-I-L had Alzheimer's, they ended up getting a hospital bed with rails. Tho you can just purchase rails. He was getting advanced at that point and it was necessary.) I did a quick google (they have something for everything it seems. ;) There are floor mats, like this one. That might tide you over till morning. My mom wasn't on sleep aids, but was groggy when she woke up. Nights were the worst. (Pre-alarm days.) I used night lights + motion sensing night lights + safety rails and she still took a couple nasty falls. I ended up buying a couple little 'personal alarms' for about $5 each at Radio shack. Fixed it so she could wear around her neck and simply pull it at night if she needed me. My stomach knots up just remembering the falls, she was on blood thinners & taken off because of it. :/ I found for home health aids, Amazon has a staggering offering. And for customer service, you can't beat Moen. (They make really nice safety rails for bathrooms if you ever get to where you need something like that, Lowes carries a good selection.) I bought a Deluxe bath bench on clearance, opened it up to find it had no back. So I emailed Moen to see if they'd send me one, because my mom loved that bench, and no stores around here had any in stock. I got an email back from a CS rep that he'd take care of it. Two days later I was amazed to discover an entire new bench delivered to my front door, no charge. And they were over $100 retail. Nice people!...See More- 29 days ago
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