A hypothetical question - what one thing would be important to you?
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Comments (12)Running bamboo is child's play in our blackland prairies clay compared with the campsis radicans (trumpet vine) or parthenocissus quinquefolia (VA creeper) natives; though imagine it's aggressiveness can vary a lot by soil type and/or region. Here the seeds don't volunteer, so main problem with them is accumulation in the pool skimmer and other filter baskets. The plants will also stay in place indefinitely (3+ decades) with properly installed barriers. If runners (rhizomes) do manage to escape, the fear of dealing with them is often worse than reality (at least in our blp clay). While a few peripheral runners are not tough to deal with, eliminating a well established grove to plant something else could be - suspect this is where a lot of the bad rap comes from. The bamboo runners we live next to are very shallow, so doubt they would find their way out through the bottom of containers as deep as the ones in your photo. Even most of the roots stay within the top foot of soil, but it's just the shallow runners that need to be contained. The large "mesh" of shallow runners rather than deep roots is what keeps the bamboo vertical in high winds. We did have bamboo emerge ~25ft from our neighbor's grove when a contractor left 2 inches of topsoil on a concrete pad between our yards. Removed the dirt, pruned the runners, and knocked down the shoots that came up only for a week or two in the spring and they were gone within a couple seasons. The backyard of our relatives' San Antonio home had been taken over by their neighbor's running bamboo at the time they purchased it. Took a lot of work to initially cut it out, but now easily kept in place by just mowing the lawn - the failed or missing rhizome barrier will only become a problem should they ever decide to replace the grass along the property line with a shrub or flower bed. Here is a link that might be useful: Control and Maintain Running Bamboo This post was edited by bostedo on Fri, Jun 6, 14 at 13:02...See MorePosing hypothetical Dog Encounter Question
Comments (23)Years ago, I was a paper delivery boy(circa 1957). I was 11 at the time. On my route was a homeowner(female) who was extremely antisocial. She had a rather large cocker spaniel---who was also extremely antisocial. She would command the dog to attack anyone walking on her section of the sidewalk. I have no idea if adults ever tried to complain/get the city to intervene. All I knew was I was continually at risk. Now, for all you trainers out there, this happened way before Cesar/etc. I had grown up in farming communities and learned to deal with animals as necessary. Anyway, after all the avoidance techniques I could come up with, I decided aggression was the only tactic left. The dog was getting more and more aggressive---simply because I was not being equally aggressive. The dog actually grabbed my pants leg one day. I had begun carrying a section of ax handle about 24" long in my paper bag and grabbed it. I cracked the dog on its head, which made it turn loose of my pants leg. It then leapt at my face. I backed off and decided I had one option left. The next charge offered the opening and I shoved my hand into the dogs mouth and as far down it's throat as I could. The dog choked to death on my hand as the woman screamed at me. The police were called, neighbors congregated, and I was finally exonerated---due to holes in my pants and witness accounts matching my story. The only other attempted attack on me by a dog happened when a German Shepherd decided to jump the owners fence and have me for lunch. It came in low and flat, no growling or posturing---just pure attack intention. I had nothing to use for defense other than my anger(I was trying to walk off being mad), so I channeled all that anger into the posture and growl I assumed as the dog got to within 6 feet. I still get goose bumps remembering that encounter. The dog quickly decided I was much more of a force than it was and actually turned, tail between legs and slunk away. Now, that was a once in a lifetime(hopefully) encounter. And I had always had an anger management problem---I was mad at my wife and was walking off the anger instead of allowing it out at home. I walked over 10 miles that day---about 7 of those miles after the dog encounter. So, my response to the dog's intended attack was way more than would have been possible normally. But, it does show dog attacks are never the same and need to be dealt with on an individual basis. The OP's question was rather silly---that sort of thing described would probably never happen. And I do not carry a Kimber---I carry a .40 caliber revolver called a Pit Bull, made by Charter Arms....See MoreWhat important things did you learn from your dad?
Comments (36)My father taught me how to open a peanut, how to drive, and to never believe a thing he promised. (Out of sight = out of mind.) Typical of him is a letter I found among my mother's things after she died. It was written from his club, where he was living before my parents divorce was final. In it he writes of his deep love for his daughter and how he will always care for her. I was three at the time. (He would remember that from time to time and buy something extravagant for me, but he never paid the small alimony or child support ordered by the court.) I think I've figured out how he came to be the way he was -- forever striving for the love and approval of a pair of grandiose parents who had absolutely nothing to feel grand about. He was a second son. He achieved greater financial success than any of his siblings (6) and supported or helped to support his parents and all the others, to no avail. All parental affection was bestowed upon only one child, the first son. My father never got past that unmet craving. That, and his skirt-chasing, were why my mother finally gave up....See Morehypothetical question
Comments (19)22yr old adult gift recipient & adult gift givers. Unless I am the gift giver or the giver has asked me to intercede it is a case of MYOB. The financial interactions of other people are personal and should never be commented upon with them or discussed with others unless they have personally asked for you to help or for your opinion. Though in this hypothetical situation......... ........As the gift giver I would ask the young woman if she had cashed to check and if not to please do so soon. I would like to clear my account and the funds still in there are causing issues I don't wish to deal with. If the check is lost a stop payment could be necessary and then finally as many personal checks are only good for 90 days from the date signed it may end up not payable. LIL...See More- last year
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