Looks like o j doesn't add (or is that "subtract"?) very capably ... ... 'cause when ya start from 7 and ya count down 11, or 12, part of full days, ya arrive at 19 which will likely be a good enough day on its own, but doesn't get us to where we want to go. To get from 7 to 30 ... takes about 23 - so to deal with my big day - see ya in 23 days! ole (lousy mathematician) joyfuelled

A propos a thread in the last week, in which some women expressed the view that they wanted to die before their husbands so as not to have to live without him. A 60-ish couple is lying in bed. The woman says to her husband: You know, I hope I die first. I couldn't face life without you. ----Don't talk like that, we're here and we'll be together for many, many years. And whatever happens, happens. Women live longer than men so likely I'll be the first to go. But don't worry, you'll be fine. Yes, but I still feel that way, I don't want to be alone and I can't fathom facing life without you, your not being with me. But if I do die first, I want you to know that I don't expect you to live alone or as a celibate. Go out, find someone to be with, and be free to have a new partner. It's what I want you to do. ---Oh, I could never do that. You're my lifelong love and best friend, no one could ever fill those shoes for me if you're gone. No, I mean it. Find happiness for yourself. But there's just one thing. I've thought about your finding a new partner. If you do find someone new, the thought of her sleeping here in this spot, in our bed, is a bit uncomfortable for me. Do you think that could happen? ---No, I promise you, there's no chance that would ever happen. She's told me she hates how you've decorated this house and that she could never live here.

Ok - it took me several minutes to even see why it took Olychick a minute! I saw what the appliance should be not what it is! And, I was tucked in before midnight so it’s not that I partied too hard. 🙄

Katlan, we fixed our small mutt with an indoor potty. I bought white cotton bath mats and put them on a tile floor In the bathroom. We wash them like diapers. He will pee, but prefers to walk for poo. Poo is a ”I gotta go”, lol.