What's for Dinner #412 Summer 2024
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Idyll #412 The Spirit of December
Comments (101)Its snowing right now, just a light one. Just started and the kitties and cur will be thrilled to experience it when Daddy gets up. Wow, Eden! Id forgotten you had a chandelier in your boudoir. It looks great, especially decorated for the Yuletide season. Did you use one of those plastic medallions to add the detail to your ceiling? Ive looked at them repeatedly over the years and have never used one before. Seeing yours got me thinking about the possibility of using one over the stairwell in the Salon (whenever I get around to replacing the cord and the bare bulb, lol). I have to agree with you on the annoying aspect of Spike and the necessity of him remaining in Bellas home! You could always give her a lump of coal and tell her its what ultimately became of all the dinosaurs, you know. ;) Books were always a huge part of gift giving in our home. And like Bella, my brother and I were never disappointed to receive them. I love that you and Bella read together; so, SO important, and not only for good reading skills, but also for relaxing and cementing the bond of affection and trust that will make the "tough" years easier. Michelle, I love the idea of making puzzles for Kenzie. I can only imagine the squeals of joy when theyre completed and pictures of her favorite haunts at your home are revealed by her hard work. There are so many inventive ways to use technology to keep those distant close. Weve had none of your bone-chilling temperatures here but they will arrive as they always do! Still, though, we rarely see zero degrees F here in the "banana belt" of the Pine Tree State. Ive yet to get working on the decorations for the outside of the house, PM. That wreath picture is so pretty. I havent decided whether or not to fool around with the wet saw today or apply myself to the task of stapling greens to frames. The helpmeet brought home a bundle of "brush" (trimmings from Christmas trees) the other day. Which reminds me that I ought to move them inside the bahn before they are covered with snow . As usual, Ive gotten several chuckles from Cynthias post. Will today be the day the window candles are displayed at your house? Do you make winter jammies for your peach-skinned canids for the winter season? The image of the girls peeling around the yard pretending they were pursuing the "Yankee" cracked me up. Mary, the generosity of musicians never ceases to amaze me. There is a definite kinship there, a shared experience of learning something, practicing, and mastering it. Hard work and joy in the subject elicits the generosity of such a thoughtful loan. Several years ago the cellist, YoYo Ma left his Stradivarius in a taxi. The instrument is valued in the millions of dollars and it was returned as soon as the oversight was reported. There was a similar story about another musician who left her instrument in some sort of public transport not too long ago . Hard to believe anyone could forget something so obvious, but Im sure it happens more than we know. I love the sound of the Lute, when I hear it now I always think of Mary I of England, who was the most accomplished musician of all Henry VIIIs children (all of whom were quite talented). I think my favorite composer is Handel, though I am a fan of Georg Telemann, too. I am particularly fond of the bright, cheerful sound of brass. I purchased a pair of speakers for the Salon yesterday, having stewed on it for some time. We have rather a lot of stereo components kicking around the Compound, certainly enough to cobble together some sort of "system" for music delivery, but speakers are in short supply. I am not particularly skilled in programming remote controls but Im shooting for the Holy Grail, you guys. ONE remote to control volume and program/control a receiver and disc changer from anywhere in the room. Mind you, no such feat has ever been accomplished in this household before, so Im clearly shootin for the moon on this one. Speaking of the moon, I DID enjoy the convergence in the heavens, Martie. It was very cool and both the helpmeet and I commented that we always think of the generations before us that looked up at the same thing, and considered the possibility of what a knowledge of the stars could provide them. I wish Rich lived near me. The helpmeet attempted to install the staircase railings last spring. He was irritated and when hes like that he tends to hurry. Anyway, it looks like doggie poo-poo and Ive quietly decided Im going to look into hiring someone to do it with less "attitude". Ill bet itd be childs play for Rich and Ill bet he wouldnt mind if I wanted to "prefinish" some of the pieces before they were completely installed. You are so right about the importance of thoughtfulness in gift giving. The point of the season isnt the "booty", at all. My list includes several rather small items that will flesh out my tool collection and thats about it. Helpmeet has yet to present his wish list, so Im not certain whats on it. Hopefully no Spike! I lol when Eden worried that your "out of work" friend doesnt appear at your door, Cindy, looking for another winter of protection. Repeat after me (while giving a nod to Nancy Reagan), "just say no". And I dont "get" keeping the dead plants around, either. Thats probably why there are no houseplants in this house! All the suggestions on how to address them made me laugh. Im always interested in your reports on the news from the heart of our nation. Marian, Rex would make your yard a regular stop if you set out a turkey buffet for him. He might even bestow a certain "gift" on the edge of your lawn area, too. Speaking of which, he is giving me "the eyes". Hes had breakfast and now hes jonesin to go out for his morning constitutional. Id best get suited up to chaperone him. Keep warm!...See MoreSS Support - Mon. 4/12 thru Wed. 4/14
Comments (21)Hi guys, Thanks for the preliminaries. I am really trying to be unbiased on this, but it's hard! He IS envious of college kids' carefree, no strings life. Each time we attend a college get-together, he mentions that. I trust him with his own time and am not worried about him being inappropriate with other people, so a tryst is not an issue here. Our discussion Thursday is just between us, no counselor. We're usually able, after attending many counseling session over the past 2 years, to get these things worked out---fortunately. Sometimes, though, it takes a few nights of conversations. We use this formula: A prediscussion, where we let the other person know the topic we want to talk about, so they can be prepared. We set a date 2 days from that day to talk. It helps us analyze our feelings toward the topic. When we meet, we establish the topic and write it down, so we stick with it! One of our problems used to be adding other issues into the mix---no more! Then we reveal our emotional attachments, insecurities, and fears about the topic. Then we respond to each other's response to the above, just to help them understand that WE understand the hot, underlying issues. We don't interrupt each other while we are stating our feelings and wants regarding the topic. During the discussion, we remain sensitive to our partner's trigger times and remain aware that either of us can stop the discussion at any time and we can begin again in 2 days. And lastly, we stay realistic, knowing that it may take more than one session to solve the problem. This formula has worked really well for us. We very seldom have any simmering issues building resentment under the surface of our relationship. It's nice to be able to bring things out in the open, even if they are controversial. it's not always a comfortable conversation, but afterward, we are both relieved about the openess and ability to talk. __________________ It's raining cat and dogs here! The freeways are messy, but not too bad, as it appears people are giving themselves extra time to complete their commutes. I am still on track with eating, however, my sleep has been restless as of late---I wonder why???---lol. I am helping a friend get hay today after I get the older kids off to school. Then I am heading over to photograph my friend who is preggers with twins. Her 36th week is next week and she is about to have the babies, so we want to get a photo of her body, while it's heavy with love! I am bring a beautiful, full length burgundy stretchy dress for her to wear. I also am loading up my big Malabar wicker chair for her to stand by or sit in, along with a sheer cabana net to hang from a tree and drape around the scene for background. It ought to be fun and my kids will play with hers while we work on getting something pleasing. Then it's off to the market (more veggies and fruit) and then to the barn for older DD's gaming lessons. Hope you all are getting through the week with no worries! Friday's coming!!!!!! Thanks for the insight to my issues with DH. I welcome any additions to the discussions....See MoreWhat’s for Dinner #411 Late Spring 2024
Comments (80)DH visited our friend at the fishing village again and brought home fresh, fresh fish again. We had it with salad and asparagus and a sauce made from the butter and oil in the pan and lemon juice, salt and pepper… easy and tasty. The asparagus has a story to it in as much as I was in a hurry, saw it in the store, grabbed a bunch, vaguely thinking that the new asparagus from our northern regions must be coming in. When I got home I saw it was from Mexico??? So much for being careful about food miles. Ridiculous. Anyway it tasted OK. I’m trying to sort out better lighting for my winter photos, it’s quite dark at 5pm atm. The dining area still has the old halogen down lights because there was an issue with the dimmer when we switched to LED years ago… the halogen gives quite a yellow light, which annoys me… Not that it matters really....See MoreHealthy Lifestyle Progress - Week of 9/17/2024
Comments (19)This week and last week have been a mixed bag when it comes to exercise. Working from home, I'm not in a habit of getting out the door to the office in the morning. Last week I had two days I needed to go in for a communication training opportunity and this week I had a day of a challenging team technical discussion I was leading in the office. So I missed out on a few of my normal exercise mornings. I made sure to take my injured dog on her short (now up to 10min!) walks. Every other day I've continued my normal alternating swim/run days. Last two Sundays I've pushed myself to 1.5hr runs (which is a very long for me) with lots of hills. The weather is cooling down which is great for running but a little less pleasant for early morning swims outside. I'm still experiencing arm/elbow pain although it's improving. I planned to start lifting but haven't yet. Still getting some sharp pains in the elbow area. Also I am so sad that my massage therapist has decided to move to another state. I've used her for nearly a decade and she's been such an important part of keeping me active when I get strains and injuries from exercise. She was the only one who was able to help with a serious IT band injury (phsical therapist was useless) and fixing debilitating neck pain (probably from computer work + stress). She gave me a few names/numbers to reach out and see if I can find someone new. Change is hard. On the food front I am trying to put in the effort to try making some new things (with lots of veggies) instead of just falling back to familiar boring options. My work has felt very busy and chaotic and I think that ends up taking a lot of my energy and I lose motivation by the time it's time to cook dinner. I did finally find the time to try a new red curry kuri squash soup recipe on the weekend that was pretty good. I also have some work travel coming up again and I'm anxious about getting sick (again) from the food. Some of the meals are planned / arranged and although the organizer is aware of my gluten intolerance, the safety is not guaranteed and I've gotten sick a few times. I have to be careful not to offend the organizer by just refusing to eat, but every time it is risky. Crossing my fingers it's better this trip!...See More- 2 years ago
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