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Comments (29)There is a housing development down the road from me that installed a very long section of what looks to be flower carpet white roses, if not they are a similar groundcover type of rose. For some reason half of the length is tended, the roses are pruned, fertilized, and mulched once a year, and the other half is left to it's own devices. The half that is tended blooms way more and looks way better than the other half, so I definitely would say these type of roses are 'less care' not 'no care.' I have a couple of scarlet flower carpet roses because I liked the bright color, they do well with less water and pruning than my other roses and the leaves are always healthy and green. As to the idea that one has to choose between a garden or children, I think that it's ridiculous. When I was little I spent hours in the garden with my Mom, she showed me everything that was safe to eat and I would wander around trying things out and generally having a good time. There was a movie few years ago that documented the first year of life of four different babies, one American, one Japanese, one Mongolian, and one Namibian. The conclusion of the photographer was that benign neglect is highly underrated in our society. Children need to be cared for, but spending some time on their own to discover who they are is also important. And a garden is a great place to begin that sort of independent exploration, especially with a Mom weeding close by to keep an eye on them. Caveat, I have no children and therefore no real right to speak on the matter. Lastly, I don't know if it's because I live in such a great place to garden or what, but I see no deficit of gardeners and gardens in my area. The nurseries are always crowded on weekends, and when I go to get plants for my own garden I usually see young parents with little ones in tow. Especially in the vegetable section, it seems like there are a lot of families around here that are getting more and more interested in exposing their children to where food comes from at a young age. Trends always change, right now people may have moved away from gardening but it's only a matter of time before the pendulum swings back in the other direction....See MoreWhat do you speak?
Comments (55)I never understood why Americans get upset that foreign speaking people speak to each other in their own language. My mom was Japanese and had a lot of Japanese friends. I don't see why it would bother anyone, I mean I've seen Americans whispering about other people in the same room. I find that a whole lost ruder. So, if you go to France are you supposed to speak French to your American family? I can understand they should learn the language if they are going to live in that country but how do you know everyone speaking a foreign language has moved here and not visiting? I lived in Germany for 4 1/2 years and attempted to speak German, took a class and didn't do too well. Everytime I went out in the community I'd stumble over my sentences and the German person I was speaking to would just talk to me in English. So, I basically gave up trying. I guess all of you would think I was being rude speaking English to my American friends while I was living there, in the presence of Germans?...See MoreAnother Silly "This Irks Me" Thread
Comments (54)In the words category, boughten instead of bought, pleaded instead of pled,and broke instead of broken. For example, This skirt was boughten at the mall. He has pleaded guilty. The necklace was broke when I got home. National news people say these all the time. I get "irked" at children running around in a restaurant. Parents who are so engrossed in their phones they don't acknowledge their children. Dirty coats and snotty noses on little ones. People that "test" the grapes at the grocery store. First of all, isn't that stealing? Secondly, puhleezzz, it is not washed! I do feel better now. Thank you....See MoreIrked at AARP Hucksters
Comments (25)Sushipup1 -- as far as I know, everyone is eligible for a supplemental plan, but if they don't sign up when they first become eligible for Medicare (or, as in my case, after an allowed deferral ), they might have to qualify for the coverage -- just as a person can be denied life insurance for existing conditions. But, also as far as I understand, during the open enrollment period this year your friend could sign up for a supplemental plan. Now, as for what the ENT charged.... A provider is a Medicare participating provider if they agree to charge only the Medicare-approved fee for all services (they write off the amount Medicare doesn't cover). The patient pays the 20% of that approved fee that Medicare doesn't pay. A nonparticipating provider is one who sees Medicare patients and sends a bill to Medicare, but does not accept the Medicare-approved fee as the full fee for the service provided. The provider can charge the patient up to Medicare's limiting charge. Medicare lowers its approved fee by 5% for nonparticipating providers. In other words, the approved fee for a nonparticipating provider will be 95% of the approved fee for a participating provider. Then, the nonparticipating provider can charge the patient 115% of the lowered (95%) fee. If you do the math, it works out to the nonparticipating provider's fee being 109.25% -- that is, the maximum you can be charged by a nonparticipating provider is 9.25% more than Medicare's approved fee. There is a third type of provider -- one who doesn't get involved with Medicare at all. They don't submit a bill to Medicare and won't accept any fee limitations by Medicare. They reject Medicare. They will see patients who are on Medicare, but only after the patient signs a contract stating that they understand these terms and agree to pay the provider's full fee themselves. However, that provider must inform you if the service to be provided would be covered by Medicare if rendered by a provider who sees Medicare patients. So, either the ENT is a participating provider who violated Medicare's rules and charged more than the limiting fee (in which case he should be reported to Medicare), or else your friend signed a contract to be seen by a provider who rejects Medicare and she agreed to pay his entire fee. But, yeah, if she can't afford it, she can't afford it. Because her only income is SS which cannot be garnished, she is what is referred to as "judgment proof."...See More- 2 years ago
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