I have Wind's Breath on my Kitchen cabiinets. As I heard one color expert say on you tube, it's a complicated color. There are times of the day when it looks a bit more grey, (but warmish gray) and times where it looks creamy - especially at night when we just have one not very bright overhead light on. And often it's just in-between. Personally, I like it alot. I think what makes it "complicated" is that it seems sort of cool, but also feels warm. Hard to explain! I have granite countertops that have gold, brown, deep taupe and beige throughout, and travertine wall tiles that are beigey-taupe with a very slight pink/rose undertone - barely noticeable unless you are really looking for it. I was worried it wouldn't all come together but it did quite nicely. Floors are honey which works, but slightly darker would probably be better. Right now I have BM Desert Tan on the non-cabinet wall and while I LOVE the color, it's not the greatest when paired with Wind's Breath. It doesn't look bad or "wrong" but I know I need to find something a little more toned down.

Update: I visited our local SW store and came home with sample swatches from the Emerald Designer Collection, including Grey Heron. Indeed, it looks really close to Agreeable Gray (great suggestion dianeski!) I question if it has a touch more green showing up, but might be imagining it. Ultimately, I can't bring myself to use one of those colors for a large paint job without having a bigger sample—which are still unavailable—and I refuse to buy a "test" gallon. It's a bummer. SW Lunar Lite 9546 was also interesting. Those colors have a lot of potential! Also, our painter called and apparently is ready to start next week! A good two months sooner than projected, lol. I am now back to looking at SW Crushed Ice (LRV 66) and BM Shoreline (LRV 68). I did not previously mention Shoreline. It's a sample I tried a while back that someone had recommended. I had ruled it out for fear of it flexing too gray/lavender/pink in certain lighting. BUT. In our current southern light, it's a lovely, pale, barely there gray with a softness to it. I think either of these colors could work and compliment the BM Stonington Gray of our living room. It's a matter of figuring out what I can live with as the lighting/seasons change, because the look of the paint color will flex no matter what. Right now, our home is at its peak brightness, but everything looks gloomier during snowy Michigan winters—despite southern and eastern light. I recently mentioned liking BM Classic Gray and SW White Heron (and still do), but on brighter days, they have looked too washed out and blended in with our neutral upstairs carpet (though foyer floors are dark wood). Obsessing over this is ridiculous (though also a distraction from the serious current issues in our world). I'm sure any of the colors mentioned will look better than the dark, dirty taupe currently on our walls, lol. It's just a lot of money and I after hating the current color for so long, I want to get this right!

IMO the Neutral Ground would be a no for sure I do see pink in it and I would suggest you go with something like Healing Aloe BM I find those types of grayed greens more neutral than grays or beiges for sure and of course it looks awesome with wood and white trim.

I'm sure you've come across the paint expert, Kylie M, but incase you haven't, here is her take on edgecomb gray : https://www.kylieminteriors.ca/colour-review-edgecomb-gray-benjamin-moore/  I don't know much about it, but I have watched her videos and read her blog enough to know that she is a HUGE fan. She constantly refers to this color as "grounded." She also writes about Winds Breath here: https://www.kylieminteriors.ca/paint-colour-review-benjamin-moore-winds-breath-oc-24/