How to position sconces when sink isn't centered?
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Comments (18)I think you can make some distinctions between "organizing" and simple daily cleanup that you might do as part of living in a family--doing the dishes, putting away laundry and so forth. --I know they're related in the sense that underlying order helps with maintenance and cleanup, but that's something for your own home; really, you don't need to clean out the attic in your parents' home or throw out their plastic containers. So it is definitely not healthy going into drawers and closets in attempt to "organize"--these actions are part of the parent-parent-child power struggle and you are seeing yourself in the wrong role. You might try a family meeting, but that could be hard without a neutral party such as a family counselor--it would be again, the 21-yr old being the family/marriage counselor. It could be done if you were able to use it simply to state your discomfort and what you feel comfortable doing vs. not, and to ASK for their support. You wouldn't be able to lay down any ultimatums, such as "you have to..." It sounds like you are already at a point at which you would need to have conversation with your dad alone, to some extent, in that you have identified him as a driving force requesting you to fix your mother--if you can't talk with your dad or if he doesn't "get it" in conversation with you alone, he won't get it in the presence of your mother. But, see, you would have to really WANT to stop being in the middle in order to propose to your father, here, I can do this and this, but I would prefer it if you would not ask or expect me to that and that. You could stay there if somehow you are able to change YOURSELF--to develop some serenity and distance from these struggles and just smile and fix an occasional meal, do daily and weekly chores as a good citizen of the family, and, if you really like organizing, graciously do so whenever your mother gives you a target drawer, etc (assuming she doesn't later accuse you of doing it wrong). Some people can manage a year like that. But, another approach as mentioned is to get out your pencil and paper and calculuate your way into moving out and continuing school on your own even if at a slower pace. You would be the one to know whether your father would be willing to discuss tuition or a loan if you move out. But, it can be done with or without their financial support. You could do either approach, and it's not completely wrong to stay to get tuition if you can manage all these other emotions and situations, but you can't really stay and stew about why your parents won't change. It isn't really good for your siblings to watch that dynamic, either, because it certainly won't be a successful strategy for them to follow as they get older. One of the reasons why protecting your siblings isn't a helpful rationale is that, under that reasoning, you would have to stay there until they all leave home....See MoreWhere do I Place a light over table that isn't centered?
Comments (39)Comments on table shape: As you know, an oval table and a round table with leaves in are different ovals. An oval table is, as far as I can remember, NOT a hemisphere on each end. More pointed than that. I would look at them carefully, because your banquette will probably be hemispherical. I think a 54'' or maybe even a 60'' round will work for you in the space. With two leaves when you need to extend it. The style I would look for is a five foot round double pedestal or trestle table that could be extended with leaves. Be certain that when the leaves are inserted, the base spreads to provide a balanced top. Or, in a few tables, both circle halves move apart on glides, the leaf is inserted in the middle, and the base stays centered. (I think a pedestal or trestle table will provide better entrance clearance into the booth than a table with four legs, like the last one in the pics you posted.) I have seen antique ones like this., but not any modern ones that I can recall. Maybe someone will have suggestions. Maybe you can try out some tables in a good furniture store and see if the lop-sided extension on only one side of the pedestal is a problem. It sure is on mine. I am eager to see your finished kitchen. This is going to be lovely. Sandra...See MoreOffcenter sink - center light on sink or window?
Comments (5)OK thanks! The 2 light idea is interesting. There isn't any task lighting in that corner--there's an appliance garage so no UCL, also I'm not doing can lights. I think centering the light on the window would give enough light in that corner, but 2 lights would be even better. I think I'd be happy with either centering on the window or 2 lights. I'll talk to GC and get an idea of relative cost and impact to schedule (I have a few little issues like this, and I don't want to derail the big picture)....See MoreHow close to the edge should silicone be on positive reveal sink?
Comments (3)" I stuck the edge of a piece of paper under the lip of the quartz and it looks like the caulk line starts about 1/4", and sometimes 1/2", in from the edge of the quartz. I am wondering if this is typical, or should I be able to see the silicone caulk line act as a water barrier all the way around the sink?" You should not be able to slide anything between an undermounted sink and the bottom of a top, no matter the reveal. This is not typical. A topical application of caulk is inadequate. Can you see silicone squeeze-out when you look up under the sink flange? You may not be hitting silicone with the paper; there may be none. You're going to have an unsanitary mess soon: Your sink needs to be rehung properly; it takes just over an hour, but I've done it over 50 times. Use a Hercules Universal Sink Harness (Braxton Bragg) or a Sink Strap (Regent Stone Products). Expect to pay about $300.00, unless you want to do it yourself. Although quartz isn't supposed to be "rodded", leaking sinks are one of the main causes of catastrophic rod failure in granite. A leaking sink, quartz or granite, is not only unsanitary, it'll rust your cabinet hinges: ....See More2rickies
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