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Comments (3)I'm back please excuse some of my spelling. I have not been on the computer for a couple of years. My son is helping with the basics. Now to get back to my notes. when I took my husband to v.a. nose,ear and throat doctor. doctor checked his death ear, doctor asked him was he around any loud noises. It was not a silence war. HIS EAR WAS ALL scar tissue,they gave him hearing aids, It didn't work at all for his death ear. and my husband's cartilage in his nose was disconnected years later,they took his cartilage out, and put it back in to reconnect it.when it was time to take him home the nurse pulled the packing out. I came home from work around 1am went and checked on my husband, he was laying in a pool of blood.I called 911,they could not stop blood,coming out of his nose and throat,they got him to hospital. they had to repack his nose.he was very weak. Now when came to his front blown out teeth,my husband told me back then there was a argument whether it was dental or medical problem. He was emotionally discussed. My husband said he went to a outside dentist. got part upper top plate. then he told me his nose was bleeding,he went back to v.a. they found there were fragments from the Bullet in sinus area,they took them out. When he starter getting a toothache. the v.a. told me,my husband didn't have enough % to see dentist there, only if he was already in hospital. a week later he was in hospital. I rolled him down to dental, they took xrays, the dentist told me to bring him back and will pull out his bad teeth. so I did. when I brought my husband back to dental, there was a different dentist,he took out teeth, found out he took out the wrong teeth,he made a mistake,so now he pulled the rest of his teeth.they had to make upper and lower dentures! The dentist looked at the xray before he pulled my husband's teeth and though the x's on teeth were suppose to stay. none of this mistakes was put in his records. now he has 100% dental with no teeth. got to take a break. work at all for his death ear.and his cartilage was disconnected in his nose.years later the v.a. did take it out and put it back and reconnected it....See MoreLost Husband to Alzheimer's
Comments (4)Mary, I am so very sorry for your loss. I know your DH was telling you how much he loves you and always will. My husband lost an 18 month battle with cancer two and a half years ago and like you I love him and miss him so much but he suffered so much, I wouldn't have wished him one extra minute of what he was going through. A lot of us on this forum have been through the same thing and can identify with you. Hold on to the memories you have of the wonderful life you had together. Mavis...See MoreI cant seem to get moving
Comments (20)i am back to ask for more advice. my new problem is this. Since the day my husband passed away I have asked all the questions we all ask ourselves. the main one i keep asking is why was he driving so fast on that bike and why did he get on it while he was drinking.I asked everyone over and over if they knew what happened. Well i finally found out what happened and I am caught in the middle of a fight.I dont know what to do.It seems his best friend was out at a different place (my husband was at the biker rally then they decided to go to a bar if i was in town this never would have happened).his friend called and said hurry up and get here I need your help, he never was able to tell him no. I can remember so many nights we would be sleeping and the phone would ring and it would be him asking for help.no matter what time it was my husband always went to his rescue.well this time my husband didnt make it.My husband passed away at 1:09, he talked to his friend at 1:07 he was in that much of a hurry to help his friend.Then he called my husbands phone at 3:30 and said thanks alot i really needed you.(like my husband didnt go to his rescue and die on the way there.)Now the problem is my brother in law checked my husbands messages before meand erased them because he didnt want me to hear them and go kill his best friend which I wanted to do when they finally told me what happened.Now when i asked his friend he said he thought he told me, which he may have because i have not been all here these days.And yes I was mad at him but i know how my husband was with him he never let him down . my husband should not have been on the bike that night period.... But my husbands family all blame his friend and get mad at me if I talk to him. he is my daughters godfather.I try to explain to my inlaws that it is as much my fault as it is his. I never should have went out of town without him.If we were going to play the blame game we could go on forever.The fact is my husband is gone and i know he would not want us to be mean to his friend and me being nice to him is making my inlaws mad at me . what should I do. I need feedback. thanks tracy...See MoreFriends husband passed over the weekend
Comments (3)You may try sending her a handwritten letter (short note) to let her know that she is in her thoughts and that you are available for her whenever she is ready. I know that after my daughter passed, I was crazy with all of the support people tried to provide. It was a little overwhelming, then and even now, and it's been 13 years. Maybe after things settle, or when she has one of those low moments, she might give her some peace to see you note letting her know that you are there for her. That may be enough to get her back to center, so to speak. You may want to drop by and sit with her for a few moments, just so she will have someone to vent to. It's tough, as we all know. It's just as difficult to be in your shoes, but sometimes it only takes something simple to be a true friend....See More
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