Finally time to give up and join the fake tree camp?
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Comments (45)The old adage "if you want something done right, do it yourself" rings very true here. I like the yellow stakes idea. Even if the mow/blow guys can't read, surely they know their colors - do not touch!!! The yard man who does the landscape care where I work clips the formosa azaleas like hedges - even after August when they have set their buds for next spring. I told my boss but he still does it, and there were no flowers this year. Duh! You grow up in Florida and don't know azaleas aren't hedges??? I've had my neighbor's "20-year old handyman/gardener" spray RU in the wind (my whole front yard of roses was downwind) and say "my uncle says it only kills grass". There's no cure for stupid. The builder of our subdivision (34 lots) did not want an HOA but after erecting a nice entrance sign for the subd name was told by the city that doing so required him to have an association (?!?!). So he went the minimally invasive route of a POA - Property Owners Association. In Florida anyway a POA may or may not apply even the few rules they have which are only meant to protect property values NOT dictate house color, yard plantings, etc. Our rules do say we must have grass in the front yard, but the board has not enforced that against me. :)) Invariably, there are errors in communication - especially between men and women (I won't say more, but I don't understand what's so hard about LISTENING). Funny thing - my bosses DH is a very verbal, non-mechanical, lawyer-educated but non practicing man who repeats EVERYTHING he says at least twice. At first I found it kind of aggravating, but then I came to appreciate the second chance to "get" his instructions and now wish everyone would "tell me twice". I'm more and more grateful for the toughness of OGRs. I hope hoovb's HOA Mons Tillier is on its way to recovery, and I hope luxrosa's 12" tall teas survived. I will be hugely impressed if they do. Sherry...See MoreI give up - the deer win
Comments (43)Where are the large game hunters? Home playing computer games where they can kill, kill, kill, die and be reborn, all in the comfort of their overheated houses! Fewer and fewer young men are taking up the "manly" sport of hunting. Ask any hunting club! Hunters are disappearing from the landscape! And here's another point to consider: Take City and State-owned, overgrown, "forever green" forests, so dense they no longer provide browse for the deer or berries for bear, add the "improved grazing" along the sides of every state road and federal highway (deer death traps looking for times to happen), sprinkle generously with accessible dumpsters to provide continued instant gratification for the bears which are shipped here from Westchester County and parts south -- Bear that have already learned that people food fills stomachs much more quickly than picking berries and climbing trees to snatch bird eggs and apples -- They are shipped here, where momma bear teaches baby what is fit to eat and where to find it. She doesn't teach her babies to forage for berries and fish and ants and mice and other small game. Instead, she teaches them how to pry open garbage cans, sift through dumpsters, and access bird feeders. It isn't a kindness to move the bears 100 miles north to a less-densly populated area -- it's a sentence -- for them and for the country populace as well. If the bears can't be moved to unpopulated areas, they should be humanely destroyed -- they have bad habits that won't change unless they are placed where their supply sources are limited to foods found in the wild. The balance used to be kept in check by coyotes, wolves, foxes, bobcats and the occasional mountain lion. All the large game predators are gone -- the victims of trappers and bounty hunters. The only predator the deer have to fear now is the human automobile. And the bear have no natural predator at all. In this area, they are truly the king of beasts! And to add icing to the cake, have you read about the attempt to introduce elk to the Catskill Forest Preserve? Elk. Huge deer. It takes an 8-foot fence to adequately screen a 4-foot deer. How high a fence is required to screen an elk? Don't we have enough problems? When the elk become a problem (not having any natural predator to stem their growth) will some study group suggest the reintroduction of mountain lions to keep the elk in check? When will man learn to STOP FOOLING WITH MOTHER NATURE! Okay, okay, I'm stepping off my soapbox right now. I promise. There goes Marie, whispering "Well, for today, anyway"...See MoreI Give Up.......Small Rant
Comments (10)Thanks so much Christy and Annette. I have a few hostas, but have never noticed hummers at them. I finally have some pictures (VERY PICTURE HEAVY) sorry: PLEASE help me!!!! Here they are with descriptions: Please excuse any mess you see, my yard is a very slow work in progress... A SouthEast View of my house and yard - (There is a large tree directly behind me and the camera that helps block a lot of the sun). If you look closer, I have dug up a large area along the whole deck for flowers. You can see it better in the next picture. NOTE: Please excuse the bad looking deck, it is in progress of being sanded and stained. I KNOW, that is a Crimson King Maple (non-native, it was here when we purchased the house). Every winter (a little at a time), I plant on limbing it up so more sun can get in). I just expanded my planting area under the tree (another Work In Progress) and just planted red and white impatiens (can't see them yet, just planted), also have a couple of hostas, a Jack Frost (my FAVORITE plant), some ground cover, birdbath, the trunk of a tree with fake rabbits sitting on top and a fake large mushroom in it. It is really beautiful, you just can't see it very well right now and plants have not filled out yet. This is a closeup view of in front of the deck where I want to put my Lady in Red and Coral Nymph (right there in that corner, it gets the most sun, but still not tons) My Lady in Red all planted in its whiskey barrel. I will be planting my Coral Nymph in a whiskey barrel too when I get paid in a few days. This is the view of the house & yard from the opposite side above. There is a Tree directly behind me in this picture also (not fully grown yet). My house and this tree helps block the East Rising Sun but some early sun does get in. Here is a little bed I was going to make, about 10x12. Sorry about the mess, I am trying to kill the grass and of course the ground will have to be evened out. I was going to put my hummer flowers here, but it surely does not get enough sun (a couple hours sun and some dappled). This picture is facing the right side of my fenced in VERY LARGE back yard (where the dogs and the squirrels hang out). Picture taken faces Southwesterly. This picture was taken off my front deck (looking out onto my two large conifers (Junipers) and my bird station. The area where the bird station is only gets dappled sunlight (extremely shady area) Pictures of flowers I purchased, big letdown (almost). Coral Nymph, Salvia Splendens, Aquilegia Swan Lavender and Swan Red & White (the red and white is pink) Columbine Hybrids?. Apparently, even though listed on the back of the tags on these, they ARE NOT attractive to hummers I have learned, Yarrow Moonshine (just because I wanted it so badly because I love yellow flowers), but it is going to be a big letdown because I hear this absolutely needs full sun, and some Creeping Jenny (which I know I will find a place for). Two hanging plants I purchased: Fuchsia (which later I learned will not attract hummers), because it is not a certain kind of Fuchsia, but I just love the colors on this plant and will buy it every year, it is just stunning in real life, much better than the picture taken......and Pansy's which I learned will also not attract hummers. Again, please help me if you can....or maybe I will just plant all hostas in my yard......I like/love hostas just not everywhere :(...See MoreXmas tree: Real or Fake?
Comments (34)aww...cute picture! the last couple of years we have actually bought our tree during the week after thanksgiving... i never take it down until at least a week after new years. as long as you keep it watered every day and never let it 'go dry' (i read years ago that using hot water allows the tree to drink up the water more easily...) frazier firs can retain most of their needles a long time! i keep our house around 67 during the day and cooler at night and close the 'vents' to the heat register near the tree... and, of course, i don't light a bunch of candles near the tree! when i vacuum up the few needles on the ground during the season, they collect in the bag and then release the pine scent every time i vacuum! lol the trash men pick up trees(to recycle) a few times after christmas-through mid jan- so we just drag it out to the curb....See Morelisaam
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