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Comments (13)For many years, my family did the following: - My children and I went as a family to choose our tree on the first weekend in December and brought it home and decorated it. I did lights and tinsel and then the kids hung up the ornaments. Each child hung any ornaments that had been given to them or made by them in previous years and they shared hanging the "family" ones. I also hung a couple ornaments myself that were particular favorites and had been gifts. (In the earliest years, I also "re-dispersed" the ornaments hung by the children so that there were at least a few near the top!!) - Christmas Eve was spent with extended family (usually 60+ strong) at someone's home or eventually a clubhouse we rented due to the growth of our family. We had a pot-luck dinner and exchanged gifts from names drawn earlier. Lately, with economic times being tougher, we started doing smaller token gifts like ornaments. - After the extended family Christmas Eve, we went to the Candlelight Sevice at church. - Presents were opened on Christmas morning as soon as daylight appeared ("dawn" rule was made because Mom is a procrastinator and tended to wrap until the wee hours of Christmas Eve and I needed some sleep!). I always did stockings for each child - even when the were grown and those were opened first (each item individually wrapped to draw it out a bit!!). We tried to open the gifts one at a time, but were not always successful! So Santa's gifts were always wrapped in solid red paper with white bows and the kids were allowed to "tear into" them and we slowed it down a bit when it came to the others. - After presents, Mom cooked a big breakfast and then everyone tended to drift back to their beds to catch up on missed sleep. When my parents were alive, we went to their house Christmas afternoon. My children are now grown, and there are many pulls for their time on Christmas Eve and Christmas morning. So I have changed my traditions accordingly. So for the past few years: - Any of us who can will go to the extended family celebration on Christmas Eve (some of the children have spouses or significant others with similar family events, so they are alternating years with ours). - Afterward, anyone who is available goes together to the Candlelight Church Service. - Christmas morning is left to be celebrated at each individual home if desired. When my children eventually have their own kids, they will have this time to celebrate at home with them so that Santa can come to the children's own home and they will be tucked up in their own beds. This allows the parents to come up with their own traditions, ie cookies for Santa, reading of books, etc. For now, with no grandbabies, my children can still come to our house Christmas Eve night and be there for the morning if they choose... but we are doing it differently! - We are no longer doing the dawn rush for presents as there are no small children waiting eagerly for Santa. Instead, we allow everyone to sleep alittle later and I still do the big Christmas breakfast about 9am for anyone staying here or joining us. - In years past, Christmas evening tended to be somewhat of a "let-down" with the presents already opened and all the holiday merry-making coming to an end...and I was so exhausted from getting up at dawn and wrapping till whenever that I did not do a real "Christmas Dinner". So now Christmas evening is when we have our family Christmas celebration. In late afternoon (3p-4p) we have a big Christmas dinner with the best china and all the trimmings. This time-frame allows time for anyone needing to be other places in the morning or midday for other celebrations. Anyone staying home can help decorate cookies or assist with dinner or just watch football etc! I have asked the children to dress up for our Christmas Dinner and make it a bit more formal now that they are grown and I think they actually enjoy it! I asked for "nicer clothes" but now I see even suits and party dresses... and I love it since we rarely have dressy occassions and it makes for wonderful photos!! - After dinner, we open some wine, snack on desserts and goodies, take photos, talk, and play games...just be together till about 8pm. I like to wait till dark because the tree and lights and candles are so much more beautiful. Where my focus used to be on piles of morning gifts, I now spend my energy on the food and decorations...making it a warm, loving evening with lots of old fashioned, traditional charm. Tons of candles, a fire in the fireplace, soft Christmas music, and way too many sweets (I love to bake!) - Finally, we exchange gifts. Having changed the focus of our Christmas celebration, and also the "quantity" of gifts we give, we open them one at a time with everyone watching to make each one more special. I feel it returns us to the days when people selected one or two gifts for a person and they were very special with alot of thought put into each gift and maybe even doing some special wrapping...rather than the flood of gifts I gave the kids each year. We sat down a few years ago and discussed it as a family, so no one was disappointed on Christmas(well not too much!!). It was at first an economic decision, but I think it has challenged everyone to make more of an effort to choose special gifts with real meaning for each other. - After gifts, we continue the wine and goodies and games until people need to go home (only if they skipped the wine!) or retire here for the night. - The other side of our family celebrates the first Sunday AFTER Christmas, so this allows the holiday to flow alittle smoother! I am please with the new changes we have made and hope that it allows my children (and eventually their families) to celebrate Christmas together yet not feel stressed by being pulled in so many directions at the same time! Merry Christmas!!...See MoreStarted a new Thanksgiving tradition this year...
Comments (5)Sandy, Count me as one of those "teary eyed" people too. Can get choked up at any little kindness or concern! Often even get that way at church services--especially the really moving ones. I love your new tradition. And it is so good for all of us to focus on the good things in our lives. Goodness knows we certainly hear more bad stuff than we need to. I'll go look for your other thread now. Luvs...See MoreWhat's for dinner Wed Jan 1st?
Comments (29)My roast was a chuck cut. The only cut for Pot Roast in my opinion. Big chunks of onion and carrot to add flavor were browned in the pan first and then removed and browned the roast sprinkled with salt and pepper. Then put everything back in the pot with beef broth, sprigs of rosemary and thyme, whole garlic cloves, and cooked long and slow on the crockpot burner of my stove. The broth is strained at the end, but we did eat the nice big chunks of carrots. It was very good. And I love my new Dutch oven!...See MoreDoing A Semi-Traditional T'giving Dinner, After All
Comments (22)The gravy turned out very well. The entire process: - Reduce about 1 gal turkey stock to about 2.5 cups, which took most of the previous afternoon/evening - Attempt and fail to clarify the reduction - Weigh the reduced stock at 515 grams - Consult fancy-pants modernist cooking website which prescribes 2.5 grams (0.5% by weight) xantham gum. - Tap xantham gum powder onto my kitchen scale - Note that said scale only displays to zero decimal points, and seems erratic in distinguishing between 2, 3, and 4 grams. - Wish for a coke dealer's scale - Guesstimate at 2-3 grams and whisk into reduced stock - Admire the smooth, spoon-coating consistency of the gravy - [Wait 15 minutes] - Curse at the obscene, gloppy consistency of the gravy - Add almost 1 cup of chicken stock and buzz with immersion blender to get a smooth, coating gravy with, alas, less flavor than previously - [Wait an hour] - After roasting the turkey, deglaze roasting pans with some chicken stock, scrape all the dark, crusty, sticky stuff into a bowl, buzz to a smooth espresso-colored paste with immersion blender, and whisk that into the gravy - Sigh in relief at the intensely flavored, chocolate-colored sauce/gravy of a substantial but not gloppy consistency. Aside from the bleeping sauce, everything else was easy. This was the most relaxed Thanksgiving I've had in years. We had 15 people but others provided half the meal, no dishes had to be scrapped, and we were cleaned up by 10:30 pm. My son was assigned to mash the potatoes, and he just had to use the immersion blender, so they ended up rather gluey. The final menu was - Cheeses - Roast stuffed turkey (I'll get a pic up in a bit) - Grilled lamb chops - Garlic mashed potatoes - Roast brussell sprouts with garlic, hazelnuts, asagio cheese - Beet and persimmon salad - Cauliflower gratin - Sauteed gai lan - Bacon, sausage, mushroom bread stuffing - Three or four pies, one was a chocolate-pumpkin, also a chocolate-caramel-pecan pie - A couple of wines and martinis were had, but it wasn't a big-drinking night. I had the good sense to drink naught but coffee for most of the evening, so I'm not even hung over. The very best eating of the evening was the grilled lamb chops. My friend simply tossed the chops in salt and olive oil, waited until everyone was seated and eating, then disappeared to the grill for ten minutes and returned with a platter of still-sizzling chops on a bed of rosemary. My laboriously constructed turkey was fine, but didn't compare to the perfect timing, perfect doneness, and perfect simplicity of that lamb. We got some good news during the evening. The lamb griller and his family have been preparing to move to Dallas, because his practice here is struggling; now he may be able to stay in Portland after all, knocking-on-wood here. Another friend's bike shop/tavern was called out in the most popular local cycling blog; named as one of the top three things Portland cyclists have to be thankful for. Like many of you, I have a refrigerator full of left-overs now. This morning, we are making "leftover pies" from stuffing, turkey, mashed potatoes, sausage, etc. We'll freeze them. Tonight, I'll ask a couple of neighbors over for a "left-over dinner" and try to get rid of the rest of it. I'd like to have a stuffed turkey leg for lunch next week but that is all....See More- 3 years ago
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