Wedding attire question
jojoco
last year
last modified: last year
Featured Answer
Sort by:Oldest
Comments (44)
Jilly
last yearrubyclaire
last yearRelated Discussions
Proper Wedding Attire for Reception after destination wedding
Comments (3)There are often receptions or parties after the wedding. But I have never seen anyone wearing a bridal gown at one just so those who weren't at the wedding could see it. I'm assuming you are talking about a traditional wedding gown. But it was a small ceremony; perhaps you wore a terrific "regular" dress? If so, I absolutely would go ahead and wear it again for the party. That you wore it for your wedding doesn't mean it needs to be enshrined forever! If it's a traditional gown and veil -- well, you know your group, and we don't. So I don't know if they really are all that worked up about seeing you wearing a wedding gown, or if they will be thinking it seems a bit silly, or some of each. In any case, I assume all these people love you, so I don't think you have a problem with anyone permanently thinking anything bad. If you have your heart set on wearing your gown again, who is it hurting? I think the bigger issue is how YOU will feel. The fact that you are asking here makes me suspect that you feel uneasy about it, and if you plan to wear it, you will be second-guessing yourself from now until the party and all through the party, worried that you will feel foolish, which will reduce your own pleasure. If you wear a terrific regular outfit, you will for sure feel confident. Believe me, you will still be The Bride! Maybe wear some flowers, too. Best wishes on your marriage, and have fun at your party whatever you decide to wear....See MoreMore wedding guest attire...
Comments (14)fyi nordstrom has the navy floral and the black embroidered one in P sizes yes the pink one i showed first comes in petite (scroll down past the cardigan) https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/nic-zoe-daybreak-open-front-cardigan-and-matching-items-prod209690023?icid=&searchType=EndecaDrivenCat&rte=%252Fcategory.service%253FitemId%253Dcat14950738%2526pageSize%253D30%2526Nao%253D0%2526Ns%253DPCS_SORT%2526refinements%253D4294913919%252C73700044%252C73700045&eItemId=prod209690023&xbcpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat14950738&cmCat=product I like the way it looks like it has texture....See MoreWedding Attire Follow Up: Help w Shoes
Comments (90)Annie, you are right... and that was my thinking in ordering it even after I discovered that the daisy dress now fits. However, where it is a little too big now is in the bodice.. for a surplice dress that means some gaping. At my current weight, i can tack it or pin it... but as I lose more weight (knock on wood), i imagine I will lose more through the bust and back which could make the gapping more than a pin can manage. IDK. I do have wide shoulders and a large rib cage -- meaning the bones, not the fat on top lol.. so it may not be too bad. I think the waist/hips etc will be fine and very adaptable-- though the waist and tie are sewn in vs an elastic band. This is part of what makes it attractive IMO.. it looks more presentable AND it cinches in more than an expandable elastic band. I tried it on yesterday "as I was".. hair in a ponytail, slippers and (ahem) no bra. I thought it looked flattering and nice even then. I will try it on this weekend with proper undergarments and shoes and see what I think. It isn't terribly expensive so if it looks great when done up, I will likely keep it. I think it could work for a lot of occasions ... and since my weight loss is slow/steady, I would imagine it would work for awhile without alterations-- but weight loss is a funny thing. You can't always predict what will change. (Also, I will continue to watch to see if the smaller size comes back in stock) Thanks all for your thoughts, encouragement and recommendations!...See MoreIndulge Me Yet Again - Wedding Guest Attire
Comments (157)Consider yourselves fortunate that you can get something altered down. I am 5' 11" and before back surgery I was 6'. You can't add length. As far as shoes, It is just as impossible to find a 9.5 narrow (the size I wore pre kids) and now an 11 shoe, as it is to find a small shoe, but more and more manufacturers are adding larger sizes in shoes to accomodate for the change in society. Stuart Weitzman was my go to shoe too Flo. One of the few designers that made a 9.5 narrow shoe at the time. You would have loved working in the shoe department at Nordstroms. The small feet gals were given all the sample sizes and the designers would come in and talk about their shoes and give them samples too. Ferragamo especially. I was so jealous!...See Moredeegw
last yeardedtired
last yearlast modified: last yearTina Marie
last yearSueb20
last yearUser
last yearIrish2
last yearrubyclaire
last yearnicole___
last yearlast modified: last yearZalco/bring back Sophie!
last yeareld6161
last yearjojoco
last yearTina Marie
last yearblfenton
last year1929Spanish-GW
last yearKswl
last yearEileen
last yearpricklypearcactus
last yearnini804
last yearjojoco
last yearFunkyart
last yearjojoco
last yearJilly
last yearrubyclaire
last yearHU-787167202
last yearteeda
last yearArapaho-Rd
last yearlast modified: last yearmaddielee
last yearlocaleater
last yearsalonva
last yearAnnie Deighnaugh
last yearlobby68
last yearmaire_cate
last yeartexanjana
last yearFunkyart
last yearlegomom23
last yearOutsidePlaying
last yearcolduphere
last yearElizabeth
last yeararcy_gw
last yearKswl
last yearjojoco
last year
Related Stories
SELLING YOUR HOUSE15 Questions to Ask When Interviewing a Real Estate Agent
Here’s what you should find out before selecting an agent to sell your home
Full StoryDECLUTTERINGCan’t Figure Out What ‘Sparks Joy’? Try This Question Instead
If you can’t decide whether to keep something or let it go, shift your perspective to find the answer
Full StoryDOORS5 Questions to Ask Before Installing a Barn Door
Find out whether that barn door you love is the right solution for your space
Full StoryTHE POLITE HOUSEThe Polite House: Can I Put a Remodel Project on Our Wedding Registry?
Find out how to ask guests for less traditional wedding gifts
Full StoryREMODELING GUIDESConsidering a Fixer-Upper? 15 Questions to Ask First
Learn about the hidden costs and treasures of older homes to avoid budget surprises and accidentally tossing valuable features
Full StoryKITCHEN DESIGN9 Questions to Ask When Planning a Kitchen Pantry
Avoid blunders and get the storage space and layout you need by asking these questions before you begin
Full StoryREMODELING GUIDESSurvive Your Home Remodel: 11 Must-Ask Questions
Plan ahead to keep minor hassles from turning into major headaches during an extensive renovation
Full StoryWEDDINGSHow One Couple Got a Perfectly Intimate Backyard Wedding
Vintage pieces, natural materials and close family and friends are an ideal combination for a Pittsburgh couple
Full StoryLANDSCAPE DESIGN10 Questions to Ask a Landscape Designer
Discover how to choose the best designer for your yard and avoid surprises down the line
Full StoryMOVINGBefore You Unpack From a Move, Ask Yourself These 5 Questions
It’s not a good idea to put items somewhere ‘just for now.’ Instead, unpack and organize mindfully
Full Story
mtnrdredux_gw