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Idyll #275---Friendships & Gardens
Comments (101)Taryn, how terrible. I hope that there is no serious damage, but poor Glenn. That isnt what he needs right now. Prayers and good thoughts are being sent your way. We could sure use some of that rain. The crops are beginning to wilt with temps in the 90s and no rain predicted until at least Tues or Wed. I bought sweet corn last night from a roadside stand and the ears are so small because of the lack of rain. I spent all last night watering. Babs, I think, but my memory is short that I promised you poppy and verbena bonarensis seeds. Is that all? I think I have your address. Drema, you wanted poppy seeds. Did you want any of the verbena also? I need your address. Ei, I'm not forgetting about the double red poppy seeds that I promised you. Did I promise aquilegia (columbine) Woodside Variegata seeds to someone? My memory fails me. Please let me know. Cindy, I meant to thank you again for getting us the free parking at the CBG. Honey, I think we were on Evening Island when we saw the daylilies. According to the CBG website h. Precious Love is blooming now. Mary, Im not surprised by your job offer. After meeting you Id give you a job, you are so sweet. Chelone, hugs to you friend. It sounds like life is really getting you down. I hope you can drive across the might Miss. someday. (Maybe you can stop by my house afterwards) ;o) We crossed it at La Crosse WI when we went ot IU3. T, I cant imagine how excited you all must be getting about the babies. bug, is that angelica gigas in the 6th picture? Ive been looking for it. I like the way the Diablos color is echoed in the centers of the rudbeckia. Later Michelle...See MoreInsurance agents..want to make a change..review coverage..advice?
Comments (12)spanky.... Lots of good ideas here. I like the idea of pricing my current coverage. Let's see what is it I dislike about our current agent...they have an answering machine and they're not afraid to use it [g]; the last time I left a voicemail, I did not receive a call back; last claim we made, I had to work it out myself with the insurance company, the agent was useless; they gave me the wrong information in a potential claim situation once; and they never review our policies or update us at all or call even once a year to check on us. We end up just renewing because our attention is elsewhere and because we haven't any confidence in the agent anyway. spanky...why does carrying a high liability keep the suit birds away? You don't mean it would discourage suits, you just mean it will cover you if someone sues you, right? I thought that might be the case with flood insurance. I am not in a flood zone. The last time we had serious rain, there were areas in my state that had overflowing riverbanks and towns that were flooded, but none of it effected us in the slightest. What about if you get flooded from an accident of some kind? Like a burst pipe from workmen in the street? Burst pipes in the house are covered, right? We aren't in an earthquake area either, so what if we had a freak earthquake? These days, to my way of thinking, you could get any kind of disturbance anywhere. Could we lose our house? We would still have our land, but we could put up a tent, right? [g] Hurricanes we do get. We are on the East Coast and have lived through many of them. Our house was built in the 1950s and never had damage from one though. When you say 'special hurricane deductible' ...so I would have one deductible for everything else covered by the policy, but a hurricane would be an exception and would be higher, as in a percentage of the total damage the insurance company paid us? I'll have to look into umbrella coverage. Sounds familiar. Very helpful..thank you very much. :-) pm2...See MoreWWYD Friendship advise
Comments (47)"So, when I return a call to them I do so when husband and I are on the way somewhere in the car so I have an excuse thatâÂÂs paid attention too when I want to end the conversation." Can't remember which poster wrote this, but it drives me nuts when people call me with their SO in the car. I don't want a 3 conversation. I would rather not talk if that is the way someone feels about speaking with me. My BIL gave me a good piece of advice about a similar situation. He lives out west, and of course, with men, these friendship, relationship dynamic-type things seem to be very cut & dry. "If 10 people say it's a horse, it's a horse", Glib, I know, but it is clear that your friend isn't responding to your friendship needs in a way that is good for you. Super red flag with the DH. I have a similar family member who has pretty much cut themselves off from every family member due to the SO in their life. Not sure if the SO is insecure, we're still trying to figure out what the story is. Your friend will need you at some point. It is up to you whether or not you want to be there considering her less that exemplary behavior while you were recooperating. Ugh, I don't think email is the proper forum to air your concerns. Voicing your unhappiness isn't going to change much (IMO). Whether your friend is being influenced or limited by her SO, she is ultimately responsible for the behavior. Really, let's be honest, she's an adult. No, I would let it play out. If she has too much goin on and doesn't keep in touch, then perhaps you need to move on to better friendships. Keep the door open, but I wouldn't hold out too much hope that anything will change until the SO changes. So sad for you. I hope you have other good girlfriends to count on....See MoreUpdate on my friend with cancer (sorry.. long)
Comments (35)Suzieque...thank you so much. I just heard that the hospital may send her home tomorrow, they have her on a pump for pain and i am not sure if that will continue at home, but her dh said she wants to go home. Marie... I hope your DD and DH continue to improve. Thanks for the note, you have been so kind to me in the past. and helped me with other things. Ellie.... aw, thank you! I often feel, and say, that I wish I could be as articulate as some of you on here. I appreciate your kind words. I imagine as we all age, we will be in these situations more often than not. And, of course, one of these days...... no one can say when..... we will each be the one whose hand is being held. All I know is that we are not promised a tomorrow....so live today as if it is your last. I have not done that by any means, ever, in fact I am one of the worst for worrying about things I cannot change, but sometimes things happen to put life in perspective for you. This is a wonderful place, this KT, to come and share and ask for advice, and for prayer and good thoughts. And also to pass on encouragement to our 'cyber' friends as they need it. Bless you all!...See Moreolychick
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