Add some color with a different rug, art ,accessories a coffee table thta actully functions as a coffee table as in moving it to be able to be reached by at least a sofa IMO the dining table is pretty useless for seating since everyones feet need to be on the table base

Sometimes it takes a bit of time to used to a new look - tackle one space at a time so you can focus and not get overwhelmed -

i agree the chair pads dont add much - if you can i would change out that fabric, there are tons of tutorials on youtube if you can unscrew the seats.

can you add some more wide angle photos of your family room? i think that will help people understand the larger space and make suggestions

hang in there and don’t stress we have all been there! :)

Is your dining table even a dining table? It looks more like it's suppose to be a kitchen island with seating on one side. How can anyone even sit at that table and eat with their legs not being able to go under the table? Can you return it? I think the living room looks fine just need some color.

You are just not used to a lighter look and probably had envisioned something different. If you could provide pictures of the entire dining room and living room, you‘ll get much better help. I feel decorating, making minor adjustments, and aiming for a less matchy look should resolve your misgivings.

Dining room: Consider adding color and interest by reupholstering seats, adding art and accessorizing table. Wonder also about usage. If possible, add a chandelier, as it will have a big impact. Don’t rush into things and have a plan. (Ignore console in picture as you don't have room.)

Living room: proportions and too much of the same are the issues. Suggest a non matching, larger coffee table placed horizontally closer to couch and if you have chairs, bring in closer. Hard to be more specific without seeing whole room.

Add colorful cushions, accessorize coffee table and change lamp, as it’s too small.

If interested, you could paint the interior of your door and rethink storage, to create a cute entrance.

I'm sorry you are unhappy. It's so frustrating putting in the time and money to make changes and end up with something that you dislike.

That style of chair is really easy to reupholster, you just need a staple gun. Sometimes getting the old upholstery off is the hardest part.

Aesthetically, I think you'd get the biggest impact from changing out the coffee table. You could look at Craigslist or thrift stores if you don't have the budget for more big purchases. It sounds like something in a dark wood would break up the same-same that is causing you grief.

As someone noted, the dining table looks like it might have been intended as a kitchen island (I know my legs would not fit under the table on drawer side with the limited clearance there). If you have issues with functionality, that's the other item I would be looking for. To me it looks fine, and if the only issue is appearance I think maybe that can be addressed by introducing interest and contrast with wall art on the blank wall. But maybe you dislike its looks more than I do.

I think this white and grey color scheme looks light and airy. and it's a perfect palette to add colorful accessories. I don't even think you need to reupholster anything. keep the furnishings neutral and add other things instead. like, the table could have a bowl with bright things in it, or some candles / vases, and/or a bright table runner.

also give yourself some time. sometimes change change be a little shocking and then you get used to it.

That table is mystifying! Doesn't look like there are legs on the corners but that the piece underneath is supporting the top. Why would you need drawers in a dining table? I think the sales person saw you coming. Beg the store to take it back! The addition of color via rug and accessories plus a different coffee table in the living room will do wonders. The coffee table should be 12-18" from the sofa to be useful.

I liked it but it was disappointing for you if the store won't exchange it for your darker fan at least the dust won't show so much on it

Would you be able to sell the table and chairs or is it that new that you have to keep it? The table doesnt look functional. The living room isnt bad...you just need a darker rug with some pattern to feel a bit more elevated. All the furniture feels like its one note and unfortunately not inspiring. Maybe swap out the coffee table and side table for something metal and airy - no more painted wood. You could also get a bigger side table lamp. Could you get new window treatments - maybe also in something darker/mid tone with texture?

You furniture is fine......the dining table a bit iffy, but overall the furniture is fine.

Budget wise, replace your throw pillows. No word pillows. Large Art.

I love @Maureen ideas, try and replicate some of them. You chose the furniture, because you loved it at the time. It's here to stay, so lets change the things you can change easily.