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What is a focal point?
Comments (41)Maro, I think that it is easy to understand what I meant by a difference in "focal point" and "focus of a design" if you buy my concept of what a focal point is. My interpretation is very generic and pertains to anything within your view (literal view, as in what your eyes are taking in). Focal points are what commands the attention of your eyes whether it was intended to do so or not, whether it was put there or not, and whether it is ugly, or pretty, or somewhere in between. In other words I'm not placing "focal point" in a specific context. You might say that I am breaking it down into a simple and basic element. It is easiest to understand it as a basic element than to add the complexities of everything within a landscape. The confusion comes when we unnecessarily blend it with all else that we know about design until it is no longer recognizable (kind of like me and some of my spelling). You can't wish a focal point to either be, or for it to go away. You have to adjust it or what is around it until it becomes dominant as a focal point or its dominance has been conquered relieving itself (and you) from its being a focal point. The terminology I used, "focus of design", is the context you want to create within a design. That is my interpretation of what Nandina was describing in that earlier post. Then she veared away from it as she described setting up focal points as her method for establishing a strong "focus of design". I'm not saying my views on this are THE right ones, just that they are how I see things. The focus of a design might be to establish or reinforce a central feeling in front of the front door on a house. This happens to be the case on something I am currently working on. Currently, it has a circular driveway with a huge boulder in the middle of it (can you say "focal point). My focus of design is to mitigate that focal point to some degree and establish a feeling of a central space where you feel like you have arrived at the home and are comfortable. The next idea that I want in the guests subconscious is to enter the home and/or the private part of the property through the front door. Most of that is going to be achieved, assuming that it will be achieved, by keeping the guest from being attracted to other directions and not so much by screaming "HERE IS THE FRONT ENTRY!". I'll have subtle focal points in this one, but it won't be the backbone to my "focus of design". I certainly use focal points to get things done in a lot of cases. I'm not against Nandina's approach by any means. I'm just using it as an example to clarify what I said. Focal points are tools among many in our bags of tricks. I'm just saying you don't have to use every trick in the bag all of the time, unless you want to. Does that make any sense to anybody else, or do I need to check in somewhere?...See MoreUsing ammonium nitrate or ammonium sulfate
Comments (14)I don't know about that, but what I do know is there is a tremendous amount of information on the ACES web site as well as other Internet sites. The trick is in determining which information applies to your specific location, climate and soil type. I remember hearing that we couldn't grow raspberries down here near Montgomery because of the summertime heating. However, when I read a lady had terrific success growing them down near Mobile under a grove of pecan trees, we were inspired to try and bought about 200 plants. We tried for two years and had some minimal success, but since we didn't grow them in a shady area, the day and nightime heating pretty much cooked them and they died off the third year. Lesson learned: pay attention to the details of an article and the location where the plant is being grown (e.g., under a pecan grove and in an area where there cooler evenings). Cherry trees also fall into this catagory. We planted 24 cherry trees and have two Dwarf North Star varieties left. Lesson learned: Just because the chill hour requirement for some fruit trees might be in the same range as where you live, doesn't mean they will grow like they do farther North. The same goes with Granny Smith apple trees and their susceptibility to fire blight (based on ACES information). It eventually killed 12 of the 14 apple trees we planted. Buy apple tree varieties that are resistant to fire blight. However, we have had great success with blueberries, blackberries, peaches, nectarines, persimmons, plums, plumcots and our outdoor hydroponic vegetable garden and are still quite motivated to continue with our farming adventure and recommend it to anyone who has ever thought about growing fruit and vegetables in their backyard. There is definitely plenty that will thrive in our warm and humid Alabama climate....See MoreWhy to so many people let pets ruin their financial picture?
Comments (71)It looks like I'm going to be the first one to own up to letting my pets ruin my financial future. I don't know why other people do it, but I do it because I love & adore my pets & I don't love money. I also choose to have monthly donations to "doctors without borders" & "greenpeace" deducted from my bank account, because I also love other people of all nationalities, & the planet, & I don't love money. I have a very reasonable annual income, but I drive a second hand car, wear mostly second hand or chain store clothing, & have mostly second hand furniture. I don't have organized holidays away from home, don't drink, gamble, smoke or go out to entertainment activites. Why? Because I love the things I can do with my money if I don't waste it on meaningless crap. My three teenagers DO love meaningless crap in the forms of surf label clothing, going out, i-pods, laptops, & mind blowing expensive sneakers. (o.k., I do use the macintosh laptop a fair bit) And I fund all this silliness because I love & adore my kids & it seems to give them a lot of meaningful pleasure. No, I'm not some dried up old lesbian or an old maid who wouldn't know how to have a good time if I won ten billion dollars. In my 20's I earned & spent a lot of money & lived the "champagne & caviar" materialistic lifestyle. Yes, it can be fun. But for me, it was hollow. I'm happily married to a man who also values the simple things in life. Canoeing on a remote river at sunset, throwing a stick on a lonely beach for our nine dogs, riding through the bush at sunrise, these are the things that make my life worthwhile. Things that don't cost money, because the more you consume, the less you live. Our nine dogs provide more than friendship & company for me. They are my THERAPY every single day. They're my mates, & I willingly undertake the challenge to love them as much as they love me. It's a big challenge, because they would die for me without a second thought. Am I serious? Yes. Am I mad? Probably. But you only get as much love as you give in this world, & I make a point of loving everything that I can. The dogs are by far the easiest & the reciprocity is a joy....See MoreOctober Book Discussion - Never Let Me Go
Comments (39)I know I am ridiculously late on this discussion, but in case some crazy person comes and rereads it the way I did, I'll still post my thoughts. I had some comments on the original question of why Kathy is blind to Ruth's faults, but also some ideas about Kathy and Ruth's relationship (as was mentioned above), and the character of Ruth in general. Kathy and Ruth's relationship, and the way Kathy was blind to Ruth's personality flaws irritated me immensely throughout the novel. As many people have mentioned, perhaps Kathy is "blind" because she has been conditioned to accept the fact that she doesnÂt understand everything. From the time she was young, there were facts about Hailsham, her future, and about her life in general that she didnÂt know. Yet questioning was discouragedÂperhaps not explicitly (Kathy notes that the guardians never forbid it), but at least de facto. The students would punish each other for curiosity, so Kathy learned to keep her mouth shut and not to spend too much time wondering about it either. She doesnÂt question, she accepts. Perhaps that is why she doesnÂt analyze or look deeper into RuthÂs actions, doesnÂt realize how selfish motives are governing RuthÂs decisions. She just accepts that that is the way Ruth is, it is only when Ruth makes her angry that she confronts her. RuthÂacting manipulatively and selfishly throughout the novelÂirritates the hell out of the reader. Or at least me. Probably most people have known a person like Ruth, had a friend that was domineering, nice on the surface, but secretly deceptive and selfish. If I am honest with myself, I realize that, although I dislike it, I can identify with RuthÂs emotions and motives...if not her actions as well. Ruth isn't an unusual child. On virtually any playground, you could find a child who wanted to be the "boss", the one in charge. Especially among girls, it is common to find one child who establishes her importance by blatantly displaying and calling attention to some possession or quality that she has and the others donÂt. (RuthÂs horses and her knowledge about the plot to kidnap Miss Geraldine). It is also completely natural that the girl would then proceed to solidify her power and her importance by exercising control over the others. For example, which girls are "cool" enough to spend time with her, or which students are "favored" enough to play with or even look at her special toy or possession. In my opinion, it becomes clear to the reader throughout the novel that RuthÂs precious displays of her own importance are merely compensation for her insecurity and her fear that she is insignificant. (Which is completely logical when one realizes that they are seen by society as "creatures" not humans). This is subtley shown in the way she manipulates the other girls and alludes to being Miss GeraldineÂs favorite,. It becomes obvious during their years at the Cottages as she tries to impress the veterans. ......See More- 4 years ago
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