@Alice, I too see some yellow in Chantilly Lace in some situations/lighting. @Lori A Sawaya, do you happen to know the spectral data for stock white Cabinet Coat? I have read it described as bluish, or grayish. I'm looking for a white that doesn't look yellow in my laundry room, which has no natural light (or maybe a tiny bit contributing from distant bedroom west window during the day), and is lit with 2 high-CRI Feit LED bulbs. Even with the (relatively?) "high" CRI of the LEDs, colors look vastly different than in rooms with windows -- with yellow greatly intensified. I have found several of the BM colors in this thread, like Super White and White, look pretty much "just white" in my laundry room. I also really like BM White Diamond, which is a little darker (grayer) than Super White. I also have to complain a little bit -- even different BM chips of the SAME color do not match. Here I am agonizing over the differences between colors, when paint coloring technology can't even match its own chips, or different samples of the "same" color closely enough for my eye to see them as the "same" color.

Chantilly lace is a cool, crisp white. We have it in our home and I quite like it. I think it would go well with ballet white, which has a bit of taupey coolness. Pale oak can lean rather pink-beige, so I don't think it would be as nice. But if your heart is set on it, Chantilly lace is neutral enough that it won't be ruinous - it will just make the pink undertones more obvious. If you want a darker color, you could try Balboa mist instead of the pale oak.

I've been crushing on Sherwin-Williams Snowbound lately. It's closer to an off white than white. Has enough colorfulness (Chroma) for a north light situation. And I like the color relationship with Chantilly Lace. And there isn't a whole lot that Snowbound does not work with. Snowbound for walls. Repeat Chantilly Lace on trim.

here is post about whites. I hope it helps. https://www.houzz.com/discussions/245310/what-white-trim-color-to-use-with-bm-white-dove And more