Breakfast Memories of a 99-year-old
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Comments (20)Hi, just wanted to offer some suggestions of places and things my kids liked when they were little. Also a great resource is New York magazine (nymag.com); check out the vistors� guide section for kids. Museum of Natural History - of course, the dinosaurs but there�s also the blue whale room and, for some strange reason, both my kids loved the gem room. Metropolitan Museum of Art - some very cool Egyptian stuff that a 3-year old might be interested in and also the Temple of Dendur. Check out their website: metmuseum.org. They also have some itineraries geared toward younger kids under planning your visit. (The entrance fee is just the recommended amount, you can pay less.) Great playground just north of the museum; it�ll play into your visit to the Met. Broadway plays - my one son saw The Lion King when he was three and really doesn�t remember anything. You could check out The New Victory Theater on 42nd street - newvictory.org - to see if they have something appropriate for when you�re visiting. The costs are usually reasonable especially compared to a Broadway show. Central Park http://www.centralparknyc.org/ Central Park Zoo - it�s a really good size for a 3-year old. Check out when the feeding times are for, I think, the penguins and sea lions. Also check out the Delacorte clock near the entrance. Carousel - always fun Model Boat Pond - you can rent a radio-controlled model boat (your husband might really like doing this with your daughter). If you�ve read Stuart Little or seen the movie, the scene where he�s on the boat takes place there. The formal name is the Conservatory Water. Alice in Wonderland statue - right next to the pond. Walking - the best way to see New York so I would highly recommend a stroller BUT don�t overload it. As much as you can walk forever in New York, you might need to take a cab or the subway depending upon where you�re going. So you�re going to need to fold it up and, if you have too much, this can make you a little frazzled trying to keep track of your daughter and all the other stuff. Great places to walk: Central Park The High-Line (thehighline.org) old elevated railroad line on the west side of Manhattan. They did a great job but you need to look at the website to understand it. You can stop at the Chelsea Market for lunch (great bread at Amy�s Bread). It�s my new favorite place. Battery Park - Lower Manhattan - (bpcparks.org) where you�d go to get the ferry to the Statue of Liberty. The whole Hudson riverfront all the way up to the George Washington Bridge is a park. The part that I liked the best is in lower Manhattan (Rockefeller Park); has a great playground and a fun sculpture garden with very playful statues by Tom Otterness. You could go there the day you�re going to the Statue of Liberty. And if you�re downtown, the 9/11 Memorial could be combined with Battery Park and the Statue of Liberty. You need to get tickets (they�re free - 911memorial.org). I was just there recently and the lines moved fast. I think you have to empty everything out of the stroller and put it in bins. Empire State Building - I love it at dusk when the lights are coming on but the lines can be really long. Even if you get tickets ahead of time, you still have to wait for the elevators. Coney Island - Unless you or your husband are hugh roller-coaster fans, I'd give it a miss. If you do want to go on the Cyclone, I think it's only open on the weekends in October. Enjoy your visit. Don�t wear good walking shoes, wear great ones!...See More10 year old responsibilities
Comments (101)I find this so strange, children that can't get up and get dressed themselves. My oldest daughter has been getting up on her own, getting dressed, eating breakfast, checking the calendar to see if she wants to pack or buy that day, and then making her own lunch since first grade. I do help her pick her clothes out the night before because she'll wear the same couple of outfits all the time if I don't encourage her to mix it up a little, and I check her lunch to make sure it's not just cookies and chips because she has tried to do that a couple of times...but she NEVER remembers to brush her teeth without being told...I think she's doing well enough that I can let that one slide for now. My SD will get up and gets dressed and eats, but if her head wasn't screwed on, she'd leave it behind when she left. We're talking, "Do you got your backpack? Did you put your homework in it? Do you have your gym clothes? Got your lunch?" We'll have her pack everything up the night before and put it right next to the door, but inevitably she always leaves somthing sitting right there by the door when she leaves...but we NEVER have to remind her to brush her teeth or wash her hands. She's seriously into the cleanliness thing when it comes to her body, so that's good. Oh, and I think she probably could pack her own lunch, but DH does it for her because he knows her mom does and that's what she's used to. My 4yo WANTS to do it all herself, even the stuff I don't want her to do, like pour milk into her cereal from a full gallon. She picks out her own clothes and dresses herself, but I have to tell her to go get dressed or she'll stay in jammies all day, but that's okay because I like to do that sometimes too:) She insists she can bathe herself, which she can, but she also thinks she can wash her own hair, which she can if you like to still have a bunch of soap in it when you're done. And she absolutely hates it when I brush her teeth for her, but I just don't think she's physically capable of doing it to my satisfaction yet. They're all different, so you can't treat them the same. Just got to go one step at a time with each one of them....See More28 year old drama...
Comments (12)myfampg, How horrible! My DS21 finally met his bio donor when he was 18. When he was 16, the dentist found a tumor in his jaw & he needed surgery ~ we thought he was going to lose that part of his jaw & maybe deform his face. I contacted his father & at first he agreed to do a DNA test because he wanted to make sure this was his kid before he got concerned or involved. He scheduled the test but cancelled the day before & hired an attorney. I took him to court & got the court to order the DNA test. The results came back the day after my son was 18. He tried to get the case dropped because my son was no longer a minor but the Judge gave me back support anyways because I filed the case when he was 16. (actually, I filed a case when he was 2 and merged them so it would have been a lot of back support owed.) The stupid thing is that I was not after money... I wanted him to care. I wanted him to come to the hospital & be involved with his son. In the end, the only thing I could force was proving he was the father and making him pay back support. My son attended the hearings after he turned 18, so he knew what his bio donor was saying to the court. A few months after court, he sent my son a few expensive gadgets & met for lunch a couple of times... but he couldn't help himself from telling my son that the reason he wasn't involved in his life was because I kept him away... it was all MY fault. It really makes me sad & sick when parents rewrite history. I mean, we all probably remember things in our own light... but to completely rewrite what never happened is horrible. It's even worse when a child that grew up with a parent that sacrificed and did so much for the child because the other parent was a deadbeat, and that child is so desperate to have a relationship with the deadbeat that they throw the sacrificial parent under the bus. In my opinion, it doesn't matter why he left. It doesn't matter if your mom did this or that.... she did what was important & that is, she raised her kids. He didn't. End of story. He left two families, she didn't leave any. She could be the town tramp... but she stuck around and maintained her responsibility to her children & that's more than he did. (and no, I do not believe she did any of what he said... and I can only imagine how painful it is that your brother would entertain the thought) But, that's his problem, not yours....See More10 year old kitchen- to remodel or not? What would you do?
Comments (44)Your cabinets are quite beautiful. Overall, the existing kitchen has very nice finishes. The main thing that I see about your dream kitchen is light, light, and more light -- and more space. You could have the cabinets painted a white or pale color, a shade that compliments the counters, but I would be reluctant to cover that beautiful finish (and I have painted cabinets). I don't think knocking down the wall will really give you either, although a wider entry into the kitchen would be a plus. Also, I don't see what new appliances would do for your goal. I would at the least shorten the island to allow more movement in the main kitchen area. Perhaps it could be removed entirely and partly re-used to create a short peninsula at the breakfast nook end, which would save some storage. If you want more "flow" from the family room, even if you knock down the wall, you have a bottleneck with the island and narrow aisles -- if you are hoping to have guests in the kitchen, I think you will need to completely re-design the layout. We have had some talented amateurs here in the past who will help with innovative ideas, so you should consider starting a thread with your house plan. Be sure to look at the "read me first" topic. The floor is beautiful too but I think, with the cabs, adds to the "closed in" feeling. If you make any change to the island or wall, you will have to do some patching in of flooring -- so maybe just changing to something lighter would be a good move. Likewise, the counters are beautiful, but add to the almost monotone feeling. Keep them if you paint the cabs, change to a light/white if you don't. Can you enlarge the window? or add one?...See More- 4 years agolast modified: 4 years ago
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