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marilyn_c

Your most memorable Christmas

4 years ago
last modified: 4 years ago

I meant to start this a day or so ago, but I guess better late than never.

As I have mentioned before, after my dad died in 1968, the family more or less drifted apart. We used to all meet at our parents' house, but after dad died, my mother started going to my brother's. My sister didn't get along with him, so she didn't go. My niece and nephew that I had grown up with, were gone...my nephew to the Navy, and my niece went to West Texas to be a nanny. I later found out she was pregnant, and that was why my sister sent her, but I didn't learn of this until many years later.

This was in 1970:

We had company...a guy that we went to high school with, who had fallen on hard times, and he (and his horse) were staying with us for awhile. Jody was just getting over pneumonia. I fixed turkey and all the trimmings, and afterwards Jody asked me if I would like to go for a drive...any where I wanted to go. The friend was taking a nap on the couch, but he would be available to feed horses if we got back late.

I had recently read an article in the Houston newspaper about a big pet cemetery, where everything from a hamster to a horse was buried. It was on the far side of Houston...but that is where I wanted to go. (Yes, I have always been weird).

I don't know how we ever found the place...this before gps or Google maps. I imagine we probably had a regular fold out, paper, map. We found it. I recall it was kind of out in the country off of Campbell Road.

It was already late in the afternoon. There was a chapel near the front. We walked around looking at graves and reading the headstones. Sentiments like, "Born a dog, Died our baby". Near the front was a grave with a Christmas tree on it. It had that white, sparkly material, like people sometimes put around Christmas trees, covering the little grave, and dog toys laid upon it.

It was getting dark...the sun had gone down. We were getting ready to leave, when a stationwagon pulled up. An old couple got out, with a little chihuahua dog on a leash. The man walked over to the chapel, which obviously had an outside electrical plug, and plugged in lights that lit up the Christmas tree on the little grave. The old lady rearranged the dog toys.

We were standing off in the distance, but I started crying...tears running down my face. Jody said,

"What's the matter...why are you crying?"

I said "It is just so sad. Obviously they have no one, and are alone."

Jody said, "Aw, stop crying...look at us. We drove all the way over here on Christmas day..."

I did get the point. Still, it was sad, and we left without being intrusive to them. I can still see it...clear as a bell, to this day.

That area is very built up now. I looked for Houston Pet Cemetery on google but didn't find it. Probably a high rise office building on it now.

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