Goodbye garden
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Comments (20)Linda, I cannot begin to convey to you my heartfelt feelings of loss for you. My grief at this time cannot compare to your sorrow. I am so sorry for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Cindy: I am sorry for your loss. My Jake left Saturday (yesterday). I have been in a fog since 12:00noon Saturday. My buddy for 15 years, has gone to Rainbow Bridge to wait for me. I had to make the decision because Jake was not able to make it for me. For those of you with fuzzy buddies, please give them an extra helping of food tonite? And give them an extra smooch for me. For our lives are definitely diminished without them. Linda, grief is such a strange thing. While we go along in life, trying to make it real, we are reminded of what is really important. Your love and your memories will help keep him with you through your days. I wish there was something beyond these words in cyberland that could bring you comfort right now. Please know that you are thought of. And all my very best to your family. Please forgive, but I would like to share Rainbow Bridge with everyone, in case someone is not familiar: Rainbow Bridge Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge. When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable. All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind. They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster. You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart. Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together.... Author unknown... I am a train wreck right now. Peace and love to everyone here. I miss you all terribly....See MoreMoney for nothin', Chicks for free
Comments (22)I've tried My Daylilies a few times and in fact have received numerous invitations to be friends with members. Some of those people are people I consider friends; others I've never heard of. I did do the friending thing for a while -- until the site began freezing up on me. I've only ever seen one or two pages of one or two albums, and I've not visited any forum in a couple of weeks. It's probably my own computer....but whatever. It's not worth my time at this point to figure it out. As for this site, I see we now have those embedded links. Whether I'll get irked enough to leave I don't know yet. What I do know is that I'll never ever click on one, nor will I let my cursor hover over one. But like I mentioned before, I have plenty of yahoo daylily groups to participate in. So as far as I'm concerned, I have excellent options other than GW....See MoreGood-Bye Midwest Gardening - Hell-o California Gardening
Comments (8)Marlene, you've going to love it. If you have to move to a new zone and be a 'newbie', it's going to be a helluva lot more easier to go to zone 9 from 5 than to do it like I did, which was the reverse. (Here I'm a total idiot and learning the hard way.) You're going to have a much bigger selection of flowers/plants in that zone than where you're from. You will find that some plants that you considered 'annuals' aren't really over there because the fall/winter doesn't get cold enough to kill them. You will find that certain plants that other parts of the US consider more 'exotic', arent' considered that there. Like here, if I want night blooming Jasmine, I have to buy a 40 dollar plant from a nursery and keep it indoors in the winter. There? I can get one for 7 bucks at Target or in the racks in front of Payless and it's a perennial. It will grow like a weed. If you do Bougenvilla, do it in a very bright exposure. If you plant it in the right place, it will be amazingly beautiful and will grow like a weed. If you do it and it takes off, buy yourself a chain saw. I'm not kidding. Those suckers have thorns and over time, the branches can get thick. Walnut Creek has very hot summer periods. No humidity. No bugs. And not much (if any) rain. That part of the Bay Area (East Bay on the other side of the Oakland Hills) also is far more likely to be concerned with water usage. I've been out of the area for about a year and a half, so I don't know what the deal is right now, but I do know that you're given a basic allotment and if you exceed it, you will have one helluva water bill. So take it slowly with big planting for a few months until you find out what that bill is. At the very least, call and find out the parameters for your location so that you don't get surprises. Oftentimes, water usage for a certain year is based upon the previous year. So if the person that owned your house last year wasn't a big gardener, be extra skippy careful. Using mulch is not optional. It helps to keep the plants from being stressed from the heat and holds water. Containers in the summer will have to be hand watered daily. (Mulch them too.) And even if you have sprinklers, you might be doing that in other areas too. There will be plants that require cold that you won't be able to grow. Peonies don't exist. Lilacs only bloom in certain microclimates. A good book to start with is Sunset's Western Garden Book. http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0376038519/102-5973663-2617723?v=glance&n=283155 Winters are very different. You don't do things like blowing out your sprinklers. You don't say goodbye to your lawn mower. And depending upon the weather, you may have to water year around. You may see trees at the end of winter that drop most of their leaves just as the spring buds form. Spring comes much earlier. You'll be pruning roses at the end of January. Gardening is not something that you stop doing, you just slow down. Long rainy periods mean that you don't have to mow! LOL You don't have big fungal problems with lawns over there, but you might trade that for things like rust on the roses during excessively rainy years. And during that time, plan on buying ant stakes. When the weather is really wet (and it hasn't been for awhile), the ants like to come inside. But compared to Japanese beetles and God knows what else the Midwest has, it's a breeze in comparison. Btw, for entertainment purposes, if you're into produce, check out the Berkeley Bowl (a grocery store, obviously in Berkeley). Their meat is not fabulous, but damn, the produce section is to die for! Especially in spring. Andronico's is good too, but it's more expensive... Have fun! I'll shut up now, I'm getting homesick. You're going to do fine!...See MorePictures!
Comments (1)I resize mine to 800 X 600 pixels before posting. The site does its own resize as well because mine still come out a little smaller when seen in the thread. I used to be on one site that only allowed a maximum of 560 by something like 450. And even then they reduced them and the number of colours that could come through. Photos turned out pixilated. When I emailed them they replied that my original photos were enhanced somehow and were showing false colours....See More- 5 years ago
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