Name an obscure thing you cannot live without?
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Comments (60)I personally love tragic stories, especially star crossed lovers. The sadder the better..lol. Beautiful happy stories are nice but we always remember the sad ones the most. It is perhaps in many ways cathartic. I have been working on a series of paintings that depict tragic couples in world history eg Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, Deidre and Naoise etc. They are still in the initial stages. Having said that, I actually didn't realize that Jude is a man. I always thought it would be a woman for some reason. I will try to read this book in the future. Overall, I think it is proper to have roses named after people or characters. For me it adds a certain depth to the rose. Thanks True blue, I will remember their stories when I do get a chance to paint them one day....See MoreThings I cannot grow....
Comments (5)I've been in the same little spot for 20 yrs now & lately I've noticed I can "grow" things I never could before.... In fact, things I've never planted are flourishing -- eremurus?! I know what it is, I've never grown it, none of my neighbors have grown it (that I've seen, I should say). Yet I've had plants blooming in 2 different colors the last 2 years. This year's newcomer is fabulous so I will keep an eye on it. Point is, when I find myself alone at a pity party I try to look around at some of the small miracles. This year's perfectly appointed eremurus is no more fair than all the other perfectly planned perennials that failed. It would be hard to start a new garden -- even a couple blocks away. I have mysteries in my garden just feet apart. My "success" in the garden has more to do with perseverance than finesse. Overall, as the years go by, more works than fails. I just keep doing more of what seems to be (mysteriously) working. Others in this forum are more masterful and I myself once knew more than I do today. But plants still do funny things in spite of our best efforts. Maybe you were just doing a lot at once, especially since you are birthing a new garden. The biggest factor I've notice to make or break a plant is sun. We have so much sun here I think it takes very little to push a plant over the edge -- not only in terms of exposure, but in terms of water needs. I'm redesigning an area right now which will have new anemones just a few feet away from some that have been flourishing for years. I mentioned to a gardening neighbor this morning that even though the new plants are close to the longtime bed, I wonder if the difference in sun will still be okay. She and I were both commenting on how the exact same plant flourishes or fails in different spots around our gardens. My soil varies a bit here and there but it's the sun that I sometimes fail to respect in my planning....See MoreHelp! What could you not live without, that you HAD to have?
Comments (55)CEFreeman I am buying a Kohler Dickninson 33" single apron front basin sink color sandbar. This is a picture of my perimtier counters (Zodiac quartz) with the color of the sink tab on top, cabinet (off white color) sample and floor tile underneath. My island will be Bianco Antico on cherry. I ordered the sink Monday and was called today because they said it would be 4- weeks delivery time. Oh no no no! The girl called around and said now it will be 2-3 was that ok? Said yes because the white and bisque color sink I could get in 7 days did not look good with the Warm Taupe color quartz. Sandbar looked perfect. Now waiting for them to call with the estimate for the floor and counters. I was wondering what exactly the cabinet maker needs to make the cabinet below the sink. The place I am ordering everything from has the same sink in one of their kitchen displays. Can't he just go there to look at the sink? Someone said they are all different? They are? Shouldn't all the 33" DIckninson sinks measure the same???? This post was edited by sammy62 on Thu, Jan 23, 14 at 23:19...See MoreCabinet ideas or inserts you cannot live without
Comments (20)kleekai - Here is my major digression to answer your question - My floors are red oak with walnut pegs. Brand unknown, but I think it is somewhat generic. It is not an engineered wood. Narrow to medium red oak planks are readily available. The pegs are made with a pegging tool, very simple, I hear. I was advised by my designer to wait to refinish my kitchen floors until everything was done EXCEPT toe kicks. I was uncomfortable with that at the time but I went along. She was very insistent. If I were to do it again, I would have insisted that the floors be sanded BEFORE any cabinets are installed. Then, I'd have applied one or two coats of clear heavy duty finish. Then I'd have the kitchen finished with contractors PROTECTING the floors. Finally, I'd have the floors buffed and the last coat of finish applied before the toekicks go on. That would have been much better. Bottom line: the designer/contractor did not want to have to worry about the floors in any way. Now, refinishing the floors will be incomplete, more difficult, and messier plus my new cabinets are at risk in the process. Background on the floor - - the kitchen and service porch and bathroom red oak was probably installed about 1980 during the last kitchen remodel. I would NEVER recommend a wood floor under a washing machine or in a bathroom. Terrible idea. But, we aren't changing at this time because of continuity. I dislike grooves on the kitchen floor - they are crumb magnets - -but, again, we stayed with them for various reasons. Other rooms of the house have an older, wider red oak floor that we believe is original to the house. When we moved in, the red oak was stained a dark color and the previous homeowner told me to use TreWax Indian Sand paste wax to maintain them. Maintaining waxed floors was a hassle for a working mom, even with an Oreck. The dark color also eventually got on my nerves. My kitchen floor was dark, my Wood-Mode cherry kitchen was dark, we had navy blue and white checked wallpaper on the ceiling (also dark), it was depressing. So, I decided to replace the floors with a new, light colored wood floor. I called for bids. One of the bidders discouraged me from changing floors. He insisted that I'd probably be ahead of the game if, instead, I simply sanded the dark waxed red oak floors and put on a clear finish. He explained that 10 inch wide red oak plank floors are hard to come by and should be cherished. I decided to try it. They came, they sanded, and they refinished the floors. The rooms brightened up significantly. There were a few minor blemishes where the dark stain was not completely removed by sanding and the grooves remained dark, but, for a busy household with kids and dogs, it was good enough for now. During the course of this kitchen project, the workers have shown total disregard for our floors. There is paint, grout, and scratches from the job. Hopefully, the majority of this will clean up when the floors are refinished. A gesture of putting down drop cloths would have been nice, and my complaints were not welcomed. Polyurethane on floors like this should be redone every 2-4 years in a high traffic kitchen. Not full sanding, just polyurethane and professional buffing. I've been told that I have 2-3 more major sandings left in the floor before replacement would be suggested. That could mean decades left of wear. I think that the floors will end up being just fine after the floor men are done. They look bad right now....See More- 4 years agolast modified: 4 years ago
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