Name an obscure thing you cannot live without?
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Comments (60)I personally love tragic stories, especially star crossed lovers. The sadder the better..lol. Beautiful happy stories are nice but we always remember the sad ones the most. It is perhaps in many ways cathartic. I have been working on a series of paintings that depict tragic couples in world history eg Romeo and Juliet, Tristan and Isolde, Deidre and Naoise etc. They are still in the initial stages. Having said that, I actually didn't realize that Jude is a man. I always thought it would be a woman for some reason. I will try to read this book in the future. Overall, I think it is proper to have roses named after people or characters. For me it adds a certain depth to the rose. Thanks True blue, I will remember their stories when I do get a chance to paint them one day....See MoreCabinet ideas or inserts you cannot live without
Comments (20)kleekai - Here is my major digression to answer your question - My floors are red oak with walnut pegs. Brand unknown, but I think it is somewhat generic. It is not an engineered wood. Narrow to medium red oak planks are readily available. The pegs are made with a pegging tool, very simple, I hear. I was advised by my designer to wait to refinish my kitchen floors until everything was done EXCEPT toe kicks. I was uncomfortable with that at the time but I went along. She was very insistent. If I were to do it again, I would have insisted that the floors be sanded BEFORE any cabinets are installed. Then, I'd have applied one or two coats of clear heavy duty finish. Then I'd have the kitchen finished with contractors PROTECTING the floors. Finally, I'd have the floors buffed and the last coat of finish applied before the toekicks go on. That would have been much better. Bottom line: the designer/contractor did not want to have to worry about the floors in any way. Now, refinishing the floors will be incomplete, more difficult, and messier plus my new cabinets are at risk in the process. Background on the floor - - the kitchen and service porch and bathroom red oak was probably installed about 1980 during the last kitchen remodel. I would NEVER recommend a wood floor under a washing machine or in a bathroom. Terrible idea. But, we aren't changing at this time because of continuity. I dislike grooves on the kitchen floor - they are crumb magnets - -but, again, we stayed with them for various reasons. Other rooms of the house have an older, wider red oak floor that we believe is original to the house. When we moved in, the red oak was stained a dark color and the previous homeowner told me to use TreWax Indian Sand paste wax to maintain them. Maintaining waxed floors was a hassle for a working mom, even with an Oreck. The dark color also eventually got on my nerves. My kitchen floor was dark, my Wood-Mode cherry kitchen was dark, we had navy blue and white checked wallpaper on the ceiling (also dark), it was depressing. So, I decided to replace the floors with a new, light colored wood floor. I called for bids. One of the bidders discouraged me from changing floors. He insisted that I'd probably be ahead of the game if, instead, I simply sanded the dark waxed red oak floors and put on a clear finish. He explained that 10 inch wide red oak plank floors are hard to come by and should be cherished. I decided to try it. They came, they sanded, and they refinished the floors. The rooms brightened up significantly. There were a few minor blemishes where the dark stain was not completely removed by sanding and the grooves remained dark, but, for a busy household with kids and dogs, it was good enough for now. During the course of this kitchen project, the workers have shown total disregard for our floors. There is paint, grout, and scratches from the job. Hopefully, the majority of this will clean up when the floors are refinished. A gesture of putting down drop cloths would have been nice, and my complaints were not welcomed. Polyurethane on floors like this should be redone every 2-4 years in a high traffic kitchen. Not full sanding, just polyurethane and professional buffing. I've been told that I have 2-3 more major sandings left in the floor before replacement would be suggested. That could mean decades left of wear. I think that the floors will end up being just fine after the floor men are done. They look bad right now....See MoreDo you love your soft close or could you live without them?
Comments (40)Soft close drawers were a must for me. Our old drawers and doors from 1988 slammed mercilessly and our reno involved removing walls to open the kitchen to the living/dining area. The last thing I wanted was any more noise emanating from the kitchen into the more open space. Our cabinets happened to come with a free upgrade to soft close doors at the time we ordered, or else we would have gone "after market" with those since they can be had much more inexpensively and installed very easily as others have noted on this thread. Another good point others have mentioned is they are probably essential when storing dishes or glassware in drawers. So my answer is, yes, I love them on both doors and drawers. Could I live without the...sure. But I could have "lived" without remodeling my kitchen too. LOL...See MoreWife Cannot Function Without Clubbing
Comments (20)Thank you for asking, Tammy Allen! Things, I do believe, are moving along as they should. I'm surprisingly taking them quite well, considering the circumstances. I just recently caught my wife of 5 years having an affair with another married man. I immediately confronted her and then contacted the man's wife on FB. My wife ended the marriage in the span of a two minute conversation, and then hung up on me to meet him. She has since started seeing different men, and is gone until the next morning. She sent her kids to live with their father and is enjoying the free life. My son and I--aside of the pain and suffering her actions have caused--have been busy packing our things to move. We are heading back to Phoenix to be around all our family and friends so that we can begin the healing process. She can now have her lifestyle without me in the way....See More- 4 years agolast modified: 4 years ago
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