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Comments (3)I prepare food for my parents that is easy to reheat and easy to eat also. Does she have any swallowing issues? Sometimes that can linger for a while after a stroke and softer foods are safer as well as easy for her to work with. I think Gardenlad has expressed some good ideas in a nice way about her being as independent as she is capable of. I do make a lot of chicken and package it up in slices or small pieces for them in a sauce. My Dad's arthritis makes it hard for him to cut the meat and my Mom has trouble with a knife too. So, I try to make it fork or spoon friendly, like your friend requires. Here are some other favorites of ours. I have a ton of ground meat recipes - its easy for them and we like it too. Various meatloaves by the dozen, LOL, Ginger's Porcupine Meatballs, meatloaf patties, meatloaf muffins, Ann T's Salisbury Steak, Greek Meatballs, Chili, Gaucho pie. I make pork tenderloin in several different ways, she can cut it with a fork or you could cut it into small pieces. Keilbasi pieces with sauerkraut and potatoes all cooked together. Sausage Marzetti is a big favorite - pork sausage meat with noodles. Octoberfest stirfry - sausage slices and chopped cabbage cooked in beer and beef broth. TUSCAN CHICKEN (cut the chicken into smaller pieces) Recipe courtesy Rachael Ray 2 pounds boneless, skinless chicken thighs 1 1/2 pounds chicken breast tenderloins Salt and pepper 3 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil 6 cloves garlic, crushed 3 tablespoons white wine vinegar 2 tablespoons butter 2 shallots, chopped 6 sprigs fresh rosemary, finely chopped 2 tablespoons flour 1 cup dry white wine 2 cups beef broth (yes, beef broth) Heat a large, deep skillet over medium high heat. Season chicken with salt and pepper. Add 2 tablespoons extra-virgin olive oil, half the chicken pieces, and a couple of crushed cloves of garlic. Brown chicken 2 minutes on each side and remove from pan. Add remaining oil, another single turn of the pan, remaining chicken pieces and garlic. Brown chicken 2 minutes on each side and remove. Add vinegar to the pan. Let it cook off. Add butter, shallots, and rosemary to the pan and cook 2 minutes, add flour and cook 1 minute more. Whisk in wine, reduce 1 minute. Whisk in broth and bring liquids up to a bubble. Return chicken to the pan and simmer over moderate heat 7 to 8 minutes to finish cooking chicken through. There are innumerable chicken recipes - as long as it has something to keep it moist, chicken can be cut into small pieces and I think would be perfect. There are also tons of pasta dishes - I would stay away from long spaghetti type pastas but use farfalle or something easy to stab with a fork. Thick soups are easy to eat - pea soup, lentil soup, and if she's pretty adept with her left hand, other thin soups would be okay too, I suppose. I hate to bombard you with tons of recipes that you wouldn't want, so if you would like some recipes, please let me know and I'll be happy to post them for you. I wish your friend all the best, she has been through so much, how wonderful that she can still keep a smile on her face....See MoreFriend starting chemo; needs a 'music list'
Comments (15)we had tv's and recliners so usually had my feet up and watched what ever was on...our cancer center is situated on large pond, so did a lot of bird watching...on the gloomy days read, too..a good trashy forget it all novel...i also took a bread and butter sandwich or something to eat cause no matter how early you get there it always seems to go past lunch hour... by nature i'm nosey so loved the times near the nurses station... and i wasn't afraid to smile at other patients...we all know why we're there... did my own driving, thank goodness, but sure slept a ton after i got home... that's what you can do if you're able is to drive and pick up...laundry...shopping, ect...this is the time to look ahead and not the what ifs...and remember she's still your rock, best bud, and cheering squad...cancer is one fraction, NOT the entire person...i'm still grandma, wife, mother, friend, and oh yeah, cancer survivor... (((ms bobbie and caroline)))...See MoreUpdate on friend Bess chemo today!
Comments (7)Thanks all and will appreciate your continued good thoughts and prayers. Can't imagine the anxiety in having to wait a few weeks to get the results....See MoreShould I tell my friend her "Interior Decorator" is ripping her off?
Comments (46)Wow lots of heated opinions! But thanks for sharing them! It's interesting to hear all the different thought processes. Olychic: Ouch! We are very good friends, I just tend to overthink things! And I'm also just ridiculously curious about how people think so it's sort of fun for me to hear all the different opinions. :) But I am super glad I just went with my gut. Anyway I just wanted to update you all. It all worked out much easier than anticipated. I asked her how the project was going and that got her talking about how the ID is now delaying the project by quite a bit and blaming her for bad communication....(smh) Anyway turns out she's already having second thoughts, so I didn't really need to say much. I just mostly agreed with her and threw in a couple of ideas too. She's going to try to somehow renegotiate. Hopefully it goes well! I'm grateful to everyone who posted. Thank you!...See More- 5 years agolast modified: 5 years ago
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