Horrible weekend
Kathsgrdn
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Comments (11)Echinacea, I'm so sorry. :( Where are you? I'm in Brentwood, between Nashville and Franklin. We were very blessed to have escaped any damage. In fact, our internet and cable were down last weekend, and we had no clue it was getting so bad. We were just thinking, "Wow, what a lot of rain this is." Our yard, very amazingly, did not even have a single puddle. We were so shocked to see the photos and video when we finally got cable back. I'm on my third day of two-minute showers. Had to resort to wearing a ball cap today. I hope they can get the other water station working soon. Listen, if you lose any of your echinaceas, I would be happy to donate some seedlings. I winter sowed a lot of echinacea this year (I'm a big fan as well). I have seedlings of Double Decker, Purpurea, Tennesseensis and Green Envy. Let me know! Connie...See MoreA Really Bad, Terrible Weekend
Comments (12)I've been following the Fay threads here for several days, knew from national news that she wasn't done Friday. We worry for your safety. The irony is that we have to wait until power is restored and you have a few minutes to spare from clean-up. Wish you were closer: I'd join TM with my little electric chainsaw. Oak is much sought after by folks who heat with wood stoves: know anyone who might help you out in exchange for a few logs? Glad to read DH's surgery went well. One of the challenges of recovery is overcoming boredom. And, when you're the care-giver, forgiving (in my experience) the little bell ringing for attention every 15 minutes. Best wishes! Ana...See MoreOT? How to deal with DH's horribly cheap family? LONG
Comments (14)You can't change anyone's behavior except your own. So wishing that the joint gifts would stop or that they will stop chastising you if you don't chip in isn't going to get you anywhere. You can either continue to contribute to group gifts in order to keep the peace and get over your feelings about it, OR you can quit contributing and just deal with (ignore if possible) the scolding from MIL. IDEA: What if you just chip in a nominal amount to their gift $5 or $10, quit giving $60 because you know it won't be matched. Then you can always buy a separate gift for the recipient, spending what you consider to be an appropriate amount. As for the birthday gifts, who ever said that you HAVE to buy someone a gift, and that it has to be something on their $100 list? Buy IF and WHAT you want and leave it at that. You're letting them bully you into buying them expensive gifts. They probably will still bully you but whether you let them is up to you. You're worried about not ruining the relationship and I can really sympathize with that. But what I've learned is that your in-laws are going to behave the way they want to no matter what. In my first marriage, no matter what I did, no matter how hard I tried, MIL just didn't like me. And believe me, I tried! What a wasted effort. Second marriage, I'm just myself and nothing more, and unfortunaely inlaws & I have had a couple of unavoidable run-ins due to circumstances beyond our control. However, they still love me and treat me with respect (and vice versa). Bottom line, you need to live your own life, do what's best for you (just as they are apparently doing!!) and quit acquiescing to their expectations. It's fine to give in on some things, especially the things that are not important to you, but things that go against your grain like this apparently does, stand your ground and do what works for you....See MoreOT small town tradegy
Comments (5)Rosa, that's just horrible. The whole town must be in shock and will take years for any kind of acceptance. Prayers and comfort to all... SharonG/FL...See MoreKathsgrdn
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