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Comments (3)I would skip pruning this year and take a year learning from this forum. Pruning is far more then cutting some branches. you have to learn the hows and whys. you may discover the previous owner was not very good at it and you have things to fix. But you need to have your mind around it first. Furthermore what is right for me may be all wrong for the next guy. For example I didn't think picking apples from a ladder was that big of a deal.. until I had to to pick a whole lot of them. I prune to keep my fruit as low as possible, but my friend in the country cannot do it that way...See MoreNeed Final Advice for my Spring Time Sucker Transplant
Comments (3)I am not a fan of peat in container potting unless it is a small portion and well mixed in. If you have too much peat in one spot within the pot it can dry together and repel water. I learned that the hard way and nearly killed a couple of potted figs last year. I would probably mix half native soil and half well aged compost for nutrition. You will also have to water fairly regularly in a pot like the above poster says and keep the soil moist but not wet. I have had more problems under watering than over watering potted plants. The pot will absolutely need drainage as well....See MoreMature Trees and Homeowners Insurance - Advice?
Comments (4)Lots of info on the web regarding insurance and fallen trees, etc. What crops up most is the usual $500 payout for debris clean up for an Act of God occurrance - assuming a downed tree does no damage to structures or property. And the spectre of multiple claims for this type of thing would undoubtedly adversely affect rates. But I have no doubt most insurance companies would be glad to write up additional coverages. After all, you're hedging your bet against something happening, and the company has your premiums which they may or may not pay out on if something does happen. I live in an old established neighborhood with virtually nothing but mature trees. They're beautiful, a real asset, and losses do create holes in the landscape. Much to my dismay, I had to have two immense basswoods which dominated the skyline for blocks taken down - with age basswoods get weak and start dropping debris, and these actually had the potential of wreking havoc, perhaps even killing someone, if they came down. And I bit the bullet to the tune of $2500 to make this situation go away. Even if they had come down on their own and done no particular damage, it's doubtful I would have put in a claim against my homeowner's insurance for any clean up. A reputable certified, licensed, and bonded arborist is your best bet. They have the skills to identify potential problems and minimize a lot of your risks. And I really think good maintenance with professional assistance would be cheaper in the long run than additional insurance. premiums....See Moreneed sound, mature advice
Comments (20)I have to echo the words of popi and others. Fast forward 15 or 20 years into the future: would you want your daughter to stay in a situation like the one you describe? You need to think about the fact that she will tolerate the same things you are doing (or worse) because you have shown her that this is a reasonable thing to do. I'd even go further and say that you are also teaching her that it is okay to use someone that you have no love for and no intention of staying with. You are showing your daughter that if the other person is flawed, mean or "bad", you are not required by your moral code to treat him/her fairly and honestly (by being upfront with him about the fact that you do not intend to stay with him and will leave at your first opportunity). Your behaviour says that your values about how to treat people vary according to how nice they are to you. Since your husband and your daughter's step-mother both seem to be modeling unethical behaviour towards a spouse, shouldn't someone here model how to be a person whose values are solid and don't depend on other people's actions? I say this because it is always possible to describe something about someone else's actions that will justify our unethical choices. Don't make it easy for your daughter to do that. Help her become an adult whose standards do not vary depending on what other people do. If she should treat people the way she wants to be treated, then she should do it even if they don't deserve it because it is the right thing to do. I know leaving is easier said than done. I recognize you are in a tough situation but often the right thing is the hard thing, especially when it come to parenting. And I'm not sure I'd have the strength to do it myself, but I hope I would for my kids' sake. If you continue doing what you are doing, at least do it with your eyes open and be fully aware that she will likely become an adult who believes that giving people what they deserve is more important than doing what is right. Good luck....See MoreOakley
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