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Lynette Buchanan
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what I found on my arbor!
Comments (15)Thank you all for the kind words. Here it is days later and I can't seem to stop beating myself up for not taking my morning stroll around the yard. I'm still thinking of her incredible pain for that many hours in total silence. I'm trying to ease my guilt by telling myself even worse scenario's that would have occurred if I hadn't gone for the mail, or hadn't seen the gate open, etc. Ah guilt, my mother taught me well, lol. Then I get a magazine yesterday talking about various species and how they care for their infants and how to tell if they've been abandoned versus mom out hunting. It mentions raccoons and said moms rarely leave babes alone, so if you see a baby raccoon, you know it needs help. So of course, now I have my eyes constantly searching for any possible babies she might have had...and I still don't even know for sure it was a she! (place more guilt here). I made two more calls to the emergency clinic trying to get a real answer to her fate but did not. This place is staffed only at night and then in rotations and every time I call I'm told it's different people who know nothing. Lori...See MoreWhat do you do when your husband's a slob?
Comments (44)Boy, I guess there are multiple levels of issues we can all face. One is just division of labor and how spouses feel about that--so, DW may be expected to do all the house cleaning and DH may do car upkeep, bills, home repairs--substitute any similar examples. Are they each happy with the division? If not, is it because of the job--drudgery, or whatever--or time commitment ("I spend 4 hrs a day on chores and you spend 30 min). All that can be tricky to divide up and still never may be 50-50. Then there would be more of the "slob" issues in which one person creates a large burden that seems unnecessary or inconsiderate. We think of cleaning most often, but a different example is if someone abuses the car, or an appliance, or stop up the toilet (especially if repeatedly and not just a simple mistake) and then the other person has to pick up the pieces, perhaps with a large time commitment or $$ commitment. As in the example of the really messy cook (I mean, if REALLY messy)--then the cleaning spouse could have a job that can't be done with a reasonable amount of time and energy--and at night you can't just hire someone to come fix it. Control is a factor for me--I am less likely to complain if I have to clear up someone's clutter, as long as I can do what I want with it. It becomes a major problem if I can't move it, can't sort it, can't organize it, but have to watch the dirt accumulate on top of it or can't use the dinner table, or chair. If it just turns out that picking up is one of my jobs in the division of labor scheme, I can often do that, and then I decide if I also have time to cook dinner, or whatever....See MoreWhat color for a black and white office?
Comments (15)When you think about flow, it is really about sight lines. When you stand in one place and see a succession of colors, they should play nicely together. In upstairs bedrooms, what really matters is that each bedroom looks okay with the hall color. Even if one room is pink, you probably wouldn't see that pink butting up against the office walls, right? So, for example, find an apple green that leans toward brown so that it works with the wheat. More Dill Pickle (BM 2147-40) and less Chic Lime (BM 396) IYKWIM. Another way to think about color for a workplace is to consider the colors you feel best wearing. Look in your closet for recurring themes. If you meet with clients in your office, it is particularly good to choose a color that flatters your skin tone. I had a friend who was a Stampin' Up rep. She held many parties in her dining room and had the walls painted in her best color. She really did look good in there and boy did she sell a lot of rubber!...See MoreWhat to do with this living room? Stuck with some furniture and layout
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