Covid Impact on Soc. Sec. Benefits?
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Comments (96)Julie. This is hard to explain and probably hard to understand at least for those who know my struggles. I've ask the state for some help. Medical for myself (rest of family has it) I've ask for some help twice to help provide something for Christmas for my two young kids still counting on Santa, I've ask for help with groceries a couple of times, I've ask for help to replace a broken furnace. .. I was denied every single time. Now although I would put my feelings aside and ask for help when needed I just can not accept money because I take care of my sick daughter. I chose this girl. I was there when she was born. I knew from the second she entered the world she was going to have a life of struggles and I knew I would also...but I chose to be her mother regardless. Absolutly the money would ease burdens, but it would also cause another sort of moral burden that I couldn't accept emotionally. I do accept help with home care nurses when needed. Once both my boys were admitted to hospital together so I had to have someone at the house with Amiee. A few times while on IV antibiotic therapy a nurse had to come. A few times I was unwell and someone came to help Amiee. I was grateful and happily accepted the help. I just can not make myself take money to care for her myself. For anyone that is ready to jump on me about this. This is not up for debate. I will not explain myself anymore than I have above. You don't have to agree with me but just for a second put yourself in my place....See MoreFacing the end of one's life
Comments (74)This is a thinking post. Really make you crawl into your head and ...ponder. I've been hesitant to speak much about myself in the KT lately, but I've been drawn in by the pure bittersweet. As some of you know I've been diagnosed with metastasized lung cancer...it's in my right lung, lymp nodes in my chest, around the heart, in most bones and two tumers in the brain causing swelling and fluid. Im undergoing brain radiation treatments at present..I'll have 10 of these..today I finished 6...my 10'th will be Thursday than I'll start chemo and immunotherapy I think I was told I'd have 3 chemo and immuno than 21 days off than 3 and 21 off for a total of 4 or 5 sesions. My Oncologist wasn't pleased to postpone chemo but they won't do it with radiation and the brain must be saved first. So I'm facing death. There's no cure for me unless God sends me a miricle. I ask my brain doctors when radiation started if he could give me a week...he told me....I'm so very sorry but where your brain tumers are located and the stage...I can't promise you tomorrow but....we are all fighting this with you and a LOT of Prayers, HOPE, and new medicines have given many people in your situation TIME and LIFE. This is what scares me the most....the not knowing from one moment to the next...as if I'm a time bomb...ticking. already I have arm seizures daily, head pain, but it's lessioning up some... God how I've been thinking for weeks the same questions Lucille has ask.. From the first moment I was told about my cancer... My family became my first priority. Nothing absolutely nothing is more important than family, no pretty clothing, no nice cars, no amount of money could ever be more important than family. And Dear God my boys and Amiee. I've also thought about all the other important things that must be taken care of, such as....well....important papers, etc all in a neat folder and labled. So much to do and get in order..sometimes I just don't want to think about any of the mundane stuff I must do and just grab the family and have fun. Like after this post last night...I sent my son for ice cream and even though it was a school night I kept the boys up and we had a ice cream fest..the boys LOVED it. Right now my family is filling up air mattresses in the family room, digging out sheets , pillows, blankets...we're having a weekend PJ party. My adult sons are here to join us as is Amiee's BF Kody. Lots of ice cream, cookies, etc along with some good breakfasts and dinners thru the weekend....huge messes with all this bedding, but SO WHAT...the boys were absolutely thrilled that I cancelled their showers tonight and told them to get into their PJ's. Everyone will just be vegging, laughing, and having fun. Limited work except the basics...bare basics. This makes me happy...I love my family and I want to share and feel their smiles. I've installed enough good habits in the boys that they know the importance of good eating habits, bathing, ect....letting up, easing up once in awhile won't hurt them one bit but will go a long way in giving them peace of mind and some real laughter. Guess I've realized a little slack in routine and all the good healthy life is great, but there must be enough balance to provide a healthy body and mind. For me it's all about family...and the boys and Amiee are of course my greatest concern right now. I try so hard to stay strong, not dwell on what's to happen....but God how can I leave these kids..this is the question that's always on my mind...I know I cant...as long as my brain is still functioning, and there's a breath in me I refuse to give up. I'll take the fear, the pain..I'll suffer the agonizing....I'll do whatever I must do to continue to be with my kids....and we will eat ice cream while I do it. I'm sure I got way off topic Lucille, I found myself saying, sharing, to much yet again. I always did have this bad habit. Lucille, I truly Pray all is well with you. Enjoy those cinnamon rolls, and other cookies, your bike rides, and everything fun your life offers. Do it all with a peaceful heart, and a smile. ((((HUGS))))....See MoreStimulus money question
Comments (29)Updating, I guess over the weekend I had heard ( or read) enough people saying the site was updated and working properly so I entered my info. Finally it let me enter the banking info and it said that the payment would be done to the account indicated. Finally an acknowledgment I wasn't super concerned, but after entering both 2019 and 2018 info multiple times and telling me my info did not agree with their records, I was relieved to be able to enter the banking and then got this: You are eligible for the payment. Once we have your payment date, we will update this page. We will deposit your payment to the bank account below. Updates to your payment are made no more than once a day. We will mail you a letter with additional information on this payment."...See MoreFor those who are Medicare savvy
Comments (73)I know this thread is a couple of years old, but Medicare is a topic that remains relevant, and I'm sure others are still finding this discussion useful. You did a great job outlining the complexities between Medigap and Advantage Plans. It really is a labyrinth, isn't it? I came across this resource at https://www.coveringcfl.net/open-enrollment-for-health-insurance-in-2024-enrollment-dates-details/ which, although not exclusively about Medicare, does provide some good general insights into the insurance enrollment process. Since it's been a while, I'm really curious how things have been going for you and your DH. Did you go with Medigap? How has your experience been?...See More- 5 years ago
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