Before even deciding on the space get a fridge counter depth with at least stainless sides or and end panel to hide the side . Is this the only space for a DR? I think we need more info as to how you live , how many people . I assume the door goes to the backyard or to the deck that is an issue you need to address in your explanation of how you live.

So here is what I have done to the kitchen so far . The other side would be the dining room area ( where the help is needed). I also added a draw up of the area with a app. We have parties often and are sorta socialites . We love dinner parties and there are 4 ppl that currently live in the home . The door does go to the backyard but on the side and it’s just stairs . Our patio door opens to the deck.

https://snip.ly/005vxp

To start i would remove all the open shelving in the kitchen that cannot be reached easily....this just adds a cluttered feel and draws the eye too high...
also remove the small shelving units until you are finished furnishing..and can find a spot where they fit and serve a purpose....
for your described lifestyle i would not want the kitchen so open to view...either an island or another L in the peninsula will give you lots of extra storage and seating and an inviting spot for buffets...or party food....
NEXT....Since you have such an open floor plan i would select big beautiful decorative rugs to define all the different areas....to guide you in decor and furniture color choices....but most importantly provide you with a perfect guide for what size furnishings will fit in each area