Pretty room! So, you are buying curtains and then making new bedding to match? Have you considered buying or making the bedding first and then adding the rest? There are many pretty, inexpensive bedding options. I think you are getting hung up on the curtain color. The bedding should be the main focus of the room, not the curtains. Natural textured curtains would look great with your room and you can add color with different rugs, art, pillows and a colored lamp. Which accent color do you like the best? A colored curtain in a muted color would work but something bright might steal all the attention in the room.

That looks way better. Now it's time to fix those poor curtains. To start with you might want to consider drapes that will block out light in case you want to sleep in some weekends. Next make sure that the panels are twice as wide as the windows. So a 60 inch wide window gets 2 panels each 60 inches wide. That will make the drapes drape not hang flat. Not done yet because those panels should just touch the floor. You can always adjust the height of the rod a little rather than hemming. Don't push the dresser up against the drapes. They should hang straight down. I'm not suggesting you get purple curtains but you could use a little color. Maybe a dark orange to work with the spread.

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Those Pax wardrobes are fabulous storage options. I'd go with white, for sure. The Pax didn't work in our bedroom but I think it's partly because they were at the entrance of the room. Surrounding the window as you have it in your layout would work heaps better. They look great in Lyfia's pics. I'm also short and feel claustrophobic with tall furniture so that's my bias.