I love greens, but with the red so hot in the bedding, I am not sure I would want green. The bedding is very pretty, by the way! I know this is going to seem bizarre, but have you considered an aqua, as we seem to see in the center of the pointy leaves in the closeup of the bedding? I think it might cool down the room, and would certainly show off the dark furniture as well. I think it would work with the Whole Wheat, tho I am kind of puzzled about the issue of working with it. At different times of the day, from different angles, in different light, those colors will never look the same, and at times will perhaps seem more suited than at others. But no one that I can think of would stand in the hallway and expect the bedroom to flow with a public space. That is part of the delight of bedrooms and baths - places to choose color and decor different from the public spaces, that are more personal and perhaps a little more daring. I think your bed looks pretty, but I would try to find a place to store your sleeping pillows during the day when the bed is made - they don't go with the look of the finished bed, and kind of spoil the view from the side. Maybe you can tuck them on the floor of the closet? Also wondering if the valances on the windows are on a separate rod, so that you could raise the valances up higher to open the window space and take the eye up above the top of the bedposts.

Your house is 4,000 sq ft. That should have at least 4 bedrooms. Where is all that space used? I don't believe for one second that the only option to gain a decent master bathroom and closet is to eliminate one whole bedroom. Maybe you're looking at the wrong room to make the master suite. It's not always the best approach to use all the existing rooms for the same purpose when you remodel. I'll bet there is another space in that 4,000 sq ft house that could be repurposed to make an awesome master suite, and still keep 3 other bedrooms. I have actually been through this same dilemma. The major difference is my house was originally a 4/2 crammed into just under 1,200 sq ft. Don't even ask how they stuffed all those rooms into a tiny house. It was awful. We removed the small bedroom 8x10 and expanded the master bedroom, bathroom, closet, kitchen, and living room. Now our house is a 3/2 with a slightly higher resale value, but the cost of the remodel probably exceeds the gain in value.

West Elm curtains arrived and they are perfect!!!!!!!!!! Totally transformed our room; we are so pleased :) Thank you all so much for your help and encouraging me not to settle. (and I fully admit I do not have good decorating taste, so if you have any suggestions, I am open.) And I was really confused about what West Elm's color "zinc" was... if anyone is curious, it is a dark, metallic grey with a slight beige hue... I would rename it "Gunmetal." The material is great... I have not ironed them yet. I am hoping over the next week the wrinkles will fall out. If they do not, I will ask my mom to iron them ;) I'm horrible at ironing and also due to have a baby any day now :) :) :) Now onto finding a rug!

Obvs it depends on your needs! Maybe you could do a combination of both? - move bed into corner == two walls for windows - room for an office area - having the closet and bath in the same area == someone can get ready without traversing back & forth through the bedroom (and possibly waking the other person) - lots of room for a reach in closet opposite the walk-in closet (linen storage; shoes; out of season stuff; etc) - I might remove the shelves from the bathroom - your WC is a bit tight (where do you stand once you're inside & want to close the door??) If you remove the shelves you can push out the length of the WC