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Comments (6)I use the hav-a-heart traps for squirrels, and find them quite effective. Even though the other squirrels see their friends in the trap, they are still waiting to get in themselves when the trap is empty. I suggest a slice of apple with peanut butter on it as bait. I find that trapping one squirrel a day for a couple of weeks really helps, and is a lot less expensive than a professional exterminator who often use the same traps. You can bury the dead squirrels in an area you then plant with a decorative plant which can use the nutrients. If you have an enclosed spot where you can put it, gopher poison with strychine is quite effective. The squirrels will be dead before they move more than a few feet. Use the peanut variety so that you have a very attractive material to them. Note that you need to be quite careful with this stuff since it is so deadly. Renais...See MoreHelp My Boyfriends Daughter is tearing our family apart
Comments (50)nivea, I'm sorry you had a bad experience in your life but a child can be (and a lot of them are) manipulative at age 6-8. My SD, when she was 6, came up to me and said 'my daddy was kissing deanna' and stood there waiting for me to react. She has glared at me when he isn't looking. and she would be a totally different child the minute he walked through the door. A lot of this was happening when we were dating and he never saw any of it. He didn't believe me until I pointed it out and he saw it. Perhaps the difference is that I knew what she was doing and I had been through raising several kids before so I knew how to handle it. My DH's ex (whom my SD referred to as 'horrible Elizabeth') probably reacted to it by taking it personally. She was younger & had three small kids and not everyone can rise above it when you are stressed out. That may not be a good reason or excuse to blame them, but humans are not perfect. Anyone that believes children cannot be manipulative has their head stuck in the sand. It is natural for them to angle things so they get their way. My kids do it all the time. (and nivea, is it possible that you behaved normally as a child, which can be seen as manipulative if you didn't like your step mom? Were you happy they broke up?) Some kids just react like normal kids and their actions can seem the are being manipulative, and other kids 'know' they will get a reaction. I think my SD knew that telling me DH 'kissed' his friend would get a reaction. She was only 6 but had already learned how to get rid of daddy's GF's. (the situation was that his friend deanna had given him a ride home after his car broke down and she always gives a hug/kiss on the cheek. I knew about it and wasn't in any way concerned.) btw, My son came into my room a couple of days ago and we were talking. He told me 'mom, you just like to argue.' and I said 'no I don't' and he said 'yes you do' so I repeated 'no. I don't.' and he repeated 'yes you do' and then I realized that he was pushing my buttons and it was a game to him, to get me to argue with him. I just said, okay and it took the wind out of his sail, I took the fun out of it by not playing....See MoreTearing my hair trying to help someone with an iPad, is it so differen
Comments (2)Ha!, no teen in that gals house, I was sure I was doing things right, then, I just told her this would be the last I would do, cuz I had eliminated everything else, and she told me she was home and on the regular computer, I could have reached thru the screen and strangled her. she also commented she only knew gmail, and I told her I used FF, chrome, and IE as browsers, and then she "discovered" Ff on the machine! I felt I got suckered into a dilemma, and hope I never run across something like that again. As you said, I do not believe she knows how to operate her device, only the simplest things maybe?, and also that she doesn't know the capabilities of it either. I am not a geek, but I have done a few attachments, etc., in my life. I hope with all of this, she now can work her devices as a regular person. Thank you so much for listening to my vent, and first off, thank you for your words, I appreciate that you took the time to read, and decipher what I was trying to accomplish. so nice to have folks that are genuine, and I do not think this one was, only somewhat selfish it seems to me. Have a great day, and know that you calmed my jitters, cuz I was afraid I was doing the wrong thing, and it never occurred to me it probably most likely was someone who didn't know how to work with the device. I know I am just happy with a trac phone, call and receive, old habits die hard!...See MoreMoles tearing up my back yard lawn!
Comments (14)Mole update! Moles 2, back garden 0 lol 1. Pack of 8 sulfur flares. 2. used poison pellets in hole and covered - moles tossed out all the pellets onto the top of their dirt hill - don't think they ate any. More tunnels and more holes. Stomped tunnels, not sure it help discourage moles, but made us feel better! 3. Bought another packet of gas flares and set them today. Game continued................See Morebry911
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