We are using relaxed khaki, universal khaki and wool skein in our home...they are either wall colors, ceiling or trim...all very neutral.. Pam

Warm toned cabinet and cool grays do not work well together. Neither brings out the best in the other and the overall effect can be drab. "Grays" that are really blues or greens with a gray undertone can work, especially if you don't mind the darker kitchen look as opposed to the light and airy look. For my own oak kitchen I have a soft creamy beige that has just enough color to set off my white trim. https://www.houzz.com/photos/my-pics-work-in-progress-phvw-vp~58830325 https://www.houzz.com/photos/my-pics-work-in-progress-phvw-vp~71048330 This person refreshed their oak kitchen with darker countertops and presently has a more green wall color - pics are in the comments section: https://www.houzz.com/discussions/affordable-update-dsvw-vd~4347799?n=13 One of the regular Houzz posters auntthelma, chose this pretty green with gray undertone with her wood cabinets: Do get sample jars and paint a large area with the sample - 2 coats if possible and look at it for a few days and in different lighting - also gray vs sunny days.

Check out agreeable gray... the name says it all

Thanks everyone. There is not a window in the powder room. Vanity is white, tile floor. I have the Sherwin Williams book of colors so I am working hard to find a good gray color. The granite counter is a blue gray which is why I am looking for a cool gray.