Are You Celebrating Father's Day
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Comments (73)IMO, its still the HUBBY who makes the final choice. Anyone, anyone even his own sister can tell him off and convince him not to pick up his kids. but in the end its his choice. No one elses. So it doesn't matter what a SM or a BM wants. Its the decision of that person. And let me bring another perspective to this arguement. You all are ticked off when a weekend is missed from an already constricted schedual eh..???? WELL WHAT HAPPENS WHEN BM MAKES PLANS ON DADS' WEEKENDS OR CONVINCES THE KIDS ITS NOT A GOOD PLACE TO GO??? Then WHAT? SHE MAKES DAD LOOK LIKE A PUTZ FOR THE LOST WEEKENDS. Its happening now with us. Damned if you do take them, and damned if youdont. Well guess what, i'm keeping a log for the last 2 years now of all the weekends lost with his kids and the reasons behind it. When on misses and why. Whether its a school activities, grandma's bday, cousins bdya party, just not up to it, wants to be with mom that weekend...ALL OF IT!. This way, when bm accuses my dh of it , i will have a record with dates and who showed up and who didn't so she doesn't try any funny business. and even the kdis have lashed out at my husband saying, oh your msising alot of weekends. He said yah, and who';s fault is that? YOURS NOT MINE! you want ot be with your friends, and go party and i call you ever week to know if you are coming...so dont play the tag game on me and try to guilt me. YOU ARE DITCHING ME. Be responsible , accept it and stop blaming others for you actions! And this is what i would say about this situation. STOP BLAMING SM'S FOR DADS DECISIONS. She has an imput but not the ultimate say. I think the mentality of blaming sm all the time comes for the same mentality that kids have the final say in these divorce situation and i cannot stress the fact even more that kids have absolutely no say and power lies between the adults. Between mom and dad. And in the end , a SM can b****ch all she wants, if dad says otherwise, its otherwise. And to add, if dad wants to skip one weekend, its also his right. He can make arrangments to picck them up another time for longer....See MoreHave You Been Getting Food Ready For Father's Day?
Comments (11)We will be having a family reunion at DDs on July 3rd. Younger son is flying in from the East Coast, older son will have just arrived home from an 8 week tour of USA with his girlfriend, and hopefully my brother and sister and spouses will join us. Last year when our youngest came home for a visit in June, we did a May birthdays party without gifts at DDs. My brother and 2 sons celebrate in May. Now our DD has moved our 3 1/2 year old grandson's birthday from December 25th to June 25th, but this year he will be visiting his other grandparents then. So we will do a big May and grandson birthday bash in early July. I am, therefore, taking note of your menu plans. I think we will buy 12 Costco steaks and have SIL grill them, and then I will bake a zucchini cake iced with Philadelphia Cream Cheese icing, and make a vat of potato salad and some meaty baked beans too. My sister can make a salad, DD can buy some ice cream, and I will pick up some other snacks at Costco when we go such as nice berries or chips or cheese and crackers. My brother hosts his wife's family on the 4th in their backyard, and I want to spare her any cooking for our gathering the evening before theirs....See MoreAre You Doing Anything For Father's Day?
Comments (9)breakfast at ds1...we're also celebrating dgd's bday...don't know if anyone else is coming...one dd already had plans to go out on fil's boat...that's just fine with us. they don't see them as often as we do...the other kid in town may have to go up north to see his fil, again ok..and the last dd1 we're seening them the next weekend...or they might have to go to his dads..his mom has been sick... i already bought dh a new radio for the shower...had to lol..his shower looks like he could live in there...only thing missing is a bench......See MoreHow Did You Celebrate Fathers' Day?
Comments (11)Lynn, how was Jurassic World? We thought about seeing it but my mother did not want to go and we didn't want to leave her home alone. Mtnrdredux, the peaches sound divine--- that's next on my list to make! Living in the peach state, we have marvelous peaches at our local farmers market and in our CSA shares. Now, about the casserole....it is good in a 1980s church potluck kind of way but not very good for you....the ingredients are chicken, broccoli, lemon juice mayonnaise, cream of chicken soup, curry, and breaded topping. I did my best with fresh broccoli, organic, free range chicken, healthy choice soup and homemade bread croutons, but did not even bother to total the calories in each serving. I did NOT want to know! Of course our darling future SIL loved it, so I can see it may make more regular appearances at the table in the future. Lyban, BBQ sounds great, and how nice your DD is taking over this celebration. I will be happy when and if our DD does the same :-) DLM, don't you wonder what we did before cellphones? I remember calling my parents on one fixed day of the week because I knew they would be home then and I could catch them on the phone. Dee, your typical "Dad" meal was my fall back position if I hadn't had time to make the casserole :-) Gsciencechick, it was miserably hot here as well, we stayed indoors most of the day. And that was one of the reasons I was glad not to be,grilling either.! Annie, sounds like you had a great day regardless, and Joanie, your DH is lucky to get two celebrations!...See More- 6 years agolast modified: 6 years ago
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