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Comments (7)thank you justaguy2. Thanks, I did see the drainage hole step, I guess I was thinking that when it rains so hard the drain hole might not be able to keep up with the amount of rainfall. I suppose i could always drill more drainage holes at the same level. I cant see how that could hurt anything. I was planning on only growing carrots in 1 and celery in the other. Can you help me with what to use instead of compost please? thanks...See MoreHelp with Heloc
Comments (6)cindyb -yes, that makes sense. But I guess I'm having trouble figuring that on 12/20 when I make my payment, the principal balance is reduced effective 12/05. But am I accruing on the reduced balance from 12/05 to 12/20 when I made my payment? That's what doesn't make sense. Billl~ I agree with you. That is the way I thought the payments were being applied. My note reads that way too, but that is not the way it is being applied. I have actually been trying to get an answer from the bank (credit union) since December without luck. Nobody understands it and nobody can explain why all of a sudden my total payment goes to interest instead of interest, and then principle. It was 6 months ago that I began to see this. Yes, we are going to refinance our 1st and include this equity line to pay it off. Or we may end up selling to buy a smaller house. We have used the line to upgrade and repair which is mostly complete now. Our house was built in 1927, and while it has charming features, it sure needed alot of work! We have plenty of equity in the house and wanted to use it for repair and upgrades. We still have plenty of equity even after consolidating the two notes into a refinance. Thanks all!...See MoreUpset with DH right now - a rant
Comments (6)Wait, I am a bit confused. So you didn't think BM was going to take SS to practice, but you did think she would pick him up at the stated normal time, right? And now DH has told her she can pick him up AFTER practice, which I am assuming means YOU will have to drive him to practice, and drive him home and then BM will get him? Just making sure I understand. I totally 100% agree with you that if DH is going to make changes to the schedule--HE needs to be around to deal with them and the potential fallout. It is unfair of him to make the changes, but then expect you to sit around and deal with them. Ditto on the fact that the judge may throw his hands up in the air, too. If DH wants a set schedule and times SO badly, but then constantly disregards it, then it's obvious (to a court) that it's not *that* important to him. Reminds me of a friend of mine--she has two boys with her ex. A six year old and a three year old. Never married to the ex, and the second boy was conceived during a brief reconciliation, and then they broke up not long after. The ex is a shady character---was into drugs/drinking for awhile there, and my friend, who is totally on the straight and narrow, working full-time in addition to majoring in Molecular Biology, didn't like having her boys go over to his place. BUT--she was in a bind all the time, needed him to help with the boys while she worked or was in class, and she would still let him keep the boys. THEN she would complain to her attorney that the boys weren't safe with their dad. Her attorney finally said---LOOK, if you do not think they're safe and you want me to pursue that avenue in this custody battle, then STOP sending your kids over there. You lose credibility when you tell the judge the kids are not safe but send them there anyway! He had a point. This was three years ago, and the dad ended up cleaning up his life and the two of them now share joint custody. Same kinda situation, though. When your DH changes things, he loses credibility. Just want to make sure I am understanding....See MoreMIL issues
Comments (11)I have to say, I'm lucky with my MIL. She is a terrible cook and there have been a few times I suck it up and eat what she's serving. At parties, she knows I love to bake & cook (and that I'm very good at it) so I always cook the food and she always praises my efforts. For the most part, I have a wonderful MIL. (lol, nobody is 'perfect', right?) But, this thread has reminded me of my grandma. She always had a huge plate of food ready for anyone that walked in her door. If you weren't hungry, she'd take it as an insult that you didn't like her and/or her cooking. (She was an amazing cook!) I think to her, food was love and she was generous with it. My parents would get into discussions every time we went to grandma's house. Dad didn't want to upset his MIL but he also didn't always want to eat what she served him and/or as much (she piled it on). If you've ever watched the movie "The wedding singer" where she pays him with meatballs, it's kinda like that, you don't want to hurt their feelings. (I love her reaction as he's eating the meatballs!) Well, anyways... my point is that Grandma passed away 21 years ago and when I think back, I can still smell the sweet bread in the oven or the spices from her tamales... I didn't have a close relationship to her because we lived too far away to even spend the night every once in a while. I wish I had gotten to know her better and spend more time with her when I was growing up. Looking back now, I can see that my dad probably didn't always enjoy going to his MIL's because many of the gatherings became parties where there was drinking & dancing (loud music) and lots of food. My dad is a non drinker, and is more comfortable in a quiet setting... talking. My mom's family enjoyed big loud parties, so he went. He never complained but I'm sure he would rather have stayed home. From a kid's perspective, going to grandma's was the greatest. I loved her cooking, I loved seeing my other relatives and I am glad that my dad (or both my parents really) didn't complain (at least in front of me). There are times my parents (mostly mom) do things that are interfering or pushy, but I also know they won't always be around. They are my parents and unless they are starting a conflict with me or my husband (which they have never done), I suck it up and let most of the things go. (I've mentioned that my mom makes comments about my stepmom and I have told her how I feel about that) but I think it's silly to argue over who cooks/bakes the cake or get upset because she cooked and got a cake. It sounds like it worked out okay, but in the scheme of life, it isn't even something worth getting even a little mad over. The time will come when she is gone and how your kids remember her may become more important than who cooked dinner. That's just my 2 cents....See More- 6 years ago
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