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Comments (35)Thanks for the link, ArthurM... very good reading! And thank you for sharing your orchid photos! I really like the Neofinitea falcata... the flowers are so delicate-looking and the white does look really nice against the darker green of the leaves! Thanks to all who shared photos! Lovely flowers! I only wish I could grow such beauties... my apartment is just not a very orchid-friendly environment... which is why I'm thrilled my Epidendrum is doing so well!...See MoreWhat do you do when your mail order starter roses arrive?
Comments (11)Nope, you guys missed a VERY important step. The very first thing you do with new mail order bands after taking them out of the shipping box and taking off any shipping paraphenalia is to fill a garbage can to the point where the water will completely cover the whole plant and to submerge it for 30 minutes to an hour. The point here is to kill any critters that came with your plants, especially of the spider mite variety. It also rehydrates everything that dried out during shipping. Then I keep them in the band pots in the shade for a couple of days and then, when I have time, I pot them up to one gallon pots. No fertilizer in the one gallon pots until you see they are established and growing well....See MoreLook what Came in the Mail (especially Rita)
Comments (9)I did that earlier in the season, that is tag plants that I intended to move either somewhere else in the garden or outta here. I am also back to work fixing up that area in the back were I dug out the gooseberry shrubs as I intend to plant daylilies there. Some will be there temporily as I am going to tackle the front yard section near the nice new (last year) front steps and just have to dig everything out. Much of it goes outta here but other things will move in there from other areas in the garden. Before any planting there needs to be grading and probably some mini terraces. I just couldn't deal with it last year or this spring but I know what I want and I think I know how to do it, will see once I start if it works. As far as finding odd and off the beaten track places to buy, I just love to find those great plants ( and sellers) that might not be so well known....See MoreNow what, MIL outburst at family event.
Comments (30)Ah, MILs! I actually don't have a complaint about my MIL. She lives in another country (probably part of the success of our relationship) and is a very sweet person. You don't hear many husbands complaining on message boards about their MILs, but I imagine my DH would have a lot to say. He told me this year (now 6 years into our marriage) that he almost didn't ask me to marry him because of my mother, who is controlling and narcissistic. I can't say I blame him, in retrospect. My mom would hug everyone in the room goodbye and shake his hand. She wanted to take me out to dinner for my birthday (on my birthday) and asked if DH (then my fiance) could pay for himself if he wanted to join us (he said, thanks, but no thanks, as did I). When DH and I (thankfully) moved to a different state nearby so he could pursue a business opportunity, my mom told me she thought he wanted to move away specifically to take ME away from HER. She has made all manner of rude comments and controlling efforts in his direction over the years. When I gave birth, she made a rude comment to my OB about DH (he was out of the room at that time, but I was there, laboring away). My DH remains polite and dislikes her so much he cannot bring himself to speak much to her when she visits. It's very clear where things stand. And yet, she still WANTS to come visit and tries to make me feel guilty she's not here more regularly. Her extraordinary capacity to deny reality (and believe that she's a "damn good" mother-in-law) amazes me! MILs out there, remember that if we could hear the other side of the story, it might appear far different than you think. You may have an uncommunicative son/daughter, but for all you know, your child's spouse nags them to call you. My husband has a fine set of parents (certainly they have their faults), but I regularly tell him to call them. How to bridge the gap between son and parents once he is married, I don't know, as my son is only 3. My brother is not yet married (although he already barely speaks to my mother and not at all to my father). My plan is to build a life of my own and not rely on my children to emotionally support me when I am old. It's a gift. I have no wish to be the emotional lifeline for my parents (yet admittedly, I already am for my father, who has no friends and no family, so I know what I'm talking about). I hope i am never one of those mothers inducing guilt because their son doesn't call or visit enough. I figure, it will be his choice. You can't force people to do things. I have been "guilt-tripped" into doing things for my own mother, and it only makes me want to run away. Plus, importantly, young people in their 20's/early 30's may still be discovering who they are apart from their parents. It may be important to them at this time to maintain more of a distance (certainly not always true, but in my case, this was true). If they go on to have children, I find that is typically when families may start to "reconnect" and the value of extended family is better understood by the new parent. Again, not always the case, but certainly true in mine. My mother now focuses all her controlling and needy love on my son, which is fine by me. He adores her. They are very close at this stage in his life (we'll see once he gains more independence), and I'm now expecting a girl which is exciting for all, particularly my mother....See Morestupidlazydog CT zone 5b/6a
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