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Comments (1)Consider setting up a small "Skippy" filter. They work great and are inexpensive to build. they can be used with either an external or submersible pump. Just do a search for "Skippy filter" and you'll find it. They can be made any size. Put your pump in a "cage" using two planting baskets and quick ties. This helps keep the pump from getting pluged so quickly. You will probably need to remove the batting filter after yhe Skippy gets seasoned. Hope this helps a little....See MoreHelp me understand this....
Comments (24)Does anyone think the historic village market has potential? There's another one in an old mill town, very small space, not accepting new vendors (I've been trying for 4 years), bad parking but it's a yuppie town. They're going to be re-doing the intersection next year, and I don't know how that will affect the market (I think it will probably close during construction, it will be a mess). But it's Sunday morning, and it's very busy. The village I'm thinking about might not have the cachet of the other since the Hitchcock Chair factory closed, but both are on rivers, scenic drives, historic districts, and IMHO Riverton is more quaint and walkable than Collinsville. The fair grounds are spacious and well-known, the fair has been going on for over 100 years and is pretty well-attended, being the last fair of the season in the area. But that's the only big draw to the town now, they don't use the fairgrounds for festivals or anything the other 51 weekends a year. Of course we would have to advertise heavily but the town might help out (market fees or a large portion would have to go to the Ag Society that owns the property) since they've been trying to get more tourists into the historical/retail district. Of course I expect locals might do some shopping there too, though an awfully lot of people have gardens there (as opposed to Canton/Collinsville with the McMansions). So there won't be as many local regulars in Riverton but it's the best I can come up with since other markets are full, expensive, and/or have absurdly short seasons (a new one started in Avon this year was only July and August and $30/week!). I looked into a banner at Vistaprint and it's $60, will have to wait for a good sale (33% off just ended). As I said, I have been wearing the same almost-JD-green shirt all month, and they only had me move my booth this week b/c there were half the vendors that we usually have, and I would have literally been stuck my myself at one end. The move up to the MM's end seems to have helped - I think the lady was confused b/c there was NOBODY at the end where the apiary and I usually are, near the entertainment at the end of the row where the orchard and BBQ sauce guy usually are. There were at least 5 booths missing from that row this week, maybe it wasn't 100ft from where I usually set up, but it was definitely more than 50ft (the length of my house) - the entire width of the parking lot from the building (strip mall) to the curb. I could have set up in the apiary's spot and been next to the conventional farm's double booth, but I don't think the MM wanted their stall and the soap lady's to be the only ones on that side. I do plan on getting a banner, but have been spending $ on the HT this year. People don't really read anything anyway - I have the white board out with prices, sometimes I also put prices on the "CT Grown" bin tags, no one reads the white board, lady asked if my tomatoes "would taste like local" (?) another asked if they were CT Grown(???), and everyone asks me how much something is, even if it's priced in both places. The banner would just be something memorable for the graphic like (hopefully) a distinctively colored shirt. I don't expect people to actually remember the farm name or any other info, just recognize the graphic when they see it. If I can get shirt(s) in some color other than white I'll do that, that's why I'm thinking blue full-front apron with embroidered name, my business cards (which I've been handing out a lot of, but no new hits on my FB page) have a blue floral design and farm name in script, I've designed a banner with similar (gray) floral corners and blue script, with address/phone in block print. Just waiting for the price to come down, will get that for next year....See MoreOffensive e-mail? Help me understand this!
Comments (58)"To make a short story long :) my point is this thread has been to identify my personal responsibility in this situation. Have I contributed to the negativity? Was I showing condescension in the email without realizing it? What are my obligations to stay in contact with my sister? Have I been insensitive? Have I been TOO sensitive? In other words, is there any chance that changing myself would make it possible for me to have a harmonious relationship with her?" This implies that you still think her reactions are based substantially on your actions -- which, in a typical relationship, they would be. Normal people interact. So normally, there's reciprocity, a give and take. Kindness is met with kindness, hostility with hostility. Conversations meander down a natural path directed more or less equally by both people. But narcissists don't work that way. They have their own agendas and scripts based on their own needs, and if you don't follow their scripts, you are 'breaking their rules' and will always be punished - get a negative response. Narcissists use other people to meet their own needs, and the number one rule for dealing with a narcissist is this simple: If you aren't useful (as a source for whatever the narcissist needs), you are useless! (with all the scorn that word implies) "I accept that she is that way and try to refrain from making judgments. I simply separate myself from the situation since it serves no good purpose to remain engaged." Perfect! Just remove yourself emotionally from the interaction. Pleasant but superficial responses are generally safe. Some benign flattery every so often. But no soul-searching conversations, no striving for a deeper emotional connection, no revealing of sisterly secrets......See MoreHelp me understand rear-center vs. left/right offset drain...
Comments (2)Not sure if pullouts on both sides is feasible or not. My plan is to have a recycling pullout on the left, and I keep a simple trash can, not a pullout, on the right in front of the GD. (This is a 36" cab.)...See Morenickel_kg
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