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Comments (13)Lars, I'm going to have to get some black vinegar and give it a try. I tried looking for the Shirakiku online but had no luck. I live out in gold country, pretty far from the Asian markets in Sacramento. So I'm not sure I'd get an opportunity to shop in person for that brand. If you've got an online source, please let me know. Annie, thanks for your input. I understand the idea that Bragg's might have more health benefits than soy sauce. I just don't understand why low sodium blogs keep suggesting it as a lower sodium alternative to soy sauce. It doesn't seem to be lower in sodium than grocery store low sodium soy sauce products. Teresa, you stumbled upon a true mystery. I went online and found the exact same information about regular House of Tsang soy sauce. I'm with you -- how does the low sodium version end up with more sodium than the regular version? I really appreciate all the comments. This issue has bothered me for several years now....See MoreOffensive e-mail? Help me understand this!
Comments (58)"To make a short story long :) my point is this thread has been to identify my personal responsibility in this situation. Have I contributed to the negativity? Was I showing condescension in the email without realizing it? What are my obligations to stay in contact with my sister? Have I been insensitive? Have I been TOO sensitive? In other words, is there any chance that changing myself would make it possible for me to have a harmonious relationship with her?" This implies that you still think her reactions are based substantially on your actions -- which, in a typical relationship, they would be. Normal people interact. So normally, there's reciprocity, a give and take. Kindness is met with kindness, hostility with hostility. Conversations meander down a natural path directed more or less equally by both people. But narcissists don't work that way. They have their own agendas and scripts based on their own needs, and if you don't follow their scripts, you are 'breaking their rules' and will always be punished - get a negative response. Narcissists use other people to meet their own needs, and the number one rule for dealing with a narcissist is this simple: If you aren't useful (as a source for whatever the narcissist needs), you are useless! (with all the scorn that word implies) "I accept that she is that way and try to refrain from making judgments. I simply separate myself from the situation since it serves no good purpose to remain engaged." Perfect! Just remove yourself emotionally from the interaction. Pleasant but superficial responses are generally safe. Some benign flattery every so often. But no soul-searching conversations, no striving for a deeper emotional connection, no revealing of sisterly secrets......See Morehelp me understand this
Comments (37)How mature? How moronic? Hardly mentionable? DonÂt get the need for HM to incorrectly extrapolate or correlate a difference of opinions on the highly political HT board to a very logical, legit, non-political and timely question about the rescue of animals from overseas on the pet debate forum. HM seems to be dragging some baggage around concerning FF. Jeeze FF, just what did you say on the HT board? Big time thick skin for the hot topics board. That board will have you curled up and drooling in the fetal position, protecting your vital organs and crying for your Momma in no time. I love that board...See MoreSomeone help me understand my yellow grout problem
Comments (110)Wow...I am shocked by your fathers response to what is clearly a problem that he significantly contributed to. If you are able to find one of the tile pros from John Bridge who works in your area...you would very likely be in good hands. There should be no delay in getting onto the JB site to ask questions. I think the delay is just for uploading pictures. Be prepared though because they may also suggest you need to start over if you want certainty that it is done properly. On the bright side, at least it looks like your husband has discovered the source of the water behind the wall ( it's hard to understand why this wasn't investigated by the crew that did the original tear out ). While it does not address the shower waterproofing/ material suitability issues it is at least a step in the right direction....See More- 6 years agolast modified: 6 years ago
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