Can builder sign with another buyer if I'm still under contract
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Signed Builder's Contract, Now To Make Experience Enjoyable?
Comments (4)Let's see... 1) Only read the happy posts here if you want it to be fun. Otherwise you'll have your mood dampened. And you'll start worrying about things that might never come to pass with your build. 2) Go live far, far away from the building site, where you cannot be contacted. Leave your cell phone at home. Give a Power of Attorney to someone who will have the authority to make all decisions, execute all documents on your behalf. 3) Plan fun, busy, yet relaxing things to do while you're away. Like on the extreme makeover shows where they send the family away to have fun while they build their house. They'll bring you back when it's time to move in! That's about it. Since you will NOT do those things, or cannot do those things, here are my alternative suggestions: 1A) Decide how much of your time and life's energy you are willing to devote to the build. As you go along you'll learn how to adjust those personal resources to adequately meet the demands of your tasks. Heed the word 'adequately'. Aim to do the least possible; lower your standards; keep everything simple; decide that some things can be done badly. How shocking! 2A) Clear your and your family's schedules for the duration of the build--not just the builder's projected timetable. Because during the build you will have lots of "little emergencies" and "we need a decision by tomorrows" to contend with. If little Johnny has taken up martial arts in addition to another after-school activity, the whole family will suffer. Everyone must scale back their schedule. Everyone must have unscheduled time that is available for the demands of the build. They will feel put-upon, and act martyred and you will feel guilty. But the family will fare better for it. Plan some fun, easily taken up and put-down family activities to fill any unscheduled hours that remain unclaimed by the build. (You will not do this either, because it seems either unnecessary or too burdensome on the poor children; you--and they-- will live to regret that decision.) 3A) Whichever adult has the most flexible schedule, and/or is thought to be the design whiz, will become the most stressed out one. She should, in advance, write into her schedule, inviolable times for favorite stress-reducing activities every: day (20 mins. 3 x daily); week (1 hour away from it all at least 3 x weekly); a monthly 3-day mini-vacation if she borrows a friend's basement to retreat to and sits by the window sipping tea. You will not do this either, since it seems entirely too greedy and you simply can't get away like this. The entire family will suffer as a result and come to resent you for getting snippy, full of sighs, catching more colds, whatever form of nastiness attacks you when you are overly stressed. 4A) Cultivate your sense of humor. Collect cartoons and funny sayings. Develop a mantra. These things will serve you well. Because while the process might not be FUN, it can at least be FUNNY! Others will fill in here with far cheerier advice than mine. I'm of the school that says, plan for the worst and then you'll be pleasantly surprised....See MoreHow many meetings with custom home builder before signing contract?
Comments (13)We have a gem of a builder! We knew he was the "right one" after the second meeting. That said, he has worked with us through three separate house plans. The first ones were drafted before we met him, and it was b/c we decided to shop the plans after getting what we thought was an inflated price from the GC/Developer we had purchased the lot from that we met him; those plans were scrapped for a variety of reasons -- too many design compromises were going to leave us w/a nice house, but not the same house we had envisioned for 8 months. We worked with/our "now" builder through two more sets of plans (a departure and finally our third and final plan that represents the best of both worlds!) We logged more than 200 hours of meetings w/our "now" builder before ever signing a contract -- and that doesn't count the hours he accompanied us at the Architect, building supply, millwork shop, window vendor, etc. He stood by us through a lengthy sales process for our former residence and an unexpected change in employment. It's not like we're not his only build, he has 7-8 going right now, but I still get daily calls and texts w/progress reports, am welcome at the building site "anytime," and usually meet 1-2 times a week at the site (including weekends!) just to recap what has been done and prep for what is coming up next. This is the way he treats all his builds! We feel absolutely blessed and are so very grateful to have him heading up our build. Everything really does happen for a reason -- even though you usually lose sight of that when you're in the midst of things. Best of luck to you on your build!...See MoreNervous about unusual contract terms with production builder
Comments (26)The first home we built was a tract home like this...I completely understand not wanting to build this way, but I am also aware that sometimes that's the only way you can get in the area you want. That was the situation we were in at the time. I had done a complete gut/remodel/addition on a 100 yr old farm house with a local small builder and loved it...we were moving to an area where small builders weren't an option as there was no land not owned by production builders and there was NOTHING on the market that met our needs our could be rehabbed to meet our needs within the budget....so production build is what we did. I agree with everyone that the contracts are 100% in favor of the builder and it depends on the builder (I'm assuming it's really how much they get from the lender) on what they're willing to allow you to negotiate. I was able to change nothing in my contract yet my cousin building at the same time with a different builder was able to make adjustments... BUT what I will tell you in hindsight...I wouldn't do ANY upgrades. I did the ones that we thought made sense...wood flooring throughout, cabinets...the things that seemed wasteful or very intrusive to do later. I regretted it. With the flooring, we paid a ridiculous amount to upgrade to was still crappy. It was still builder grade. Same with cabinets. We would have been money ahead to build basic and add the upgrades after possession. Had I done that I would have gotten better flooring for 1/2 the price. I did rip out my counters and used the original ones in the garage. I got a higher level granite for the same price they were offering level 1. I wish I'd done that with the floors and cabinets! Just something to think about....could save you some money upfront and heartache in the end. Good luck!...See MoreBuilder Increasing Cost After Signing Contract
Comments (30)I don’t think you are alone in prices rising. Bite the bullet or walk away. Everyone is over a barrel thanks to fossil fuel production being shut down on FEDERAL LANDS. So we are importing fossil fuel from all over the world. Barrel costs have gone from 40 dollars a barrel to 70 a barrel in 6 months, and rising. Everything moves on fossil fuel transport. Everyone is in a pinch..... your builder needs to survive and you need a house. This is the new reality. Your builder is passing his costs on to you.....as is every other contractor in the nation. Just be grateful interests rates are amazingly low. A long term low cost mortgage will save you a lot of money long after you have moved into your home! Good luck....See MoreKristin S
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