Crazy query regarding donation of clothing
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Comments (55)Hi, Carrie & Shore - we don't actually have a house yet, but we're working on it - saw a couple of good ones yesterday, but still want to do more looking. Carrie, I thought SC was nice for the brief 3 1/2 months I was there - but a better opportunity arose in AL, so off we went! I like AL too, though, so far - I'm pretty easy where I go, as long as I have a place to garden :). Shore, I'm not going anywhere for Christmas - my DD, whom we haven't seen since last Christmas, is flying over from "across the pond" on Christmas Eve - what a nice gift!...See Moreregarding bats
Comments (41)Last night I had a interesting thing happen to me. I had just done my first Angelic connection with meditation, candles and certain harmonic rituals when I came upstairs and was relaxing. My husband was asleep upstairs . All of the sudden, what was to me a bird came flying past my head. It was small, 4 inches or so. It flew over me a few more times and then realized that it was a bat! I got my phone and started videotaping my cat going after . was encouraging my cat to kill .. inbetween my cats food and water dishes for several minutes as my cat looked puzzled. All of the sudden it just took off!!! It flew straight up in the air. Into the kitchen ( filming and screaming!). It landed on window sill, tucked it's wings (hung out). Then proceeded around. Finally landing on the kitchen mat by the back door. Paying (again). MY cat Boots was stumped this behavior left the room. started feeling like there was more to this than meets the eye. went and googled "a bat in your house" and to my surprise ***Bats Symbols of transition, initiation and the start of a new beginning. They Symbolize Death and rebirth. Death in the sense of letting go of the old and bringing in the new! In the Chinese culture bats are Symbols of Good luck. Chinese word for bat is " pronounced the same as the word for "Good Fortune" Upon reading all of this just horrible. I had covered the bat with and put a heavy stone pizza plate over the bowl so that the bat could not escape. Now I put my cat, got my phone/camera ready and uncovered the plate and bowl. He was just laying there. Lifeless. wwent to find a proper box so that I could give him a proper burial in the morning, got latex gloves on and went to move him he lifted his head!!! I jumped back !! So now I knew that once again, he wasn't ! turned off all of the lights in the house and got within a few inches of his face and just talked to him for a bit. I told him that I hoped that he would be alright and that had I known of the Symbolism, that I would have been appreciative of his presence. He truly looked sweet and cute. He had cute little itty bitty hands and without wings was only an inch wide and not much longer. He was furry like a teddy bear. left a note for my husband asking him NOT kill the bat and not to let our cat in. When he got up to around 4 bat had moved a different part of the kitchen /, and my husband picked him up and placed him on our shelf on our bbq an hour or so later when the paper came the bat was gone. Okay, so there you have it! My experience was of a Spiritual one * in my opinion * we live on the Ocean Washington State. Have a newer home with no attic, have 2 fireplaces that have closed glass doors and have never seen a bat! My conclusion is that there are good forces out there and that I got visited by one ....See MoreWhat's the best outdoor clothes dryer?
Comments (14)Having grass under your lines is a plus because you will drop stuff from time to time. Even now in the depths of winter in the NE I have dried grass (over frozen earth) so the corner of a sheet that slips out of my finger doesn't get muddy. When I first set up my lines I didn't have thick turf and I made a few unprintable comments when fresh white laundry got mud on on it. My mother had her rotatry set up on a slate terrace with sand between the slates and stuff sometimes got sand on it. I have always thought a really cool thing to do would be to have a raised bed of lavendar bushes running just under a long run of parallel lines. Then you'd have the scent of lavendar on things when the bushes were in bloom and if they touched any of the veg. under neath the lines you'd still get a nice smell. Unfortunately where I am lavendar requires sun and wind sheltering to survive so I can't do it. Retractable long lines are a neat idea, esp. on a small property. And they might be an excellent first step into the world of clothes drying. If you find you like the routine of line drying, then you could add a smaller rotary umbrella to accomodate additional items. For large flat things long lines are the best as they produce the most wrinkle-free items and sheets and blankets tend to block fast drying on rotary umbrellas, at least on marginal drying days. I was planning to add some more long lines to my set-up this summer, but the Hills dryer I mentioned got me thinking about adding another rotary. Retractable lines (and rotary umbrellas that are taken down between wash days) would probably be best in city lot because then you'd have less problem with the lines getting grubby from air pollution. Since you have a small lot a retractable and/or removable set-up might be the best. I think I once saw a project in one of Martha's mags about a retractable set-up that also had a retractable long awning above it to provide shade for delicate stuff, but I think it would be great for days when the weather is a bit iffy. I will look at the breezedryer you suggested. It sounds intersting. PS, be sure to buy beefy spring wooden clothespins (Diamond is a good brand). There are some skinny ones out there that don't hold up. Molly~...See Morethose damn pants!!!!!
Comments (27)"Does BM have a home phone? Can DH call there and ask to speak to SD . . . just to get BM to admit she isn't there? Or even call her cell and ask?" We've taken the stance that it really doesn't matter if she is or isn't with BM. In fact, we get the feeling BM's mom took SD into DH's work to make sure he knew SD was not with BM as if to get him to call and demand why SD isn't with her (because she's called DH to demand to know why SD wasn't with him on the morning of her B-day) and she probably would like to tell him, "what are you gonna do about it?" and the truth is... BM has the opportunity to have her daughter with her for 10 days... SD was excited about seeing her for 10 days and it's not DH's problem if she chooses to not spend it with her daughter. He can't 'make' BM keep her daughter with her and the order says it's BM's time, so he can't bring SD here. Unfortunately, he did not get an order with ROFR. We cannot stop BM from disappointing her daughter but we are preparing to pick up pieces when she comes back on Sunday. We are spending Sunday driving up the coast and decided today that we will let BM know to call DH's parents or my dad if there is an emergency and then we will turn off our phones for the day. I may bring my daughter's cell phone so they can reach us since BM doesn't have that number. It seems like a lot of coordinating to avoid the drama she caused during every trip we've ever taken. If she knows we are going somewhere, our phone rings all day.. text messages... emergencies arise... and then she wants to change from the order, like her car broke down and she'll be late or whatever else she can think of~ you get the picture. Sunday at 6 at BM's house means Sunday at 6 at BM's house. The outfit: Not for a moment did I think her email was about the clothes. It goes back to three years ago when I let SD wear my wedding tiara for fairytale day at school & BM yanked it out of her hair and told her she can't wear it. She's pulled pony tails out of SD's hair because I did them. and all the other things she's done to SD because she doesn't like that I am a part of it. For a long time, I refused to do anything for SD that crossed those so called 'boundaries' for fear BM would go off on DH for it. I used to resent it because she put me in a position as custodial SM to do those things for SD but then she resented anything I did. I was damned (by BM) if i did for her, damned (by SD) if I didn't. Finally, SD is admitting that her mom is hurting her and she has opened up to me and that fear of pissing off BM has lifted... because now I am beginning to feel I have SD's support in standing up to BM's craziness. SD is in a tough position right now because she is with BM and/or her family this week and she'll do whatever they say when she's there. It's just crazy that she would have her call first thing in the morning to ask about something that is weeks away if it's happening at all....See MoreElmer J Fudd
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