Why are my cuttings already molding only after 2 weeks?
Heruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years ago
Featured Answer
Sort by:Oldest
Comments (49)
User
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoRelated Discussions
Leaves wilting after cuttings transplanted from perlite 2 soilmix
Comments (3)I am new to rooting cuttings. I slowly transistioned my cuttings from 70/30 perlite /soil mix. This was my process from start to finish. Maybe you can figure out something for yourselves. 1) rooted in water or sphagnum moss 2) Put in soil mix of 70% perlite/ 30% pro-MIX soil 3) put in bins with 100% humidity 4) Once rooted to my liking, transferred to 50/50 mix of same components in 1 gal pots. 5) Put pots near North facing window out of direct light. used humidifier to raise humidity level in room to 90-100% 6) Over the course of a week, slowly lowered the humidity in room to normal levels by turning humidifier on and off at different intervals 7 Once in room for a day or two at normal levels, move to room with south facing light 8) Transfer outside to shade to acclimate outside, slowly acclimate to light I still have lost some cuttings due to poor root development. At least 2/3 have survived to this point, which is outside in shade. Good luck! I'm new to this so take it with a grain of salt....See MoreAfter 6 weeks only 3 leaves. Will it ever grow?
Comments (14)MATURE fig trees certainly can handle hot weather. However, to get a YOUNG in ground tree to grow as rapidly as possible......keep the ground always moist. This will allow a strong root system to develop quickly. After a year or two in the ground they will be much better able to handle dry conditions. I live in zone 9 and do not give my fig trees any fertilizer after the middle of August. This is done to discourage too much tender green growth that may not have enough time to harden off (lignify) before the arrival of cold weather. Fig tree growth that is too green is damaged easily by cold weather. That is likely why your orchard man told you not to fertilize your tree until spring. It also helps harden off your fig tree for the winter if you lessen the amount of water that you give it a month or two before cold weather arrives in your area. Making your tree thirsty for water just before winter will help it survive cold weather. Dan...See MoreWhite stains appearing on my black pants after a week in a closet
Comments (323)I'm glad I found this forum. This is literally the only thing I found that directly addresses this problem. I knew I couldn't be the only one. Since I switched to using shea body butters, I've been having this issue. After some research, I think I found a solution that has been working so far: Tide Hygienic Clean Heavy 10x Duty Liquid Laundry Detergent & Nature's Miracle Laundry Boost. I chose these two based on reviews that stated how well they work on oil stains. So, I put my clothes on the soak cycle in the washer (using these two products) and let it sit for most of the day (about 6-8 hours) in hot water. Then I wash on the longest cycle in hot water. So far, I have not been getting the white residue after several days like before. I also tried this method with Oxiclean (swapped it for the Nature's Miracle), and it worked pretty well too. A couple of shirts had a small dusting of white residue after a few days that I could easily brush off. Also, I make sure to loosely load my washer; I use around a medium load for a large wash cycle. I'm going to experiment with warm water to see if I can save some energy and help decrease the fading over time. And possibly see if it works without soaking....See MoreWhy I Cut My MIL Off
Comments (42)"...cindylou, imagine if you can what it would be like after all you and your husband have experienced with your MIL if your own children grew up and estranged you..." If I had a child who estranged me, I would not think it had anything to do or not to do with my MIL. I would not think that they owed me a relationship because I tolerated my MIL (maybe I misunderstood what you meant by connecting my MIL into that idea). If my child estranged me suddenly and with no warning and if I asked and they said, "You know", and I truly didn't, I would make the assumption they didn't quite didn't know themselves. That they have feelings and upsets they don't quite understand themselves and that they needed time away from me to work them out. (This is assuming there's no mental illness or addiction. If there is mental illness or addiction, then I do know and frankly, maybe I'm just getting too old, but I've seen the hopelessness and heartache of addiction and mental illness, and I think I'd just be grateful for being cut out). More likely, I would have been told the answer. And I'd accept it, even if it didn't make sense. "Because you wore blue to my kindergaren graduation." Huh? Ok. I don't think I'd argue. I can't imagine arguing with an adult child. They are an adult. I barely argue with them now. My parents didn't argue with me, I never saw them argue with their parents. My aunts and uncles on both sides didn't argue with either their adult children or their parents. It's just not done. I can't imagine it. There are differences of opinion and hurt feelings and misunderstandings and on rare occasions, conflict between adult members of my extended family. Of course there is. But everyone seems to understand a basic rule. I live my life and you live yours, and I can offer my opinion and it's fair if you don't follow it. The person who's business it is, gets the final say. The person who has the most responsibility gets to decide. The person who takes the biggest risk chooses. We are none of us perfect people; but we don't squabble and manipulate and gang up on each other and form one alliance and then another to force family members to do what we want. And we don't stab each other in the back. That's such a bizarre concept to me. And we are very close--without melodrama. There's not a lot of conflict. So if a child told me, "I don't want contact from you because you wouldn't let me go to Aruba on spring break." I'd respect that. I'd figure sooner or later they'd understand. Or if not, sooner or later it wouldn't matter any more. I would absolutely believe that eventually they'd come back. Not the way they were, it wouldn't be the same relationship, but had we stayed close, it wouldn't be the same relationship at 30 as it was at 20 or 10. Would I miss them and be hurt. You bet. But I'd be comforted that I would see them again and focus on the other blessings of my life while I waited. I truly believe that if you love something you let it go, and if it loves you, it will come back. And if it doesn't come back, you never had it to begin with. If after 10 or 20 years there was still no contact, I'd have to face the fact that it's probably for the best. We didn't have the relationship I thought we had; I didn't know them, and we obviously weren't a match even if they have half my DNA. Do I hope to have close, intimate relationships with the families of my adult children? Of course. But I will be happy with any non exploitive relationship my children feel comfortable with. I may want more contact or less, depending on the personalities, but perfection doesn't happen in relationships; it's like tension between togetherness and individuality that has to be worked out in a marriage. When your children are adults with families, you renegotiate your relationship, and if it REALLY doesn't work for someone, you might have to walk away. Sad, painful, but realistic. I have a coworker who is retiring and moving to be closer to her daughter and grandchildren. They are delighted to have her. On a recent house hunting trip she was dismayed that her daughter seemed to expect/demand a lot of babysitting from her. She's not moving there to take on the responsibility of babysitting her grandchildren, altho she does hope to see a lot of them and participate in their lives. Things were tense as she attempted to come to understanding with her daughter. She came back and asked if things don't work out in the other state, can she have her job back. I sometimes in the past had wondered if she's a meddling MIL so much does she talk about her grandchildren. But I see now she's got a life outside them and is not exploiting her daughter's family to fill the emptiness (if any) in her own life. And she's not going to allow herself to be exploited by her daughter however much she loves her family. She sees her standing up for herself may result in a cut off; and I respect her handling of this delicate situation. I'm sure it will all work out, but I can see myself in her place; in any relationship, there's always the possibility that you or the other person will walk away for whatever reason. You may think, oh yeah, you are so philosophical, just wait until it happens to you. Well, like anything, what choices do you have: you either accept with grace or you don't. How does not accepting with grace help anything? The ends don't justify the means. Bullying, manipulating, harassing, yelling...none of that is going to help. If you accept with grace, while you are waiting for the problem to resolve itself enough so the child talks to you again with a willingness to compromise, at least you can still have meaning and pleasure in your life. It also gives you time to reflect as well. It might not be that you did something WRONG, it's just that you don't mesh well. And you can measure in the absence how you and your adult child's family don't mesh and what you are willing to compromise to make the relationship more pleasant for EVERYONE. "Mom, you can never be unsupervised with my kids." "Why?" "Because you are a taurus". Huh? Well, that makes no sense to me. But why jeopardize my supervised visits with my grandchildren which can be wonderful by arguing if being a taurus prevents one from being a good grandma or not. Why fill that time with strife and anger and posturing and demands and righteousness and counter accusations when I can be on the floor playing Candyland and angling for the chocolate swamp or coloring in Barbie coloring books or stacking Lincoln logs as high as the sky. Who cares if DIL is glaring at me when my darling grandson and I are holding our breathes to see if we can make a Pixie Stix teepee? I believe letting them go gracefully gets them back eventually, and if it doesn't, the relationship would have just caused heartache all around anyway, estranged or not....See MoreUser
4 years agodavidrt28 (zone 7)
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agodavidrt28 (zone 7)
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agodavidrt28 (zone 7)
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agodavidrt28 (zone 7)
4 years agodavidrt28 (zone 7)
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agoken_adrian Adrian MI cold Z5
4 years agoEmbothrium
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agoSara Malone Zone 9b
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoJay 6a Chicago
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoJacob Bisharat VA zone 7A/7B
4 years agoJay 6a Chicago
4 years agoUser
4 years agoJacob Bisharat VA zone 7A/7B
4 years agoUser
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agoken_adrian Adrian MI cold Z5
4 years agoUser
4 years agolast modified: 4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years agoHeruga (7a Northern NJ)
4 years agoUser
4 years ago
Related Stories
STORAGE2 Weeks + $2,000 = 1 Savvy Storage Shed
This homeowner took backyard storage and modern style into his own hands, building a shed with reclaimed redwood and ingenuity
Full StoryBASEMENTSBasement of the Week: Smart Cost Cutting, Beautiful Results
A stylish multipurpose basement for less than half the usual cost? See the budget-saving tricks that helped this underground space
Full StoryKITCHEN OF THE WEEKKitchen of the Week: The Calm After the Storm
Ravaged by Hurricane Sandy, a suburban New York kitchen is reborn as a light-filled space with a serene, soothing palette
Full StoryKITCHEN DESIGNNew This Week: 2 Kitchens That Show How to Mix Materials
See how these kitchens combine textures, colors and materials into a harmonious whole
Full StoryFARMHOUSESNew This Week: 2 Charming Farmhouse Kitchens With Modern Convenience
These spaces have all of today’s function with yesteryear’s simplicity and character
Full StoryBATHROOM MAKEOVERSAfter Just 2 ‘Uh-Oh’ Moments, a New Master Bath
Thanks to their DIY efforts and perseverance, an enterprising couple get a pretty new bathroom for $1,000
Full StoryDECORATING GUIDESHouzz Tour: 2 Weeks to an Apartment Transformation
Speedy didn't mean skimpy for this couple's Santa Monica rental, thanks to a designer who thrives on tight deadlines
Full StoryHOUZZ CALLWhat’s the Best Way to Spend the Week After Christmas?
Do you catch up on home projects and reading? Or do you like to get out of town? Please share what has worked for you!
Full StorySMALL SPACESBefore and After: Storage Spot to Backyard Bungalow for $2,000
A budget-friendly redo turns a ho-hum pool house into a beachy oasis for entertaining and hosting houseguests
Full StoryINDUSTRIAL STYLENew This Week: 2 Industrial Kitchens to Inspire Your Next Remodel
Bored with white kitchens? Introduce concrete and steel elements for modern industrial style that doesn’t disappoint
Full Story
davidrt28 (zone 7)