Day bed for 11 year old boy?
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Comments (43)I don't think it's right to tell your child what to do at the other parent's place, if it's undermining the other parent - if it's really a concern (and one should choose one's battles) if you can civilly discuss it with the other parent, much the better. Kids are stuck in the middle. You also have to take what your kid says with a grain of salt sometimes ("what?? my child never lies..." hot flash- kids do lie.) - they will say what they think the parent wants to hear, especially if one parent is domineering or they are afraid of them. DD would go home to mum after having an enjoyable stay with me and tell her nothing but bad things, things that didn't even happen....like how dad gives her a hard time about this or that. Mum mentioned it to me, and I had to say, not how it happened. DD thought it was what angry mum wanted to hear. DD also mentioned to her sister (from whom I'm estranged) how she could get anything she wanted from me - not that I consider I was spoiling her by any stretch of the imagination, but....whatever. Mum, in a rare moment of shared co-operative parenthood told me how daughter had mentioned it, so I made sure I was not being hoodwinked. I know two boys whose parents are divorced, dad is a nut job, mom is a basket case but keeps kind of sort of stable, keeps up appearances which at least means kids are fed, go to school etc. Dad is some sort of undiagnosed bipolar, does drugs at home, has way too much money and spoils the boys, has all night poker games etc. The kids can do pretty much anything they want and miss a LOT of school when they are with dad. Boys went to live with mum. Went to school, things were a bit more normal. Mum is a bit uptight and probably wigged out about too many things but things were ok, but.... both boys decided they wanted to stay with dad. Kids don't really 'get' consequences, if they can do anything they like and get away with it, if one of their parents allow it, they'll probably choose the 'fun' parent. So son staying up late with dad probably isn't end of the world, but for your kids to get the best you have to dispassionately communicate with the other parent to do the best for the kids, and choose the battles. Unless other parent really is a (and not just you being petty, for example) danger to the kid, as it were, choose your battle, accept what the other parent does differently within reason, and never EVER undermine the other parent in front of, or to the children. My ex did that, since long before she became the ex, and both kids can be people I don't like very much at times. Mum is suddenly realising this now, too late, and can't do anything about it. On the other hand, newgardenelf, no offense but BE A PARENT - age 14 is young for a cellphone with unrestricted use...I would argue they should be set to receive calls only and only able to call you and emergency numbers....but here's a thought - 9.30 is a reasonable bedtime but that will have to change as dd gets older, HOWEVER - turn her phone off when she goes to bed. DOn't tell her, just turn it off. Not appropriate to relay calls after bedtime....See More7 year old boys befroom furniture...rop
Comments (7)I wouldn't actually try to match features of the house. He's young and you want this bed to work in any house. I went for a darker wood, not totally black, not light, pretty non period specific and I did do a trundle. I know some day he will have friends over, and his room isn't huge, nor did I want bunks because they would block too much of his wall space (we have murals on the wall). I really like the option we went with, which I think is fairly transitional to any age or decorating style. This is a terrible picture (of both him and the bed) but the best I could find...I think it's similar to a few in the link you provided. The trundle is actually not quite in the pic, but the bedding on it is the white line on the right of the pic (as you're facing it). It slides out quite easily. We actually used it for toys for quite a while as we were getting settled in the new place, but added the trundle finally when we were finished. At 7 you probably need the trundle now :) I wanted something that would work in the theme of this room (1930's safari tent) but also work with his antiques in the future (he has a chest and this amoire next to the bed). Trying to match finishes on wood makes me crazy and to me is too matchy matchy...so I liked this one because it was dark, but not painted dark, and yet not light (I hate blonde wood myself...but that's just me). This bed is pottery barn I think....See MoreUser
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